Originally posted by: SheThought
Abir was shocked to hear Kuhu blame Mishti for ribbon cutting by ParulMasi!
Yes, I know he didn't say much to Kuhu while she was accusing and lashing out at Mishti except ending it all with enough and just concluding with Ma jeet rahi hai...
But Abir's reaction didn't seem too out of character for me. He was just looking at the bigger picture because that is exactly the drama Meenu wanted and it was being played out in front of him. So I kind of got his reaction...
His expectations from Kuhu are not much, but he expects a lot from Mishti. So even though he didn't approve of Kuhu's behavior, he wanted Mishti to ignore Kuhu for the time being and listen to him. But the problem is, he was not taking the time to listen to Mishti's side as he was too focused on wanting Mishti to look past Kuhu and pay attention to Meenu and the bigger picture.
So to Mishti (and to us) it feels like Abir is ignoring her and is coming across as insensitive.
There is a big gap in their thought process currently as he is focusing on things to come ahead, while Mishti is focusing on what is happening at the moment. Till they meet in the middle, they are going to keep having issues...
I just wish the makers had stopped it on a happier note, if at all today was the last episode for a while!
This is a very good point! This may be me looking too much into it, but it foils their approaches to the Shivaraatri incident. Abir had said that what happened then should not be continued until Holi, a very valid point as if it had come out then people would have blamed Mishti as to why she hid it if she knew, and that fighting it in front of everyone was not the ideal situation every time. Mishti had said that there is no use with a house being supported by basement of lies, she wanted to address the deep root issue while Abir basically added a band aid (I read that by a forum writer somewhere), which is also a very fair and reasonable point! Both of these solutions together would be the best course of action but both of them are not seeing the validity of the others POV.