BARRISTER BABU CHAT CLUB #11 *HUMPE MEHERBAN DO JAHAN* - Page 113

Originally posted by: Iamth

Mujhe lagta hai mujhe interfere nhi karna chahiye. But as a girl it hurts me badly. Sab hamesa ye kyu sochte hai log kya kahenge. Kya husband bura mile ya sadisuda life me koi problem ho to log madad karne ayenge. Ya nalayak husband mile to log responsibility lenge. Aur jo responsibility nahi le sakta use tane dene ka adhikar kisne diya?

You saying the truth

If they cant help us then they shouldnt be allowed to taunt us too

We arent obliged to listen to them

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Then go on with your dream!

Don't get married Out of compulsion it's not good for you and the partner!

Try explaining your parents about your thought!

Apne liye toh sab jeete hai leikin dusron ke liye ek alag hi khushi aur sukoon hai... Unn ki khushiyon ko apni khushi bana na.... It's like heaven for me...

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

My relatives know about my relation with my BF

Unhe itna problem hai that they say

' Shaadi kara lo iski jaldi se. Kya pata ladka haath se nikal jaye'

I was like what the hell

But my Mom was

' Shia is her own person. Usse shaadi karni hogi toh karegi. Aur agar ladka nikal bhi gaya toh kya. Shia wont die because he left her. She is independent and she can live for herself'

I love how my mom is about it

But yes some parents do have that thing of log kya kahenge

Your mom is so understanding Alexia

Iss relatives ki toh mein 😡 agar woh nikal jaye toh kya tum logon ki pass thodi na aaonga crying 😏 bade aayi advice deneki

Every mom understands their kids priority but some fall for log kya kahenge, relatives ki samne muh dikhapaunga kya?

Most youngsters are falling in the trap and can't lead a life they want.

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

I agree to Lalz

Fulfill your dream

Dont marry now

If you agree to marry today then in the future you will regret it

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

You saying the truth

If they cant help us then they shouldnt be allowed to taunt us too

We arent obliged to listen to them

Exactly my point.

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Your mom is so understanding Alexia

Iss relatives ki toh mein 😡 agar woh nikal jaye toh kya tum logon ki pass thodi na aaonga crying 😏 bade aayi advice deneki

Every mom understands their kids priority but some fall for log kya kahenge, relatives ki samne muh dikhapaunga kya?

Most youngsters are falling in the trap and can't lead a life they want.

She is the one who advices me to move forward

She is that person I go to when I feel lost

Parents love us but in that log kya kahenge they forget that our happiness is in free

Originally posted by: Iamth

Mujhe lagta hai mujhe interfere nhi karna chahiye. But as a girl it hurts me badly. Sab hamesa ye kyu sochte hai log kya kahenge. Kya husband bura mile ya sadisuda life me koi problem ho to log madad karne ayenge. Ya nalayak husband mile to log responsibility lenge. Aur jo responsibility nahi le sakta use tane dene ka adhikar kisne diya?

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

I agree to Lalz

Fulfill your dream

Dont marry now

If you agree to marry today then in the future you will regret it

Yea agreeing to marry for parents sake isn't right for a relationship!

That's like cheating on other person's(partner) feelings.

Originally posted by: Home786

Naah hi mujhe shadi karni hai aur na hi koi mujhse shadi karne ke liye tayar hoga na ab aur na future mein... Kyunki iss duniya ke hisaab sab se badi kamee jo hai mujh mein... But I am very happy with life and thankful to God for this unique life...

Kamee kisi main nahi hoti

Woh logon ka nazariya hai ki tume kami hai

But what is it that is deemed as your weakness?

Then dont let anyone take this life away from you

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Yea agreeing to marry for parents sake isn't right for a relationship!

That's like cheating on other person's(partner) feelings.

Zabardasti se koi rishta nahi judta

Jo hona hai woh hoke rehta hai

If I dont want to marry then I will not marry

Zabardasti shaadi karungi toh khud toh kabhi khush nahi rahungi aur uss insaan ki bhi zindagi barbaad ho jayegi