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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: aquaHP

I will have to re-watch the clip for his concern. Ye toh chamatkaar ke barabar hai. Jabse ye ladka aaya hai, Kuhu ke alawa sab se dhang se baat kari hai isne.

If only Kuhu was a guy, she would get probably half the level of hate she gets. Kunal doesn't speak up when he doesn't like the way things are moving. Pehle, it was because it would create a fight in the house and now, it's because he is chukao-ing all his ehsaans, it seems. I swear, Meenu is so lucky that Kunal is as invested in her dreams as he is, otherwise this facade of a happy family would have fallen.


Re. Throwing words: Both are wrong! That's no way to speak to anyone. Kuhu was wrong for saying all those things to Mishti and so is Kunal.

See, the thing is that even though the words Kunal uses are not as bad but they are the words that would hit right in her nerve because those are the tags she had been trying to get rid of when she initially got married but now that everyone keeps calling her childish/immature/spoilt over and over again, she behaves so. (Eg- KuKu market scene in initial days when Kuhu said, "Mai bachon ki tarah bachpan mein bhi nahi behave karti thi".) She has been trying to get rid of that tag and Kunal knows it so it hurts more when he says those things.


I'm sorry that you've met such boys in your life. I have had the fortune of meeting the whole bunch and mostly good, understanding men, atleast in the last few years. And by those standards, Abir lies somewhere near the average. He has a long way to go to reach the top but I can see why he is seen as an anomaly in the ITV universe, atleast in the lead department because there have been better, more understanding characters. I don't know if you've seen Nisha aur Uske Cousins (it's one of my most favourite shows) but almost all the male characters were on par with Abir, if not better. Right now, the only other show I am watching is Shaadi Mubarak but Sumedh is a pretty good example of what a great and understanding partner looks like.


Re. Divorce - Kunal hasn't had to handle anything. Kuhu has been made to look childish only post 2nd marriage. Uss se pehle Kuhu was handling him. That was the thing KuKu fans were waiting for because ab tak khaali Kuhu hi handle kar rahi thi. Kunal just washes his hands off whenever Kuhu feels insecure. We were all hoping to see him step up after the marriage but corona aa gaya beech mein and then, things completely fell apart with the characters' return.


Isliye sab keh rahe the episode dekh ke phir aap apni arguement rakhiye smiley4


Bold - I am sorry that's fortunately unfortunately is not the case these days, at least the way I am seeing it , no woman is allowed to play her woman card just to save herself , men and women are equally blamed for the wrong doings on the basis of their actions and not on the basis of their gender, infact to put in perspective for you, if kuhu was a guy she was would have been more criticised and hated then she is today as a woman


Undermine - thank you for agreeing , kuhu is a spoilt brat, her actions and her words indicate that so just if once kunal tells her than there is nothing wrong in showcasing a mirror to the wife , the way she behaved , she deserved the word. That's the different thing kunal later felt sorry for it unlike kuhu who never feels sorry for throwing words at mishti.


Bold again - I never mentioned I found such men in my life , have I? I am just saying on the general narrative these days that understanding level of men has reduced ...to put in perspective not just fortunate enough to be around amazing understanding caring and loving men, I have been fortunate to be around women who aren't bitchy , weirdly insecure having criminal mentality , dumb for the most part and extremely gullible to the extent then can throw anyone along with herself under the bus and not realise how pathetic they themselves are before throwing digs at others and never be genuinely sorry for what they have done not to forget repeating the same mistakes again and again.

...I am glad I have come across matured understanding lovely caring sensitive women too.

Anyways I am glad you too have been around great men in your life and women too.


Seen nisha aur uske cousins , certainly not better than abir and yet to see shaadi Mubarak, thanks for the recommendations.


Very sorry the word is not just childish now, its inhuman and a character with a low mentality , that's what kuhu has been reduced to , I am sorry I know you are an ardent kaveri fan , I have nothing against kaveri but haan that's the truth i hate kuhu and if that makes me unpleasant to you then I am really sorry but it is what it is at least for me and to get on the "hate" word I have waited and given so many chances to her in the show. Thanks for responding.😊 Have a nice day aqua.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: aquaHP

That mandir incident was something. I decided skip watching after seeing the bit in the precap but unfortunately, I still caught it on IG.

Okay, let's be honest here, Mishti's status is never going to be below Parul and everyone knows that, even Kuhu. What she wants is that her own status never reaches that level because her worst fear is people forgetting her and she becoming everyone's last priority (which is probably going to happen once this baby comes out of her based on what I read in the LU).

Rahi baat paison ki toh Kunal has been working tirelessly while the only time Abir contributed was during his break-up with Mishti so I don't see it as despicable. Kuhu stayed away from Kunal for 3months holding down the while Kunal was working his butt off, and Meenu cried over Abir leaving the house so, if they have any business at this point, it's because he was putting in the work.

well if we are talking about hard work then ambani ke bachhon se jyada mehnat uske executives karte hinge.. but ambani ne business unko toh nahi de diya na... if kunal puts in hard work.. he must be getting salary... mind you I’m no way justifying meenu’s behavior with kunal... but expectations of kuhu are way too much... she has no business to compare abir n kunal’s efforts in the business... if anyone should have a problem it should be kunal... if she has so much problem... earn your own money....

at the end of the day it’s meenu’s property and she may give it to laxman if she wishes to... haq ki baat toh kuhu ko karni hi nahi chahiye... period


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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Gaurirane366

@bold i know... Hats off.. 🤗

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Onyourface


Isliye sab keh rahe the episode dekh ke phir aap apni arguement rakhiye smiley4


Bold - I am sorry that's fortunately unfortunately is not the case these days, at least the way I am seeing it , no woman is allowed to play her woman card just to save herself , men and equal are equally blamed for the wrong doings on the basis of their actions and not on the basis of their gender, infact to put in perspective for you, of kuhu was a guy she was would have been more criticised and hated then she is today as a woman


Undermine - thank you for agreeing , kuhu is a spoilt brat, her actions and her words indicate that so just if once kunal tells her than there is nothing wrong in showcasing a mirror to his wife , the way she behaved , she deserved the word. That's the different thing kunal later felt sorry for it unlike kuhu who never feels sorry for throwing words at mishti.


Bold again - I never mentioned I found such men in my life , have I? I am just saying on the general narrative these days that understanding level of men has reduced ...to put in perspective not just amazing understanding caring and loving men have been fortunate to be around women who aren't bitchy , weirdly insecure having criminal mentality , dumb for the most part and extremely gullible to the extent then can throw anyone along with herself under the bus and not realise how pathetic they themselves are before throwing digs at others.

...I am glad I have come across matured understanding lovely caring sensitive women too.

Anyways I am glad you too have been around great men in your life and women too.


Seen nisha aur uske cousins , certainly not better than abir and yet to see shaadi Mubarak, thanks for the recommendations.


Very sorry the word is not just childish now, its inhuman and a character with a low mentality , that's what kuhu has been reduced to , I am sorry I know you are an ardent kaveri fan , I have nothing against kaveri but haan that's the truth i hate kuhu and if that makes me unpleasant to you then I am really sorry but it is what it is at least for me and to get on the "hate" word I have waited and given so many chances to her in the show. Thanks for responding.😊 Have a nice day aqua.

perfect character analysis


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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: aquaHP

That mandir incident was something. I decided skip watching after seeing the bit in the precap but unfortunately, I still caught it on IG.

Okay, let's be honest here, Mishti's status is never going to be below Parul and everyone knows that, even Kuhu. What she wants is that her own status never reaches that level because her worst fear is people forgetting her and she becoming everyone's last priority (which is probably going to happen once this baby comes out of her based on what I read in the LU).

Rahi baat paison ki toh Kunal has been working tirelessly while the only time Abir contributed was during his break-up with Mishti so I don't see it as despicable. Kuhu stayed away from Kunal for 3months holding down the while Kunal was working his butt off, and Meenu cried over Abir leaving the house so, if they have any business at this point, it's because he was putting in the work.

Sorry to interfere but abirs contribution to this house is not through their business but through his ngo he has done alot for the family... Even if rjv go bankrupt abir can manage the whole family bcoz he has his own business to look after n his net worth is high which was mentioned by kunal himself...

Just bcoz kunal is managing family business doesn't mean abir doesn't do anything for family everyone have own interest n Abir is not interested in family business n has his own business...

Kuhu very well knew if she went to abir he would have given what she wants without this surrogacy... Be it property or name...

And also I remember still the business n property is in naanu name...

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: NSKay

When almost everyone is behaving so out of the character other than Meenu, I was hoping this might be the end 😆

😆 yaa seriously the way everyone are reacting seems like some plan but we have seen this before during mishbir breakup 😆 so we can be sure it's no a plan... Dkp abhi aisa smart idea nahi sochte 😆

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Guruji😭

I don't have anything to say... Wishing for show to end soon.. chaa from feeling bad to wanting to happen soon.. wow thanks to dkp...

It's better we think show ended with kuku shaadi or baba return..


Diyuuuuuuuu ❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗 it's okay yaar I understand kya kya socha tha kya ho gaya at least in the last lag I wanted mishti to be pregnant, abir fulfilling her mid night cravings 😆 talking her for a long drive, talking to baby bump and everytime he recites a shayari the baby kicks indicating that baby is liking it and mishti saying no baby is not liking that's why he is kicking in protest 😆


Mishbir decorating baby room , mish writing her pregnancy experiences in a diary .... being a little moody more because of weight gain cuz she has difficulty now standing up on a stool to confront him 🤣 Bump beech mein aa jaata hai lol....ah there was so much they had to enjoy diyaaaa 😒 we lost it all 💔

Edited by Onyourface - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: aquaHP

I watched the episodes to see if Varsha had triumphed in giving Kuhu some sadbuddhi and some sense of security. Kuhu is basically surrounded with loads and loads of people making her insecure like when Nidhi said demotion, Parul mentioning that she accepted that her place was downstairs, Jasmeet telling her that the RVs would use and throw her, Kunal only stopping his taunts when she basically sacrificed the only thing that gives her some level of security and confidence i.e. her looks and the way everyone was telling her to not go anywhere, they must've gotten her to take a break from her work also. So, Kuhu basically has nothing to make her feel like herself or happy. No wonder she is being so mean.

Meenu threatening her to agree for surrogacy is the only thing that counts but even then she could have used her brain and told the others about it, those people who wouldn't let anything wrong happen to her and Kunal. Would Abir let that happen?! Is Kunal utterly useless that he can't provide for her? Didn't he promise to fulfil all of her wishes because she was upset about not getting the car? He obviously meant from his own money because no doubt he gets a really good salary that he can invest in properties too.

The rest of the taunts from Varsha/Jazz, unwitting remarks from Nidhi/Parul are only a consequence of her agreeing to and going ahead with surrogacy. So, she DID this to herself

And nothing, absolutely nothing justifies her ill treatment of Mishti who WASN'T the one who begged her to become her surrogate.

All her devious schemes from then on, aiming to backstab Abir and Mishti are absolutely unforgivable.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

@bold - exactly this uru... Hifi this is why I love all the men in this show.. at one point I started watching this show mainly for the men here...

I can also say real mai aise patient, understanding, supportive men are hard to find... no brother would tolerate sister like Meenu for this long that too doing all this in their house, fathers like bp n naanu even after doing all these still not even being angry on kids, abinal being supportive n understanding.. mostly they are like this bcoz somewhere they have this guilt of not being there for the woman at some point..

abir, kunal, maamu, naanu, bp everyone had done mistake but they are mature n genuine in the way they handle it and including kunal (after he started changing) had no male ego in accepting n apologizing n being guilty for what they did in past always... no justification, no reason no ego just plain acceptance n apology.. which is rare in real life too..

Even during ganesh pooja this time kunal said I know I have not been good husband let's enjoy our life, I want to live with you before we start thinking of baby... He is impulsive when it comes to his maa n bhai but he does have realisation soon enough...


Well said The men portrayed here are far better than what general itv had expect a few of course 😆


Infact woman are shown to be more kaand makers here 🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Su94

What about Ambe maa ka naam?


Vo toh irredeemable hai na already 😆

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