EIJAZ PSYCHOLOGICAL ISSUES/ DT Nt pg 2 - Page 2

Originally posted by: _Fantasy_

That's great. I don't know him personally and so can only judge on what he's doing on the show. I haven't watched any of his other shows either.

Nobody should be judged on their mental health which is why I asked if these issues had been confirmed.

No offense but if you're having these kind of problems then such a show is not going to help, it may only make matters worse. Not just that he's not doing himself any favours with his reactions, whomever doesn't know him personally is going to judge them on them.

Oh trust me I know he should not of went there and when he told me away back in June he might take it up , I told him also that it was a stupid move but his choice and as a friend I would support him ... but definitely did not want him to be exposed in such a place

If he is suffering from depression then BB is definitely not a place for him ...and it is not right for other contestants also...because they are bound to bring up his changing behaviour it can be insensitive but its natural because at times i also think Ejaz has split personality ...at times he can take alot of flak quietly and at times he becomes very hyper

Keeping his condition aside ..anyone thinks he is encouraging Pavitra for romance angle ? He is telling Kavita and Nikki there is nothing from his side and he will clear it and then goes hugging Pavitra..with heart roti extra ... I am wondering if he is doing that for footage ?

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

If he is suffering from depression then BB is definitely not a place for him ...and it is not right for other contestants also...because they are bound to bring up his changing behaviour it can be insensitive but its natural because at times i also think Ejaz has split personality ...at times he can take alot of flak quietly and at times he becomes very hyper

Keeping his condition aside ..anyone thinks he is encouraging Pavitra for romance angle ? He is telling Kavita and Nikki there is nothing from his side and he will clear it and then goes hugging Pavitra..with heart roti extra ... I am wondering if he is doing that for footage ?

No i dont think he is encouraging her! She is being super nice to him(may be genuinely or may be for game) and he cant be rude to her! He did that once, told her to keep distance and time and again he is clearing that he aint and wont return those feelings!

He is respecting her feelings and is trying to gently make her understand!

And I think there is nothing wrong being friends and hugging your friends!

People complain about back pain everyday on the show

Rahul couldn't do dishes but no back pain when he tackled Abhinav and Jasmin

People with mental illness deserve as much chance to be on the show as anyone else, things do work as a trigger but it is responsibility of their employer to provide them with best medical care they can

Disqualification or leaving the show is understandable in Debolina's case

One contestant was allowed to back out from task because she was hydrophobic, they are normal people not invalids who shouldn't be on the show.

This is just my opinion that if you are considerate enough around people with physical injuries, one can surely create a good environment for mental health

If bigg boss house is not good for mentally ill individuals, they should improve the quality of their show

Originally posted by: peeyara

No i dont think he is encouraging her! She is being super nice to him(may be genuinely or may be for game) and he cant be rude to her! He did that once, told her to keep distance and time and again he is clearing that he aint and wont return those feelings!

He is respecting her feelings and is trying to gently make her understand!

And I think there is nothing wrong being friends and hugging your friends!

He is not telling Pavitra directly..i have not seen him trying to clear this with Pavitra ...he is telling Nikki and Kavita etc

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

If he is suffering from depression then BB is definitely not a place for him ...and it is not right for other contestants also...because they are bound to bring up his changing behaviour it can be insensitive but its natural because at times i also think Ejaz has split personality ...at times he can take alot of flak quietly and at times he becomes very hyper

Keeping his condition aside ..anyone thinks he is encouraging Pavitra for romance angle ? He is telling Kavita and Nikki there is nothing from his side and he will clear it and then goes hugging Pavitra..with heart roti extra ... I am wondering if he is doing that for footage ?

I agree with the last part

If he doesn't want to encourage her, he shouldn't kiss her or ask people not to make a scene around them like Pavitra did when Rahul raised that crush issue, he won't be as rude as Pavitra but there's no point leading her on unless he wants footage and he is getting it from the fake romance so to each his own

Originally posted by: Aegon

People complain about back pain everyday on the show

Rahul couldn't do dishes but no back pain when he tackled Abhinav and Jasmin

People with mental illness deserve as much chance to be on the show as anyone else, things do work as a trigger but it is responsibility of their employer to provide them with best medical care they can

Disqualification or leaving the show is understandable in Debolina's case

One contestant was allowed to back out from task because she was hydrophobic, they are normal people not invalids who shouldn't be on the show.

This is just my opinion that if you are considerate enough around people with physical injuries, one can surely create a good environment for mental health

If bigg boss house is not good for mentally ill individuals, they should improve the quality of their show

Agree but the concept of the show is such that conflicts cannot be avoided

House full of 15 (approx) strangers ...locked inside with lack of sleep and food it can irritate anyone even if they are in healthy state of mind

If people think he is still mentally unstable and havent recovered totally, I wud say then Eijaz is doing great job even in that state! He is in total control of his emotions! He is yet to lose his temper given the shit thrown on him! The one thing that should be his trigger(a woman character assassinating him) have not made him lose his cool! He, infact, asked jas if u feel as such talk to me openly!

Some people are very expressive and their thoughts are on display on their face and I find Eijaz as one such guy and if that makes people think of him as crazy or psycho, they are welcome to think of it!

When others do jumping around, clapping, going beserj in excitement or making hand movements during talking, its entertainment BUT if Eijaz does same its cause he is psycho!

He is eccentric and weird but then its not mental illness! Many people have such weird tendencies or habits and it doesnt make then psycho or depressed soul! One of my cousin loves smell of gasoline and petrol and she smells them from vehicles😆 weird yes but not psycho!

I am so particular about drinking water and the glass and bottle used for it, it can drive people crazy😆 but hey I dont have any mental illness🤷

If he is being passionate about winning BB and aims to win it, whats wrong or psycho in that? Even Kohli is mad passionate about cricket and winning to the point of abusing on ground, does that makes him psycho?

Its just that he openly spoke about his issues and people are relating his each and every action to it! No doubt talking about mental issues is still a STIGMA in our society!

Jasmine's triggers are making her accuse and character assassinate guys on national tv. Its being harmful for others! Whereas Eijaz issues are restraining him from going all out and its restraining him only not impacting others!

And about friendship, i think his experi3nces have left him craving for love so where ever he finds tiny bit of care, he latches onto it and thinks of them as friends!

He considers Abhi as friend and kavita as close friend but dont reciprocrate same! Its absolutely fine and nobody's fault! But Abhi and Kavita insulting him and throwing his friendship on his face are in wrong! You dont think of him as a friend, tell him so in respectable way "dude, you think of me as a friend, i apreciate and respect it but I dont think/feel same"!

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

He is not telling Pavitra directly..i have not seen him trying to clear this with Pavitra ...he is telling Nikki and Kavita etc

He said he will speak to her after she comes out of RZ as she is already stressed being there! Let's wait and see if he follows through

I doubt it will have to wait given his current emo state

Originally posted by: peeyara

If people think he is still mentally unstable and havent recovered totally, I wud say then Eijaz is doing great job even in that state! He is in total control of his emotions! He is yet to lose his temper given the shit thrown on him! The one thing that should be his trigger(a woman character assassinating him) have not made him lose his cool! He, infact, asked jas if u feel as such talk to me openly!

Some people are very expressive and their thoughts are on display on their face and I find Eijaz as one such guy and if that makes people think of him as crazy or psycho, they are welcome to think of it!

When others do jumping around, clapping, going beserj in excitement or making hand movements during talking, its entertainment BUT if Eijaz does same its cause he is psycho!

He is eccentric and weird but then its not mental illness! Many people have such weird tendencies or habits and it doesnt make then psycho or depressed soul! One of my cousin loves smell of gasoline and petrol and she smells them from vehicles😆 weird yes but not psycho!

I am so particular about drinking water and the glass and bottle used for it, it can drive people crazy😆 but hey I dont have any mental illness🤷

If he is being passionate about winning BB and aims to win it, whats wrong or psycho in that? Even Kohli is mad passionate about cricket and winning to the point of abusing on ground, does that makes him psycho?

Its just that he openly spoke about his issues and people are relating his each and every action to it! No doubt talking about mental issues is still a STIGMA in our society!

Jasmine's triggers are making her accuse and character assassinate guys on national tv. Its being harmful for others! Whereas Eijaz issues are restraining him from going all out and its restraining him only not impacting others!

And about friendship, i think his experi3nces have left him craving for love so where ever he finds tiny bit of care, he latches onto it and thinks of them as friends!

He considers Abhi as friend and kavita as close friend but dont reciprocrate same! Its absolutely fine and nobody's fault! But Abhi and Kavita insulting him and throwing his friendship on his face are in wrong! You dont think of him as a friend, tell him so in respectable way "dude, you think of me as a friend, i apreciate and respect it but I dont think/feel same"!

About struggling with mental illness, Eijaz told Times of India ahead of entering the Bigg Boss 14 house, “I haven’t come out of mental illness. It is an on-going process. There are times I am still scared of being alone and sometimes I am scared of my own self. The two years from 2015 to 2017 have been the most difficult one. But now, I know it is fine to seek therapy, it is ok to put your trust in someone else. It is very important that you expect the way it is. It is important to understand, I am like this and I am feeling this way. The more you try to run away from the fact that nothing has happened to you, the more you will suffer from anxiety issues.”

https://m.hindustantimes.com/tv/bigg-boss-14-eijaz-khan-opens-up-about-his-mental-illness-says-sometimes-i-am-scared-of-my-own-self/story-kd4nTMY6OwcDz0pNGC01DN_amp.html

https://m.mid-day.com/articles/eijaz-khan-i-havent-come-out-of-mental-illness-it-is-an-on-going-process/23026215

Its not what people think, it is something Eijaj has shared