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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: pallavi25

If Abir had not started the baby jaap and gone blurting out to BM how Mishti was ready to have a baby, no one else would have known and there wouldn’t be so much ugly drama revolving around Mishti’s damaged uterus. It’s extremely insulting to a woman if her reproductive problems are announced to the whole world instead of treating it privately like most normal people do. And of course Abir blurting out Mishti’s condition to Meenu of all people was his biggest mistake! Now Meenu won’t stop till she has made life worse for Mishti either by surrogacy through Kuhu or Abir’s remarriage. This whole disgusting situation could have been avoided if Abir had kept bedroom talk inside the bedroom.

You just put words to my thoughts

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

Saying surrogacy it's definitely not regressive but going ahead with kuhu as being surrogate is bad because first of all dat girl didn't become mother before n asking her for her first born is totally wrong.

If u r asking y am I calling her regressive b

In front of her meenu is talking abt abir's second marriage . She stood der n listen to everything she said not a single word for it

In front of her her MIL was talking rubbish abt her. Shaming her n abusing her she was silent. Listen to dat just because she can't conceive n dan begun to say sorry to meenu

Mental harassment which meenu did n what did she do she is justifying her. Instead of going to police n complaining she is doing maa maa jaap

Just because she can't conceive she left abir n went. Is she staying in 21st century??? Der is something was medical treatment. She would huv thought abt it but what did she do

I hated her in haldi track.der she was bashed like anything .Even RS know abt fans uproar abt it. When he came to raj interview He was asked abt it why mishti gave in meenu's black mail ??

Ever abir bashed for breaking up with mishti and a zillion of times , for supporting kuhu and what not, I have seen some comments that say abir is responsible for mishti's internal injuries, that was too weird as if he pushed her 🤓


But mishti dosent know that kuhu is going to be the surrogate right? At the moment she doesn't know, when she knows how will meenu manipulate the sisters to sign the treaty we dont know, let's wait n see


Regarding her not taking any stand against meenu at the moment , she craved for meenu's acceptance, she can't be as strong with meenu as abir is , its always been like that


Anyways all I want to say is sometimes abir is make weak and sometimes mishti , we can criticise both but constantly bashing one just because we aren't happy with the other one is pointless to me. We can also appreciate them when they are right instead

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: vinutha91

Mishti bashing also happens in the forum 😆 She was bashed left, right and center for the surrogacy promo and rightfully so.


The problem is with the jet speed episodes, no character's POV is shown properly. It is not even shown if mishti's is actually ready. It just looks like she is going with the flow. I would rather blame this on writers. They really need to slow down for the audience to sympathize with the character's plight.


P.S i still love Mishbir. No matter how idiotic these episodes are, i am happy that their core characteristics are not destroyed. Somewhere lost at the moment yes, but at least no drastic change!


I know that, I have been in this forum since the beginning I know who is bashed till what extent, I am not someone who came here on the forum few months back

ppl targeted her even before the track played out in the show


My point is if we are not happy with mishti, is it right to bash abir for that or vice versa that too on daily basis, the episodes aren't that bad If we really leave our prejudices or oh my god what is going to happen now feels


True , I can still relate to them , they are definitely far from the word * butchered *

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: NoraSM

The level of writing and inconsistencies in the show should be addressed by audience, if we accept everything they won't change the track Not everything is bashing Abir, He is a character, when someone is talking about how a scene or track should have been, it means we are talking about how it should have been directed or written, Abir is not thinking or acting on his own, Writer is doing it. Same goes for Mishti


Abir in previous track -

Left the house because Mishti replied to Kuhu

Dropped the baby plan because Mishti and Kuhu weren't getting along as he was expecting a child from a woman, who is a child herself

Abir didn't want to pass on their current problems to their future child


Mishti in previous track -

Fought with Kuhu ONCE

Was emotionally blackmailed by everyone she loved

Apologized to Kuhu, Didn't get a single thank you or apology from her


Mishti in current track doesn't want adoption because she doesn't want to transfer Meenu's toxicity to her kids


Shouldn't Abir understand how he went berserk about a small fight between Mishti and Kuhu, and dropped the idea of baby for it, when he is fighting with Meenu everyday?

Why doesn't he sort his issues with Meenu before applying for adoption?

Isn't it a small thing to expect that Abir who didn't want small fight between Mishti-Kuhu would understand that Meenu's suicide drama and calling Kunal Paap is not good for his future child?

I am feeling there are loopholes and inconsistencies in characters which should be addressed, we can't keep praising both Abir and Mishti, it makes PH lazy

This track is regressive

Mishbir are not a compatible couple, They can't even talk to each other properly


This is not Abir bashing, My problem is with writers and PH

Bold: Exactly!
Criticizing the characters means we are criticizing the inconsistency in writing those characters. The Abir who said all those words to Naanu about Mishti’s individuality is nowadays damaging her self esteem with his words and actions.
Just to make the show regressive they forced Abir to behave out of character in recent tracks, in the magazine fiasco when Abir led all of them into forcing Mishti to apologize to Kuhu but the latter was let go without saying sorry or thank you. Abir telling Meenu about Mishti’s condition was totally out of character. She would be the last person he would trust with that information.
PH is just derailing this show steadily.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder


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Posted: 4 years ago

Blaming abir for everything happening now and confiding to his mother is as good as conveniently blaming mishti for everything in the baba track , had she been open and upfront to him and not confined to meenu ( her would be mom in law) , a lot of things could have been avoided including the break up


But neither I completely blamed mishti then nor I completely blamed abir now ...simple as that...because I understand both at their weakest and I guess they understand each other well , that's why I hardly see them doing tumhari wajah se in the show lol

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Bold: Exactly!
Criticizing the characters means we are criticizing the inconsistency in writing those characters. The Abir who said all those words to Naanu about Mishti’s individuality is nowadays damaging her self esteem with his words and actions.
Just to make the show regressive they forced Abir to behave out of character in recent tracks, in the magazine fiasco when Abir led all of them into forcing Mishti to apologize to Kuhu but the latter was let go without saying sorry or thank you. Abir telling Meenu about Mishti’s condition was totally out of character. She would be the last person he would trust with that information.
PH is just derailing this show steadily.


We are expected to reset with every track and forget what happened like a day ago in the show, if expectations are as low as that then I don't mind watching new characteristics in same old characters everyday but one can expect them to behave like they did one day ago, No?


Abir thought Meenu has changed so did everyone because she helped them in Varun track and Meenu's reaction was of a good mother

Did they change the track after it, I don't understand what happened there so I don't think it was out of character for Abir to share with Meenu as at that time Meenu wasn't a bad person with bad intentions


Anyway, My problem is that they are not making Mishbir a team, I am not expecting Mishti to stand up against Meenu but I am expecting Abir to keep his bedroom secrets and discussions with his wife between themselves.

I want Mishbir as a team, even if Mishti is weaker, I'd gladly accept as long as there's no emotional blackmail on her from Abir's side

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: NoraSM


We are expected to reset with every track and forget what happened like a day ago in the show, if expectations are as low as that then I don't mind watching new characteristics in same old characters everyday but one can expect them to behave like they did one day ago, No?


Abir thought Meenu has changed so did everyone because she helped them in Varun track and Meenu's reaction was of a good mother

Did they change the track after it, I don't understand what happened there so I don't think it was out of character for Abir to share with Meenu as at that time Meenu wasn't a bad person with bad intentions


Anyway, My problem is that they are not making Mishbir a team, I am not expecting Mishti to stand up against Meenu but I am expecting Abir to keep his bedroom secrets and discussions with his wife between themselves.

I want Mishbir as a team, even if Mishti is weaker, I'd gladly accept as long as there's no emotional blackmail on her from Abir's side


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: NoraSM


We are expected to reset with every track and forget what happened like a day ago in the show, if expectations are as low as that then I don't mind watching new characteristics in same old characters everyday but one can expect them to behave like they did one day ago, No?


Abir thought Meenu has changed so did everyone because she helped them in Varun track and Meenu's reaction was of a good mother

Did they change the track after it, I don't understand what happened there so I don't think it was out of character for Abir to share with Meenu as at that time Meenu wasn't a bad person with bad intentions


Anyway, My problem is that they are not making Mishbir a team, I am not expecting Mishti to stand up against Meenu but I am expecting Abir to keep his bedroom secrets and discussions with his wife between themselves.

I want Mishbir as a team, even if Mishti is weaker, I'd gladly accept as long as there's no emotional blackmail on her from Abir's side

Yes, it’s his emotional blackmail during the magazine fiasco and now using the Maheshwaris to railroad her into agreeing to adoption, that’s what is ruining their unity as a couple. Abir should know his Mishti, he’s seen how Jasmeet treats her or even Kuhu does and still he’s strangely biased in favor of Kuhu. He should know why Mishti is not thrilled about adopting a kid whose grandma would be Meenu and whose dad and grandma would be fighting all the time,

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Ever abir bashed for breaking up with mishti and a zillion of times , for supporting kuhu and what not, I have seen some comments that say abir is responsible for mishti's internal injuries, that was too weird as if he pushed her 🤓


But mishti dosent know that kuhu is going to be the surrogate right? At the moment she doesn't know, when she knows how will meenu manipulate the sisters to sign the treaty we dont know, let's wait n see


Regarding her not taking any stand against meenu at the moment , she craved for meenu's acceptance, she can't be as strong with meenu as abir is , its always been like that


Anyways all I want to say is sometimes abir is make weak and sometimes mishti , we can criticise both but constantly bashing one just because we aren't happy with the other one is pointless to me. We can also appreciate them when they are right instead

Well u didn't get what I meant to say. Mishti's fans didn't held back on her dat time openly criticized her may be more dan abir fans. On dat interview dey asked dis question n RS said we should look forward now. Dat was d reason dey didn't play with her character for a long time. Dan nishmish track where her character was comprised.

Instead of criticizing her character dey start justifying. So u can see d condition of her character. Constructive criticism when given dey look on for dat

I huv no problem if dey would huv butchered for some cliches track like separation n all. At least dey would show something interesting in dat time. Not like one is babysitting n other is crying.

Taking social issues n making mockery out of it. Dat's definitely not interesting

Edited by Sarcastic_me - 4 years ago

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