Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg
Intru , We had a happy day yesterday .
But What my experience could also observe was a bit unnerving too . Kind of scary in a good way . The intensity of feelings and dependence I felt yesterday from both sides (sid a bit more ) can at times be crippling !!
It becomes both your strength and your weakness !!! Whenever they are happy and together they will thrive , but whenever one weakens it will be tough . Those moments .And we saw a trailer of that in BB too . It was not all a game .
Too much attachment is also a tough task . They will have to work hard to strike a balance . And so marriage is the best solution . As it gives clarity of roles and responsibilities !!!! They need to cement the boundary around them .
I dont know if I am making sense and conveying what I want to !!!!!
Simple words main -- shaadi kar leni chahiye , if not already done !!!!
That happens in all relationships right, our greatest strength is our biggest weakness. Marriage gives a societal nod to the relationship but the foundation is not set by it. They are married in their minds...the sheer goofy smiles of both are a testimony to that comfort. I do not analyse as well as you guys but one thing I noticed is that Sid is far more patient then what we saw in BB...He is very accepting and loving and such people love to be looked up to...to guide...this need to him is filled by Sana...she looks at him and truly for her there is no one beyond him.... their relationship makes sense to them and is perfect for them