YRHPK Live Updates/Episode Discussions 17 Jul 2020 - Page 16

This situation is tooo sensitive

So the prediction about molestation was right

Picture is getting clearer now

Varun's brother tried to rape and then kill mishti, Mishti attacked him in self defense. Due to blood loss and heavy dose of alcohol he died.

Though Mishti is not wrong her urge to confess is very relatable. She can't live with the burden of killing someone. The need of someone else telling you that you're not wrong you did right is so strong in her now. She knows Abir will take her side because he loves her and don't want to loose her and this is overpowering the ultimate truth that she did nothing wrong. Both are scared.

Actually abir shouldn't have left with Mishti because agar mishti vaha hoti to police could've investigated the matter and I think they could've came with the solution, but ye hota ye bhi surety nahi hai. Abir got scared of course so he took mishti from there.

I don't know if police is right choice or not. I mean in real life it is, but in itv police ka track record humesha khraab raha hai. But MishBir need someone else this time, they will need because varun is there. You can't just forget that you took someone's life though it was not your mistake but still it's too hard. Already mishti is tagged as murdurer's daughter and now this. Abir can't think of loosing mishti now, again very relatable, who can think like that, who can imagine a person you love so dearly going into jail that too for something she's not responsible for.

I think mishbir need to tell truth to someone or at least need to collect some proof in support of mishti. They'll do that when Varun will show his true face, varun se zyada I am scared of meenu and kuhu, I don't think they'll stand up with her after knowing this too. I just can't trust them

Originally posted by: ruhi19

i cant say anything more than this...

we cant judge abir just based on one epi...

neither mishti nor abir is in right frame of mind, they need to talk, mishti needs to open up more of that incident nd after math of that incident...

even abir's feelings and mental ability to matters after seeing mishti like that, he is day and night with her more than her self he knows mishti's panic attcaks then how can we say by just seeing one epi...

Yes, Abir is disturbed too

I can't really tell what I would have done in a situation like this, so I am not able to judge if they were wrong or right

I was wondering if Meenu can stand with Abir and Mishti in this track instead of playing villian in their lives? She is influential figure

Originally posted by: naq5

This is tricky.

A guy can come an attack and molest and attempt to rape a girl anytime anywhere but IF she hits in self defence and the guy dies or is severely injured there is a whole case on her where she has to go through police lawyers judiciary to prove herself that she did it in self defence. If the molester is dead there can still be a case on her by his family that she went too far in self defence and could be punished or jailed for it. All this will take up months of her life or maybe even years. Very much fair to the girl who did nothing wrong to be stuck in such a situation.

IDK if what Abir is doing is right. It's easy to say the face the judiciary but we all know how it runs how long it takes to get judgement and if the guys family is powerful how difficult it can get for the girl to prove innocence. All this she has to face coz a random guy one fine day decided to molest n rape her. Her entire life becomes at stake due to that one guy.

When Abir reached both ppl were unconscious mishti n the guy who tried to molest her. Did he know what happened between them. Did he even know mishti hit him in self defence. He just took mishti away without calling the ambulance to take the other unconscious/dead person away. Or maybe he called. If Abir left a random person to die without calling for help it would not be right. It wud have been better if they showed mishti running away to find Abir telling him everything, them coming back seeing the person dead and then mishti becoming unconscious n abir deciding to run away. I don't know what they have shown exactly in the episode though. I am yet to watch it.

It definitely is tricky. Extremely complicated both in terms of emotions and practicality/legally.

Thankyou for explaining the situation more.

I think we are jumping the guns tooo quickly to attack Abir and criticise his behvaiour already.

Sure he seems to have made a judgement error or in hindsight he himself would have regretted his actions of leaving the man there. But thinking from his pov, he comes back desperately trying to reconcile with Mish after a heated argument and finds her unconscious! Like come on he would have freaked out.

And as always his first priority is MISHTI. He is a wonderful human being and would never purposely hurt another human by leaving him to die (even if it meant the other man hurt his wife), but I guess Abir was in his own emotional world with finding Mishti in such a horrific scene.

I believe there is still more to be revealed. I'm yet to watch the episode too.

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Why do ppl bash nannu for when he left abir to die , that was also an accident not caused by nannu , abir was driving harshly on his own, nannu just saw him slipping in the water and didn't save him , he also got scared n weak to see the incident , not to forget he didnt know how to swim and also started getting anxiety disorders, then he decided its okay its not his fault anyways and it's not his responsibility to save abir, better to hide it , vaise bhi abir hit him in the hospital, go back to life , marry mishti and have a good life in London....he is also justified na ? Also he thought he will be punished for the accident and had no faith to prove his innocence to the judicial system cuz of lack of proofs! 😆 Aisa nahi tha I know but think of it, why did we really criticise nannu for ?

I am not comparing situations or being sarcastic, I am just saying that hiding is wrong , no matter what are the reasons and who is at fault , , also I don't know what exactly happened because the entire flashback in not even shown , so its useless to form opinions right away and be judgemental about it , I am disappointed with the writers or rather impressed for being realistic here , people do get panic and hide stuff and in this situation in either ways , voh log phasne hi vale the , police ke pass jaate toh legal system se ladna padta aur nahi bata rahe toh trauma se , varun ki saazish se , aur family ki misunderstanding se , in either ways mishbir are in trouble and it pains my heart at the moment .....may be what abir did was right , because at the end he had nothing left to the world to say and so he was on the verge to lose mishti again, that's why he did what he left was right.....even if it sounds wrong...he thought let's pull mishti out of her guilt trip first and then be comfortable to share the truth to the world but it too late now

Its looks odd and immediate hypocrisy because just a day ago he called out his family for hiding stuff and kuhu for spiking his coffee !

Please understand I am not criticising abir or mishti, I know what they have gone through and what are they going through and the troubles are never going to end with absolutely no fault of them but are still suffering

I am still happy they are in this together, I know abir is a Phoenix and he will rise against all odds, we need a strongest of back story here and we very very neat presentation of his pov henceforth...there has to be some strong reason behind all this !

Mishti n abir be strong , you guys would come out of this eventually !! Your partner is with you !

Haha , mera cool jaisa ho gaya na after ranting I came back with some hope...today I had to convince myself but yes I am still on to see what happens next

Diyu tu shant ho ja re 🤗🤗🤗

Hi Uru

Both situations are different Uru..here abir left the guy to die(exactly we dont know what has happened,even abir try to reach that guy but the noise of police vehicle stopped him)is to save mishti..in nannu case he left abir to die to marry mishti.

Hiding stuff yaar if abir will say this to them will they help him??.meenu will try to plot against mishti to separate her from abir..kuhu abuse mishti..then what is the point in informing the family..they are struggling they need some help..this itself makes me sad no one is there to help them

I hope makers bring BP and BM they can only help and guide them💔

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Any party could have gone to the police but there wouldn't be a family drama

ha that is the real ITV truth my friend😆

Like diya is saying, Abir could have gone to police, doc for autopsy etc. But this is not Crime patrol or CID, it's a family soap drama. It's not that simple to just go after evidence, when you're still grappling with what has happened.

Originally posted by: ..FrozenHeart..

Many might have not like the way things unfold but what i found today even abir vulnerability is shown and actually the ugly reality as well there are many who wanted to stay away from police (i know not a correct way )

anybody noticed cv kept open that part abir dint checked his pulse so something did happen after abir took mishti and he came back . Ngo confrontation both misti and abir are so vulnerable 🥺

Can't see them like this

Abhir is equally vulnerable..

He's scared that Mishti might put herself in danger

He's scared that no one will trust or believe them

He's scared that Mishti will be punished

He's feeling guilty for leaving her at that moment in the resort

He's equally vulnerable..and above that fighting with the family for Mishti and her rights and health

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

@Bold: Yes ruhi, Mishti is innocent and not the murderer. She is a victim. But her physical action of hitting someone physically and also the thought of almost losing her dignity is now eating her up inside.

That' s why I was saying yesterday that Abir cannot just handle this alone between them. Mishti needs help. They both need help.

@green: main tho bhi yehi bol rahi hu, but with a slight twist.

Agar crime kiya hi nahi hai, tho kyun chupa rahi ho, kyun bhaag rahi ho

but then I think about the complications with the judicial system, the lack of proof, and then what the rest of the family and society are going to accuse mishti and abir with (more importantly Mish).

I'm with you Ruhi. I believe there is more to it.

But right, now my mind is losing it with too many emotions and rational thinking. I'm just lost and confused.

So, I'm just going to let this go and watch patiently

yday varun said , abir's NGO did a commendable in past few months, then it means even varun knows where mishbir are? if varun know where mishbir are then why he silent and he came to RJV on the day of msihbir return?

how mishti is reacting to that incident is just a glimpse we are seeing not the complete 3 months period nor initial stage of it...

B: so abir is not in run he is treating mishti away from RJV as we all know mishti ko vo log aise hi blame karte hain ab ye sab hone ke baad did they really make her to forget all these?

every day and every minute they will make mishti realise she killed and some one assaulted her self respect then why the hell abir should take that chance, just to see her wife undergo all rubbish just because of every damn hypocrite in RJV....

panic attacks and mental health cant be healed in a day and how much are u sure that it wont hit back again... these things will hit back again and again may be not regularly but thye hit hit 6 month, yearly or couple of years or when ever they see the same incident again... or may be they will over come some day.... this cant just what time period it take to come out...so i dont think we can judge those person who never been in that situations...

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Originally posted by: NoraSM

There's a huge difference here, Abir didn't try to harm Nishant but Varun's brother tried to molest Mishti, What Mishti did was in self-defense and Abir taking her away was because she was unconscious, he did go back to check on the guy and police informed him about his death due to alcohol overdose, Abir didn't leave the guy to die as Mishti was unconscious and he didn't know that the guy had overdose of alcohol

The same thing is, Abir tried to hide what Nishant did from his family, it was Nishant who told everyone the truth, so Abir's reaction is same in both situations

He did hit nannu in the hospital and threatened him to reveal his drunk acting drama to family , of course it was a harm to nannu 😆 Not comparing it with mishti's situation here , I know zameen aasmaan ka farak hai there with what happened with mishti , but nannu too was someone from anxiety disorders, since there is so much awareness of mental health recently, I am surprised to see he didn't get any understanding or sympathy but immediate bashing while ...anyways I don't even know why I am bringing this up now ...

I am damn sure abir didn't then leave the guy and there is more to the story too ! Abir is naturally empathetic, and I am sure he must have done his absolute research before reaching out on a conclusion, I am waiting for makers to answer and show this though