YRHPK Episode discussion thread 13th March 2020 - Page 14

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

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Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Come on Yaar anu, abir has also proven many times that he'll take stand for mishti against his family. I really don't know why I am still holding on to him jab aap logo ne give up kar diya 🤣🤣

Mishti's desperateness 🤔🤔ha keh sakte hai, but I am really shocked with her attitude today, today's attitude of her should actually make abir feel guilty, I am just hoping for that 😆

LOL but why will he feel guilty? Time kahaan hai guilty feel karne ka for "wise Abir" who has to manage bro Kuhu, pyara Nanko, bechaari abla Parul Maasi, and Big Ben all day? He toh will only feel thankful that Mishti isn't doing any more drama so he doesn't have to manage her like the rest. Ek yehi akela abla naar reh gaya hai is duniya mein😆

I'm also not sure why everyone here keeps saying this is just like the Baba track or supposedly better than the Baba track😕.....that track had a clearly defined villain, it wasn't made up of daily character flips and daily whitewashing in the name of "galti se". Yeah other things dragged, but I find this track way worse. Also because this was an opportunity to build up Mishbir in a more meaningful way post shaadi.....but all they've gotten are token lollipop scenes and now to make matters worse, an Abir who barely has time for Mishti in trying to manage the rest of his dysfunctional family. His priorities are skewed and Mishti's insecurities barely register with him since there are more insecure people running around in that house.....lol

As always, Mishti ki timing galat pad gayi....pehle woh Mahs ke ghar mein aa gayi when Kuhu needed more attention from the family and she invariably stole Kuhu ki limelight. Now she's in RV house where Abir ke chunnu munnu bechaare family members need his constant coddling so he doesn't have time to be perceptive about Mishti and her emotional needs anymore.....lol

I used to think that Mishbir's relationship is one of equality......but the post shaadi epis have proven this thought wrong in many ways. With every passing epi, it becomes obvious that this relationship is skewed, it is becoming one of appeasement in the name of "love", rather than any development of communication and understanding.

The Abir who used to take pride in Mishti seems diluted in many ways as he is busy pandering to the rest of his family and unable to see the depth of Mishti's hurt. She as usual will cover it up and keep going because she is madly in love with him and wants to do everything for him.

I haven't seen this origami, flower shower, car date makeup scene they've had....only read the update, but I fundamentally disagree with the premise. I don't look at this as some grand indicator of how much they love each other that they can't stay angry with each other. If that was the case, it didn't need a grand romantic gesture.....a simple meaningful conversation would have sufficed even if Abir didn't feel any guilt for what he said. What sense does it make that when Abir was the one who hurt Mishti, she is the one appeasing him with flowers and brownies? All I can see here is that the makers wanted to flex their cinematography skills so threw this in.......no build up, no meaning, no thehraav.....these scenes seem to be put in on a token basis and all this just makes AM's marriage and their relationship seem more and more hollow by the day.

Bro ki service mein bali chadh rahe hain yeh but I guess writers think that aise thode se scenes daal ke inka love prove ho jaayega😆

It is not that people don't adjust in a marriage but the premise for which they are showing this "adjustment" from Mishti has just been depicted in a very wrong manner and gives a bad message. This is not empowerment and to me this is not love either if your partner is so clueless about your pain.

Originally posted by: SheThought

Accha ji... Aaj Abir se disappointment hai toh ab “your Abir” hogaya? 🤔😆

Waise, aaj main kuch bhi Soch, vichar karne ke mood main nahin hoon
Jab Mishti wants to go above and beyond and they don’t want to discuss their issues toh main kyun karoon? 😏
Too bad, couldn’t even enjoy their pointless romance today 😆

The only thing that I registered from today’s episode was how beautiful Rhea looked in that only bearable up to the waist yellow gown 😆

Ofcourse😛....you don't want him anymore kya? 😛😆....aren't you enjoying his "wisdom"? :P

AM toh kahin kho gaye hain bro ki seva mein ab yaar....so yes, kuch khaas soch vichaar karne ka mann mera bhi nahin hai.....just saw your funny review so popped in😆

I've stopped watching the epis.....motivation nahin hai to watch cuz the family drama anyways always felt shallow to me in this show given how poorly the characters have been sketched....was watching for AM cuz they had some meaning to them but that is all being fast diluted now.

Updates padh leti hoon....thank you to Diya for those😆

I just saw one pic of Mishti in her yellow outfit.....she did look pretty.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL but why will he feel guilty? Time kahaan hai guilty feel karne ka for "wise Abir" who has to manage bro Kuhu, pyara Nanko, bechaari abla Parul Maasi, and Big Ben all day? He toh will only feel thankful that Mishti isn't doing any more drama so he doesn't have to manage her like the rest. Ek yehi akela abla naar reh gaya hai is duniya mein😆

I'm also not sure why everyone here keeps saying this is just like the Baba track or supposedly better than the Baba track😕.....that track had a clearly defined villain, it wasn't made up of daily character flips and daily whitewashing in the name of "galti se". Yeah other things dragged, but I find this track way worse. Also because this was an opportunity to build up Mishbir in a more meaningful way post shaadi.....but all they've gotten are token lollipop scenes and now to make matters worse, an Abir who barely has time for Mishti in trying to manage the rest of his dysfunctional family. His priorities are skewed and Mishti's insecurities barely register with him since there are more insecure people running around in that house.....lol

As always, Mishti ki timing galat pad gayi....pehle woh Mahs ke ghar mein aa gayi when Kuhu needed more attention from the family and she invariably stole Kuhu ki limelight. Now she's in RV house where Abir ke chunnu munnu bechaare family members need his constant coddling so he doesn't have time to be perceptive about Mishti and her emotional needs anymore.....lol

I used to think that Mishbir's relationship is one of equality......but the post shaadi epis have proven this thought wrong in many ways. With every passing epi, it becomes obvious that this relationship is skewed, it is becoming one of appeasement in the name of "love", rather than any development of communication and understanding.

The Abir who used to take pride in Mishti seems diluted in many ways as he is busy pandering to the rest of his family and unable to see the depth of Mishti's hurt. She as usual will cover it up and keep going because she is madly in love with him and wants to do everything for him.

I haven't seen this origami, flower shower, car date makeup scene they've had....only read the update, but I fundamentally disagree with the premise. I don't look at this as some grand indicator of how much they love each other that they can't stay angry with each other. If that was the case, it didn't need a grand romantic gesture.....a simple meaningful conversation would have sufficed even if Abir didn't feel any guilt for what he said. What sense does it make that when Abir was the one who hurt Mishti, she is the one appeasing him with flowers and brownies? All I can see here is that the makers wanted to flex their cinematography skills so threw this in.......no build up, no meaning, no thehraav.....these scenes seem to be put in on a token basis and all this just makes AM's marriage and their relationship seem more and more hollow by the day.

Bro ki service mein bali chadh rahe hain yeh but I guess writers think that aise thode se scenes daal ke inka love prove ho jaayega😆

It is not that people don't adjust in a marriage but the premise for which they are showing this "adjustment" from Mishti has just been depicted in a very wrong manner and gives a bad message. This is not empowerment and to me this is not love either if your partner is so clueless about your pain.

i wish i could skip the show yar but i cant...

this bro jhaap is more irritating but he will get his own medicine...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL but why will he feel guilty? Time kahaan hai guilty feel karne ka for "wise Abir" who has to manage bro Kuhu, pyara Nanko, bechaari abla Parul Maasi, and Big Ben all day? He toh will only feel thankful that Mishti isn't doing any more drama so he doesn't have to manage her like the rest. Ek yehi akela abla naar reh gaya hai is duniya mein😆

I'm also not sure why everyone here keeps saying this is just like the Baba track or supposedly better than the Baba track😕.....that track had a clearly defined villain, it wasn't made up of daily character flips and daily whitewashing in the name of "galti se". Yeah other things dragged, but I find this track way worse. Also because this was an opportunity to build up Mishbir in a more meaningful way post shaadi.....but all they've gotten are token lollipop scenes and now to make matters worse, an Abir who barely has time for Mishti in trying to manage the rest of his dysfunctional family. His priorities are skewed and Mishti's insecurities barely register with him since there are more insecure people running around in that house.....lol

As always, Mishti ki timing galat pad gayi....pehle woh Mahs ke ghar mein aa gayi when Kuhu needed more attention from the family and she invariably stole Kuhu ki limelight. Now she's in RV house where Abir ke chunnu munnu bechaare family members need his constant coddling so he doesn't have time to be perceptive about Mishti and her emotional needs anymore.....lol

I used to think that Mishbir's relationship is one of equality......but the post shaadi epis have proven this thought wrong in many ways. With every passing epi, it becomes obvious that this relationship is skewed, it is becoming one of appeasement in the name of "love", rather than any development of communication and understanding.

The Abir who used to take pride in Mishti seems diluted in many ways as he is busy pandering to the rest of his family and unable to see the depth of Mishti's hurt. She as usual will cover it up and keep going because she is madly in love with him and wants to do everything for him.

I haven't seen this origami, flower shower, car date makeup scene they've had....only read the update, but I fundamentally disagree with the premise. I don't look at this as some grand indicator of how much they love each other that they can't stay angry with each other. If that was the case, it didn't need a grand romantic gesture.....a simple meaningful conversation would have sufficed even if Abir didn't feel any guilt for what he said. What sense does it make that when Abir was the one who hurt Mishti, she is the one appeasing him with flowers and brownies? All I can see here is that the makers wanted to flex their cinematography skills so threw this in.......no build up, no meaning, no thehraav.....these scenes seem to be put in on a token basis and all this just makes AM's marriage and their relationship seem more and more hollow by the day.

Bro ki service mein bali chadh rahe hain yeh but I guess writers think that aise thode se scenes daal ke inka love prove ho jaayega😆

It is not that people don't adjust in a marriage but the premise for which they are showing this "adjustment" from Mishti has just been depicted in a very wrong manner and gives a bad message. This is not empowerment and to me this is not love either if your partner is so clueless about your pain.

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I really had thought ki main Aaj ka epi enjoy nahi Kar paaungi because of mishbir romance without any meaningful conversation but the way the convo between Nanu and abir and mishti and bm are executed and then the way whole surprise bit was represented, I actually loved it.

I am still hoping for a heartfelt talk between mishbir tomorrow, but today's episode was actually beautiful

Watching for a first time I really didn't get mishti's behaviour, but then reading analysis of Ruhi and diyu about those letter and mishti's behavior I was actually able to relate with mishbir. They didn't do something out of the box.

Actually writers do scenes dikhana bhul gaye abir ka monologue And mishti ka monologue 😆,unhe laga hum samajh jaayenge 🤣

Chalo chodo I know that many didn't liked it and they're right at their place but MishBir actually behaved like mishbir today also.

You remember the Mandir scene where mishti had came to apologize to abir , meenu had insulted her so badly, bp had took stand in front of her.

When they all came home we fans expected abir to reprimand meenu but he didn't said anything and his monologue was something about gusse ki aang to hawa nahi Deni chahiye something like that. He was a peacemaker always but he never stopped doubting meenu ,I think ab shak ki sui kuhu pe bhi ghum gayi hai . I know abir is track ki end tak dono kuhu meenu ki band bajayega .

About the apologize thing you should really read Ruhi and diyu's post, I think you'll be able to relate. Varna difference of opinion 😆😆

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

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I really had thought ki main Aaj ka epi enjoy nahi Kar paaungi because of mishbir romance without any meaningful conversation but the way the convo between Nanu and abir and mishti and bm are executed and then the way whole surprise bit was represented, I actually loved it.

I am still hoping for a heartfelt talk between mishbir tomorrow, but today's episode was actually beautiful

Watching for a first time I really didn't get mishti's behaviour, but then reading analysis of Ruhi and diyu about those letter and mishti's behavior I was actually able to relate with mishbir. They didn't do something out of the box.

Actually writers do scenes dikhana bhul gaye abir ka monologue And mishti ka monologue 😆,unhe laga hum samajh jaayenge 🤣

Chalo chodo I know that many didn't liked it and they're right at their place but MishBir actually behaved like mishbir today also.

You remember the Mandir scene where mishti had came to apologize to abir , meenu had insulted her so badly, bp had took stand in front of her.

When they all came home we fans expected abir to reprimand meenu but he didn't said anything and his monologue was something about gusse ki aang to hawa nahi Deni chahiye something like that. He was a peacemaker always but he never stopped doubting meenu ,I think ab shak ki sui kuhu pe bhi ghum gayi hai . I know abir is track ki end tak dono kuhu meenu ki band bajayega .

About the apologize thing you should really read Ruhi and diyu's post, I think you'll be able to relate. Varna difference of opinion 😆😆

@bold: But what defines "in character" behavior? Simply doing ajeeb things and shaayaris for apology? Then yes, sure, Mishbir were doing Mishbir-like things. 😆.....but context, timing, and situations matter.

Mishti's previous shaayari apologies were at a different stage in their story when their relationship was in a different stage. Everything wasn't being done in service of covering up for Kuhu and back then Abir still made time for Mishti beyond his pathetic family. Where is all that now? It is so very obvious that these scenes are only being put in to check off a box.....not for any meaningful development for AM.

LOL@ writers do scene daalna bhool gaye😆.....I guess my imagination is not as strong as all of you who are able to imagine these two missing scenes in so much detail😆.....I actually need to see some meaning to be able to connect....imagination se kaam nahin chalta.

Abir making excuses for Meenu toh anyways is permanent in this show.....but the whitewashing of Kuhu is even worse. Atleast in Meenu's case, he gives her token tashan (even though it's khokhla only cuz he never really does anything to get away from her toxicity....lol) but in Kuhu's case, he is actually being all loving with her even as she says horrible things about his wife. It's a stark difference that definitely leads to more disconnect from his character. And to show AM romance directly after that as a way of "making up" makes the problem even worse IMO. Just another way of brushing things under the carpet and never addressing them.....standard modus operandi for these writers.....lol

I know many here will love Abir regardless and find a way to find meaning in everything he says and does😆.....but mere liye yeh Abir is waqt khokhla hai.

Even after all this, you guys expect that he will band bajaao Kuhu in the end? 🤣 Kya optimism hai.....lol and I guess you all still think he will leave the house with Mishti too? Even after all this? 😆....Naa, he will live in this house only and keep making excuses for Kuhu and Meenu all his life for "family shaanti".....aur Mishti saath degi at any cost toh phir toh koi problem bhi nahin.....galat logon ka behavior enable karna is normal now.....lol

Originally posted by: ruhi19

im dying for a meaningful convo from their break up... but ab adat pad gayi usse deke bina hi epi dekne ki...

i wish i could skip the show yar but i cant...

this bro jhaap is more irritating but he will get his own medicine...

No he won't. Bro jaap is what runs this show now, so it's not going anywhere😆

It's not like Kuhu will stop fighting with Mishti or blaming her for every little thing. But now, Abir will be giving Mishti a look each time to stop her from reacting.....because he's shown pretty clearly that his goal is only to coddle Kuhu at any cost. Mishti will do anything Abir asks her cuz she has become convinced probably that Abir's approach of family ki galtiyon pe parda daal ke naachte raho is the right one😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: But what defines "in character" behavior? Simply doing ajeeb things and shaayaris for apology? Then yes, sure, Mishbir were doing Mishbir-like things. 😆.....but context, timing, and situations matter.

Mishti's previous shaayari apologies were at a different stage in their story when their relationship was in a different stage. Everything wasn't being done in service of covering up for Kuhu and back then Abir still made time for Mishti beyond his pathetic family. Where is all that now? It is so very obvious that these scenes are only being put in to check off a box.....not for any meaningful development for AM.

LOL@ writers do scene daalna bhool gaye😆.....I guess my imagination is not as strong as all of you who are able to imagine these two missing scenes in so much detail😆.....I actually need to see some meaning to be able to connect....imagination se kaam nahin chalta.

Abir making excuses for Meenu toh anyways is permanent in this show.....but the whitewashing of Kuhu is even worse. Atleast in Meenu's case, he gives her token tashan (even though it's khokhla only cuz he never really does anything to get away from her toxicity....lol) but in Kuhu's case, he is actually being all loving with her even as she says horrible things about his wife. It's a stark difference that definitely leads to more disconnect from his character. And to show AM romance directly after that as a way of "making up" makes the problem even worse IMO. Just another way of brushing things under the carpet and never addressing them.....standard modus operandi for these writers.....lol

I know many here will love Abir regardless and find a way to find meaning in everything he says and does😆.....but mere liye yeh Abir is waqt khokhla hai.

Even after all this, you guys expect that he will band bajaao Kuhu in the end? 🤣 Kya optimism hai.....lol and I guess you all still think he will leave the house with Mishti too? Even after all this? 😆....Naa, he will live in this house only and keep making excuses for Kuhu and Meenu all his life for "family shaanti".....aur Mishti saath degi at any cost toh phir toh koi problem bhi nahin.....galat logon ka behavior enable karna is normal now.....lol

Not doing Ajeeb shayari 🤣but making her feel special by actions 😆

Yup I am still optimistic about all that, I will never find them khokhla Kyuki Mujhe Wo dono Kuch zyada hi pasand hai, kya Karu🙈🙈😆😆

Writers scene daalna bhul gaye mazaak tha yaar 😆🤣🤣

Chalo rehne dete hai, main hopes mein epis dekh lungi Aage ke 😆😆

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Not doing Ajeeb shayari 🤣but making her feel special by actions 😆

Yup I am still optimistic about all that, I will never find them khokhla Kyuki Mujhe Wo dono Kuch zyada hi pasand hai, kya Karu🙈🙈😆😆

Writers scene daalna bhul gaye mazaak tha yaar 😆🤣🤣

Chalo rehne dete hai, main hopes mein epis dekh lungi Aage ke 😆😆

LOL chalo I don't want to bring down your optimism either. I'll stick to reading updates and agar koi lollipop scene theek thaak lagaa toh I'll chime in again.

Baaki you all enjoy😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

No he won't. Bro jaap is what runs this show now, so it's not going anywhere😆

It's not like Kuhu will stop fighting with Mishti or blaming her for every little thing. But now, Abir will be giving Mishti a look each time to stop her from reacting.....because he's shown pretty clearly that his goal is only to coddle Kuhu at any cost. Mishti will do anything Abir asks her cuz she has become convinced probably that Abir's approach of family ki galtiyon pe parda daal ke naachte raho is the right one😆

mishku if they wont fight then it will be wonder... i never want their relation to be a lovey dovey one... just wanted to be with eo cordially and respects other decision like after leap epi...

i dont think she will do anything blindly yar...may be she will support blindly but will stop when it hits her...