Originally posted by: RishiGirl
I never said she should change herself!! I meant in general if u love someone u should accept that person for the way they are, love just happens that’s it
@bold - I think, "for the way they are" has some upper and lower limit.
One can accept his/her lover with his/her flaws like anger, insecurity, troubled past, imperfect appearance, poverty, dysfunctional family, obsessions, etc.
But to accept someone with ongoing criminal activities like murder? That's like stretching the definition of love too far. In my opinion.