Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham
hi! im sort of a lost ranger to the forum and i really like how you put things! i dont think the problem is anu sleeping with komolika at all. but i have a problem with the writers justifying it so much- oh it was majboori, oh he was drunk, oh it was only once, he hates her just loves their child. if the writers had any guts at all then he would own up to it and accept that komo's love is simply stronger than his has ever been. why? because her love is protective and persistent whereas his is majboor. ALL THE TIME. if his love had ANY strength at all, he wouldnt have been blackmailed by komo, he wouldnt have killed prerna, he wouldnt have been married to komo once prerna 'died'. if he stayed married then sex is normal and sleeping with her regularly as opposed to once doesnt change anything. the bottomline is that he is a man who literally couldnt give respect to his relationship with the mother of his first child and now continuously bickers about the mother of his second child because he decided to kill the first one.
but i have a question for you. would it be important if prerna and bajaj had a daughter as well? or if we knew that they'd consummated as well? given how backwards most our tv consumers are, my guess is most likely there would be a backlash if prerna slept with bajaj but loved anu still, like anu does prerna despite of having a child with komo. if the writers had any guts they would address this double standard.
my only hope now is that the writers have enough guts to make prerna go through revenge. it'll be cool- she kills komo, then anu who regrets everything in his last breathe and then decides to raise diya with rishab to lessen her pain of losing parents and lessen prerna's own pain of losing sneha. good ending.
hi, thanks for that. 😊
I agree, the problem with CVs is with justifying it. And that's been like that since the beginning of the show. CVs could not even own up to the lead couple's One Night Stand without bringing Mangalsutra Sindoor drama. Why was it tried so hard to justify their one night stand ? If you could go about it without justification 20 yrs back, why couldnt you do it today ? Did we to backward ? And now same thing with this consummation. Do they even realize what impact does it make on the child who you're calling a mistake ? This just makes me dislike Anu2.0 even further. And this is 100000 times worse than the original.
About Bajaj Prerna, if you ask me, I'd say if you want to move on with someone else in your life, with Bajaj, do it open and do it bold. Go marry and have a child, get rid of your baggage. Yes, first love might hold something in your heart, but if that's so toxic that it only brings suffocation to you, then really get rid of it. But but but, be honest to your partner about it. One good thing about Anu Komo is, Anu came clean to Komo about not loving her. Now if Komo still wants to sleep with Anu, have child with him and Anu is abiding by, then it's not Anu's problem, he is not cheating Komo. I want the same from any relationship. If Prerna wants to go physical with RB and before that tells him that she will always love someone else, and if still Bajaj accepts that then why not ? If Bajaj still wants to have kids with her, then why not ?
The only difference here is, Bajaj is not Komo, will never be Komo. Bajaj is someone who gives space to others and when he wants something, he wants the whole of it. He is passionate and does not adjust with 'part' of it like Komo does here. He is ready to wait for 8 yrs and more, but he expects when Prerna'd come for him, she should come wholly. So at this point, I dont see how Bajaj could have had a child with Prerna knowing Prerna's heart is not there. It's about two couples with very different dynamics and characteristics here. AnuKomo have made the entire thing bitter and polluted with their deals and blackmailing. BajajPrerna have taken it easy and let the other one breathe by not making any deal to have some part of the relationship. AnuKomo have a perfect marriage and a kid now, but their is no real relationship except resentment from Anu's side. PrernaBajaj have almost nothing to begin with still they can be themselves with each other. When we are talking about a kid, the kid would more likely want to be part of the second couple and not the first. So whenever BajajPrerna are ready, they will have a kid with no terms and conditions and no lying or cheating or regrets around 😃
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