I loved the way you penned it down. It's all encompassing. All the feelings, all the rational, irrational thoughts, doubts and anguish! I loved how you put together the Ani we know with everything this character has to offer!This is my explaination on why I feel Ani loves Bondita. Those who are reading this and are not regular here don't take anything in a wrong way.
Love is not about what you say or preach.. it is more rather always about what you feel and what your actions say. I always believe whatever one person says depend on so many things.. like situation,mood, surroundings,at times it's momentary, or bcuz of misconceptions..there are lots of things. But what you feel and what your actions say always come from your heart. You can't pretend there, you can't lie there. You do things subconsciously.. your actions speak your mind/heart.
Look at Ani he always said he loves mini. Be it as lover or friend.. he shouted saying this, he believed what he tells is right but his actions were always otherwise. He cried 1/2 days after getting married to bon more like remembering his letters n stuffs or fact that he Can't marry her now. Like it's printed on his brain that one day he'll go and marry mini. But he's pretty normal in 1/2 days. Yes he does care for mini but I always believed its more as friend..he does feel uncomfy with her. He has moved on pretty soon.. the main thing I notice is he lacks emotional connect or attachment with mini. He always did.
Coming to bon.. ya he said harsh things to her but couldn't look at her while saying so but he did that with mini, he did say kuch nahi lagti tum meri looking at her, ye baat alag hain that he's normal later but he could say that looking at her.here with bon he couldn't even see her going away from him. And since a moment she's left his restlessness is increasing. He's unable to think unable to do kuch.. he didn't even find that wrist watch which was in front of his eyes. He's constantly thinking about her. Even though she's not with him but he Can't get over her. He clearly rejected mini's marriage proposal pretty visible he doesn't wish to move on. He's doing bakbak of bon even in his sleep. Even in sleep he is unable to stop thinking about her. He has this deep emotional attachment with bon that he never knew how to imagine or live a life without her. When ppl like bihari or sampoo are giving him reality checks he's not getting angry on them. Bcuz his heart knows they are right.
He's quite confident about his 2 zimmedari crap when bon was with him or around him. Now since she left he is not even feeling like fulfilling his zimmedari towards mini..technically mini is in worst condition than before still he's unaffected as he's totally occupied with bon's thoughts. Even as Binoy said If Ani never considered it as shadi or her as his wife and now he has left her why is he not able to digest this fact? Why is he not thinking to marry mini if he believes he's cut all ties with bon? Why is he just unable to stop thinking about her? If she's just his responsibility I'm sure he'd have moved on easily or at least be normal. But he is not. He's not even changing into his night suits.. such a basic/routine He's failing to follow. Why is he feeling so empty, lost, vulnerable, restless?
I dunno if it is not love then what is love? Ik rather we all know they won't show anything like this in show like clearly but his actions are quite clear. I'm already sure but I'll be more confident once I see his reunion with bon. Rather I wanna see how he reacts when he'll meet her,finally see her in reality. Once he gets she's innocent he'll feel guilty angry, when he'll go in search for her he'll cry beg dugga ma but I'm more interested in watching when he meets her how he would react.. trust me it'll be a terrible situation for him to face her.. he would never ever wish to face something like that in his life ever.
Now this is coming from my real life experience and since bon is gone and Ani is suffering my friend keeps reminding me that don't you dare to criticise Ani as you have also done this kind of kand (not this extreme or dramatic obviously) in your life. Trust me when it's others fault it is so easy to blame them but the moment you get fault is yours and you've hurt the person whom you should have never that feeling is terrible and facing that person is more disastrous.
It became too long and lil personal and I've miserably failed to put things in right manner I guess. Even while typing this whole I'm feeling restless😆
I have connected with Ani-Bon since the day I started to watch this serial, it's been such a short time but I feel I know them. Ani is in love with her, yes she is too young and in today's world he might resemble a pedo (many people... Sorry many fools might think that because when they read this all they can imagine when we talk about love is physical attraction, which is far from what we are trying to say here). Anyways, for us... BBians I guess love is much more deep emotion( which it actually is) and we understand that there is a kind of love which is platonic. We know that he immensely cares for her(Bondita) and couldn't even look at her leaving. His heart was pounding( we could hear it and feel his pain) he was annoyed that she didn't clarified. I think he I more angry on this fact and also that she trusted/helped BW! He was angry... I even felt at a point that he was jealous? I d k. But he didn't like her talking to him at all.
With Bondita gone he can feel emptiness all around. He's not the same, his heart is empty, it's gone with Bon. His mind is wandering, and he doesn't know why, because he never thought about it. He never needed too. She came in his life and made a place for herself everywhere, for everyone. I hope they show batuk getting annoyed with Ani and blaming him for her absence. Batuk must talk and make him realise that it's not mini who is right for him but bon. I know he is too young, but he can talk and Ani might just realise. One doesn't need too much push when heart is already wanting to follow that direction. Just a little push. In this case a little taunt/complain/ accusation will do the trick.
Coming to Mini, please she is bad taste in mouth. I'll spare the agony of talking about her🤢
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