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Originally posted by: Onyourface

Ok girls , I have to make some points here

First lets talk about mishti and BM bond ...though I like their bond but I don't think that BM realises that she is creating an usual friction and pressure on mishti and her thought process and this I believe the same is done over the years , clearly along with her abandonment issues, this is also one of the reason where she tries to fight things on her own and prefers to lie and hide certain things under the carpet so that certain bonds and relationships remain intact ...I don't really appreciate this kind of attitude when you are actually living in a joint family...I will tell you why , haathon ki paanch ungliyaan ek jaisi nahi hoti hai , phir bhi saari ungliyon ki zarurat hoti hai ek mazboot moothi banane ke liye.in the same way if you actually want to keep a family together , it's the responsibility of every adult member to understand each other and make sure to create strong bonds , it's not the sole responsibility of the bahu or the sister or the head of the family to do so , badi maa unnecessarily created a pressure on her saying that abinal bond should remain intact , no badi maa ...its not mishti's sole responsibility to check if any bond is intact , if abinal breaks then abinal are responsible for the same this is what abir says - jab koi rishta toot ta hai toh uske liye sirf vo do log responsible hote hai jo us rishte mein ho - simple yet deep ! So keeping in mind parivaar ki izzat and respect of other bonds , mishti prefers to go for private confrontation because she feels if things can get solved between 2 persons then why to exaggerate and tell others and this attitude of hers was clearly highlighted in today's episode also , when bb was complaining to BM about mishti's attempt to bring abir back home and not take him to the hospital ....she tells bb that if you have any complaints for me because you feel I have done mistake then please tell me , unless you tell me how will I know that I am making some mistake in the process ...so she prefers to go for private confrontations because ..... badi maa ki baat bhi reh jayegi aur confrontation bhi ho jayega n this is exactly where she goes wrong .... she has been doing this for years I believe by trying to hide the real aspects of mishku relationship and putting up a face of happy sister relationship, this thing has gone overboard that she now has a tough time coming out of this fake zone , clearly she is still the girl who hasn't learned to differentiate between pyaar and ehsaan, and I don't blame her completely but I just sometimes feel bad for her she is pressurised from all sides so much so that she is not able to pour out her real feelings openly ...And I don't think she has realised that in a way this thought process of hers is inviting more troubles and ultimately and back firing on her only😆 Because then it becomes all mishti ki wajah se and then she makes that extra effort to clear her name and the cycle continues .....

When you allow others to walk over you , they do walk over you ...simple....you have to set your own limits here

as much as I will love her being angry chroni and giving it back to kuhu in her own way , for a fact I still know that things are not going to change between them even after the slap , if mishti's private confrontation works then they would have worked from the first confrontation itself ....committing a crime is wrong , hiding that crime is wrong as well ... kuhu will never understand if mishti will tell her the truth or slap her or will show her the fierce attitude, it will just give more chances to kuhu to go against mishti blame mishti , instead of realising her own mistakes, she will only concentrate on hating mishti and thereby go on self destruction mode ending up creating blunders and committing crimes in the name of insecurities and jealousy

And why does this happen all the time, why kuhu doesn't understand ...the answer is quite simple - just like saying a truth is important , the time at which the truth is told , the person who is saying the truth , all that plays an important role here , what's the reason that kunal got such a beautiful redemption? Because there is some one who told him the truth on his face in front of everyone .."tu mere bhai nahi ho sakta nanko " this one sentence by abir changed kunal for good, mishti tried her best to make kunal understand that he should be the brother that abir needs but kunal never got it the right way , it was abir ( the one who kunal loves the most and the bond that kunal prioritizes ) who made him realise how wrong he is, when he spoke those words , things started changing ....abir also gave innumerable chances to kunal thinking that he may improve one day but once he realised that kunal tried to put someone's life at risk and it's a criminal offence ....that was it for him , and that triggered this reaction....even if same words are spoken by someone who we love and we hate the most ...still it will create different kind of impact on us .....those words were spoken by abir and that's why it created a huge impact on kunal

when mishti says something to kuhu, kuhu's hatred for mishti takes over her ability to understand what mishti is saying , in the end instead of realising that how wrong she is , she ends up blaming mishti because thats more convenient way to do when you dont want to accept your mistakes....it not only takes a big heart but also immense strength and courage to realise your own mistakes and also accept them and apologise for them .... that's why I respect abir more than anyone in this show ... mishti's confrontation will never make kuhu realise what she has done , instead she will find more ways to blame others especially mishti, I am happy that kunal is in the process to find the truth and kuhu got extremely afraid because of that , he won't give up unless he finds the real culprit , someone apart form mishti has to step in to break this cycle of hiding and blaming ... someone who kuhu genuinely loves and respects, when that person will show her the mirror, that's when kuhu will actually break in real sense...

Coming to mishti again , I respect her a lot that she controlled and didn't really make benba's dream turn into reality First she wasn't sure about the truth so that plays a role.here in not going for the direct confrontation and second BB's plan flopped but after that she shouldn't be hiding things from her husband , because of 2 things -

abir is a victim here and he deserves all the rights to know that who is the one responsible for his condition

The promise mishti gave to abir , the first promise after being his wife , promise that she won't hide anything and this thing is not a small thing

Some may say that can't go ahead without any solid proof, well I would have agreed with this if the premises was mahs house where people blame her all the time , here in rv house mishti isn't required to think before speaking her mind especially in front of abir, and abir has believed her even without proofs - ved fiasco , she was a stranger for him but still trusted her over his sister's future husband baba fiasco - abir figured out on his own and made baba speak the truth just a slight hint was enough for him to realise and I am sure if mishti drops a hint or shares her confusions...at least abir will try to think in that direction I really don't want to remain clueless here and play holi

In rv house , people don't let go the things easily or have a chalta hai jaane do attitude....and in a way its good and I am loving it and hope this stays , kunal is trying his best to find the culprit , meenu will not let anyone forget this because she has her own personal gains from this , mishti is in violent chroni avatar and abir knows that parul can't be the culprit There is extreme level of pressure on kuhu from all sides , I have a very strong feeling, this pressure only will make her accidentally speak up and someone will know ...

Lol I don't know where the drama is leading to , but this time I hope the kaand comes out and kuhu is caught, because through this not only kuhu will be served proper punishment and but also mishti will realise that hiding things wasn't a proper way to deal with certain matters ...its only abir who can make her realise and for that abir should know the truth ..... but I don't trust the makers ...hiding blaming stuff is giving lot of raw material for drama...so I doubt kitna kheechna chahte hai isse ....expecting some dhamaka on holi now

One more thing i noticed , benba's dream ...she tells bachpan se ladkiyon ke beech mann mutaav chal raha hai ...means she has already done her complete research on these sisters vaise I don't fully blame her.... I mean some what mistake credit should go to kuhu and mishti too ... come on ...spiking someone's drink is a crime and hiding it isn't a great idea either

Talking about the episode now , even with high voltage drama I still loved it

So AM are progressing with their kisses...forehead se temples ...hmmmm Next time thoda aur neeche

Lol abir is neend mein bhi hoshiyar....but today he is behoshi mein bhi hoshiyar Asking angry Chorni to relax , mishti was very angry on doctor when she was asking ke kab tak theek hoga abir

Mishnal bond is definitely rising now , they bonded because of abir but now I see a mutual respect getting developed between them Haan nanko mujhe bhi yaad reh gaya hai ...ek goli abhi , ek hai ek hour baad aur ek uske 15 mins baad and then check the temp Lol abir behosh tha varna yeh bond dekh ke garba kar leta khushi se

Sasuma and bahu twinning today...name starts with M and ends with I ....both have a habit of watching elaborate dreams With detailed analysis of everyone's expressions and dialogues And both of them know the truth but are 😷

I hope Angry Chorni jaldi hi apne sleeping beauty ko jagah de ...please please

👏👏

what ever it is in mishku relation both are responsible for that...

coming to hiding things from abir... i really want mish to share with him...

this track will lead to abinal relationship mein darar and mishbir leaving rjv...

after seeing seg the darar between abinal is becoz of kuhu only... she cant see her husband pain wen abir was angry on him...

sasuma is playing very cleverly but bahu also giving it in her way... when bahu comes to know what sasuma is upto then it will be worth...

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Ok girls , I have to make some points here

First lets talk about mishti and BM bond ...though I like their bond but I don't think that BM realises that she is creating an usual friction and pressure on mishti and her thought process and this I believe the same is done over the years , clearly along with her abandonment issues, this is also one of the reason where she tries to fight things on her own and prefers to lie and hide certain things under the carpet so that certain bonds and relationships remain intact ...I don't really appreciate this kind of attitude when you are actually living in a joint family...I will tell you why , haathon ki paanch ungliyaan ek jaisi nahi hoti hai , phir bhi saari ungliyon ki zarurat hoti hai ek mazboot moothi banane ke liye.in the same way if you actually want to keep a family together , it's the responsibility of every adult member to understand each other and make sure to create strong bonds , it's not the sole responsibility of the bahu or the sister or the head of the family to do so , badi maa unnecessarily created a pressure on her saying that abinal bond should remain intact , no badi maa ...its not mishti's sole responsibility to check if any bond is intact , if abinal breaks then abinal are responsible for the same this is what abir says - jab koi rishta toot ta hai toh uske liye sirf vo do log responsible hote hai jo us rishte mein ho - simple yet deep ! So keeping in mind parivaar ki izzat and respect of other bonds , mishti prefers to go for private confrontation because she feels if things can get solved between 2 persons then why to exaggerate and tell others and this attitude of hers was clearly highlighted in today's episode also , when bb was complaining to BM about mishti's attempt to bring abir back home and not take him to the hospital ....she tells bb that if you have any complaints for me because you feel I have done mistake then please tell me , unless you tell me how will I know that I am making some mistake in the process ...so she prefers to go for private confrontations because ..... badi maa ki baat bhi reh jayegi aur confrontation bhi ho jayega n this is exactly where she goes wrong .... she has been doing this for years I believe by trying to hide the real aspects of mishku relationship and putting up a face of happy sister relationship, this thing has gone overboard that she now has a tough time coming out of this fake zone , clearly she is still the girl who hasn't learned to differentiate between pyaar and ehsaan, and I don't blame her completely but I just sometimes feel bad for her she is pressurised from all sides so much so that she is not able to pour out her real feelings openly ...And I don't think she has realised that in a way this thought process of hers is inviting more troubles and ultimately and back firing on her only😆 Because then it becomes all mishti ki wajah se and then she makes that extra effort to clear her name and the cycle continues .....

When you allow others to walk over you , they do walk over you ...simple....you have to set your own limits here

as much as I will love her being angry chroni and giving it back to kuhu in her own way , for a fact I still know that things are not going to change between them even after the slap , if mishti's private confrontation works then they would have worked from the first confrontation itself ....committing a crime is wrong , hiding that crime is wrong as well ... kuhu will never understand if mishti will tell her the truth or slap her or will show her the fierce attitude, it will just give more chances to kuhu to go against mishti blame mishti , instead of realising her own mistakes, she will only concentrate on hating mishti and thereby go on self destruction mode ending up creating blunders and committing crimes in the name of insecurities and jealousy

And why does this happen all the time, why kuhu doesn't understand ...the answer is quite simple - just like saying a truth is important , the time at which the truth is told , the person who is saying the truth , all that plays an important role here , what's the reason that kunal got such a beautiful redemption? Because there is some one who told him the truth on his face in front of everyone .."tu mere bhai nahi ho sakta nanko " this one sentence by abir changed kunal for good, mishti tried her best to make kunal understand that he should be the brother that abir needs but kunal never got it the right way , it was abir ( the one who kunal loves the most and the bond that kunal prioritizes ) who made him realise how wrong he is, when he spoke those words , things started changing ....abir also gave innumerable chances to kunal thinking that he may improve one day but once he realised that kunal tried to put someone's life at risk and it's a criminal offence ....that was it for him , and that triggered this reaction....even if same words are spoken by someone who we love and we hate the most ...still it will create different kind of impact on us .....those words were spoken by abir and that's why it created a huge impact on kunal

when mishti says something to kuhu, kuhu's hatred for mishti takes over her ability to understand what mishti is saying , in the end instead of realising that how wrong she is , she ends up blaming mishti because thats more convenient way to do when you dont want to accept your mistakes....it not only takes a big heart but also immense strength and courage to realise your own mistakes and also accept them and apologise for them .... that's why I respect abir more than anyone in this show ... mishti's confrontation will never make kuhu realise what she has done , instead she will find more ways to blame others especially mishti, I am happy that kunal is in the process to find the truth and kuhu got extremely afraid because of that , he won't give up unless he finds the real culprit , someone apart form mishti has to step in to break this cycle of hiding and blaming ... someone who kuhu genuinely loves and respects, when that person will show her the mirror, that's when kuhu will actually break in real sense...

Coming to mishti again , I respect her a lot that she controlled and didn't really make benba's dream turn into reality First she wasn't sure about the truth so that plays a role.here in not going for the direct confrontation and second BB's plan flopped but after that she shouldn't be hiding things from her husband , because of 2 things -

abir is a victim here and he deserves all the rights to know that who is the one responsible for his condition

The promise mishti gave to abir , the first promise after being his wife , promise that she won't hide anything and this thing is not a small thing

Some may say that can't go ahead without any solid proof, well I would have agreed with this if the premises was mahs house where people blame her all the time , here in rv house mishti isn't required to think before speaking her mind especially in front of abir, and abir has believed her even without proofs - ved fiasco , she was a stranger for him but still trusted her over his sister's future husband baba fiasco - abir figured out on his own and made baba speak the truth just a slight hint was enough for him to realise and I am sure if mishti drops a hint or shares her confusions...at least abir will try to think in that direction I really don't want to remain clueless here and play holi

In rv house , people don't let go the things easily or have a chalta hai jaane do attitude....and in a way its good and I am loving it and hope this stays , kunal is trying his best to find the culprit , meenu will not let anyone forget this because she has her own personal gains from this , mishti is in violent chroni avatar and abir knows that parul can't be the culprit There is extreme level of pressure on kuhu from all sides , I have a very strong feeling, this pressure only will make her accidentally speak up and someone will know ...

Lol I don't know where the drama is leading to , but this time I hope the kaand comes out and kuhu is caught, because through this not only kuhu will be served proper punishment and but also mishti will realise that hiding things wasn't a proper way to deal with certain matters ...its only abir who can make her realise and for that abir should know the truth ..... but I don't trust the makers ...hiding blaming stuff is giving lot of raw material for drama...so I doubt kitna kheechna chahte hai isse ....expecting some dhamaka on holi now

One more thing i noticed , benba's dream ...she tells bachpan se ladkiyon ke beech mann mutaav chal raha hai ...means she has already done her complete research on these sisters vaise I don't fully blame her.... I mean some what mistake credit should go to kuhu and mishti too ... come on ...spiking someone's drink is a crime and hiding it isn't a great idea either

Talking about the episode now , even with high voltage drama I still loved it

So AM are progressing with their kisses...forehead se temples ...hmmmm Next time thoda aur neeche

Lol abir is neend mein bhi hoshiyar....but today he is behoshi mein bhi hoshiyar Asking angry Chorni to relax , mishti was very angry on doctor when she was asking ke kab tak theek hoga abir

Mishnal bond is definitely rising now , they bonded because of abir but now I see a mutual respect getting developed between them Haan nanko mujhe bhi yaad reh gaya hai ...ek goli abhi , ek hai ek hour baad aur ek uske 15 mins baad and then check the temp Lol abir behosh tha varna yeh bond dekh ke garba kar leta khushi se

Sasuma and bahu twinning today...name starts with M and ends with I ....both have a habit of watching elaborate dreams With detailed analysis of everyone's expressions and dialogues And both of them know the truth but are 😷

I hope Angry Chorni jaldi hi apne sleeping beauty ko jagah de ...please please

Perfect analysis Uru👍🏼

Especially what you wrote about BM and Mishti.LOL.....it is not the sisters' responsibilty to take care of the abhinal bond, instead they should work on theirs and atleast find out how to coexist peacefully.

And you are right !! The person who says the truth is important for a person to change. Kuhu will never understand what Mishti says.....instead Mishti is enabling her more by hiding her sins from everyone. Somehow I feel that person for Kuhu could be Varsha whom I think is the one person Kuhu really loves and doesn't want to hurt.

I wish Mishti will atleast reveal to Abir that Kuhu is the culprit. Kuhu will atleast give a thought to what Abir says. Baaki hiding drama is bread and butter of the show and random promises that they will never hide stuff or lie😆

Kushti bond is definitely rising ....never realised it rose so much.....bhabhi ka har baat maan raha hain🤔.....mishti ne bola gaadi gumado...devar ne gumaadi, mishti ne bola kunal tum jao khaana khaao devar ne kaha okay bhabiji......LOL...kuch zyada rise nahin hua?? 😆🤣🤣Indigestion ho raha hain shayad mujhe.....now who will satisfy my appetite for kushti confrontations???😆

Bold - Sleeping beauty😆......right he is. He just needs a kiss from princess Mishti to wake up 😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Ok girls , I have to make some points here

First lets talk about mishti and BM bond ...though I like their bond but I don't think that BM realises that she is creating an usual friction and pressure on mishti and her thought process and this I believe the same is done over the years , clearly along with her abandonment issues, this is also one of the reason where she tries to fight things on her own and prefers to lie and hide certain things under the carpet so that certain bonds and relationships remain intact ...I don't really appreciate this kind of attitude when you are actually living in a joint family...I will tell you why , haathon ki paanch ungliyaan ek jaisi nahi hoti hai , phir bhi saari ungliyon ki zarurat hoti hai ek mazboot moothi banane ke liye.in the same way if you actually want to keep a family together , it's the responsibility of every adult member to understand each other and make sure to create strong bonds , it's not the sole responsibility of the bahu or the sister or the head of the family to do so , badi maa unnecessarily created a pressure on her saying that abinal bond should remain intact , no badi maa ...its not mishti's sole responsibility to check if any bond is intact , if abinal breaks then abinal are responsible for the same this is what abir says - jab koi rishta toot ta hai toh uske liye sirf vo do log responsible hote hai jo us rishte mein ho - simple yet deep ! So keeping in mind parivaar ki izzat and respect of other bonds , mishti prefers to go for private confrontation because she feels if things can get solved between 2 persons then why to exaggerate and tell others and this attitude of hers was clearly highlighted in today's episode also , when bb was complaining to BM about mishti's attempt to bring abir back home and not take him to the hospital ....she tells bb that if you have any complaints for me because you feel I have done mistake then please tell me , unless you tell me how will I know that I am making some mistake in the process ...so she prefers to go for private confrontations because ..... badi maa ki baat bhi reh jayegi aur confrontation bhi ho jayega n this is exactly where she goes wrong .... she has been doing this for years I believe by trying to hide the real aspects of mishku relationship and putting up a face of happy sister relationship, this thing has gone overboard that she now has a tough time coming out of this fake zone , clearly she is still the girl who hasn't learned to differentiate between pyaar and ehsaan, and I don't blame her completely but I just sometimes feel bad for her she is pressurised from all sides so much so that she is not able to pour out her real feelings openly ...And I don't think she has realised that in a way this thought process of hers is inviting more troubles and ultimately and back firing on her only😆 Because then it becomes all mishti ki wajah se and then she makes that extra effort to clear her name and the cycle continues .....

When you allow others to walk over you , they do walk over you ...simple....you have to set your own limits here

as much as I will love her being angry chroni and giving it back to kuhu in her own way , for a fact I still know that things are not going to change between them even after the slap , if mishti's private confrontation works then they would have worked from the first confrontation itself ....committing a crime is wrong , hiding that crime is wrong as well ... kuhu will never understand if mishti will tell her the truth or slap her or will show her the fierce attitude, it will just give more chances to kuhu to go against mishti blame mishti , instead of realising her own mistakes, she will only concentrate on hating mishti and thereby go on self destruction mode ending up creating blunders and committing crimes in the name of insecurities and jealousy

And why does this happen all the time, why kuhu doesn't understand ...the answer is quite simple - just like saying a truth is important , the time at which the truth is told , the person who is saying the truth , all that plays an important role here , what's the reason that kunal got such a beautiful redemption? Because there is some one who told him the truth on his face in front of everyone .."tu mere bhai nahi ho sakta nanko " this one sentence by abir changed kunal for good, mishti tried her best to make kunal understand that he should be the brother that abir needs but kunal never got it the right way , it was abir ( the one who kunal loves the most and the bond that kunal prioritizes ) who made him realise how wrong he is, when he spoke those words , things started changing ....abir also gave innumerable chances to kunal thinking that he may improve one day but once he realised that kunal tried to put someone's life at risk and it's a criminal offence ....that was it for him , and that triggered this reaction....even if same words are spoken by someone who we love and we hate the most ...still it will create different kind of impact on us .....those words were spoken by abir and that's why it created a huge impact on kunal

when mishti says something to kuhu, kuhu's hatred for mishti takes over her ability to understand what mishti is saying , in the end instead of realising that how wrong she is , she ends up blaming mishti because thats more convenient way to do when you dont want to accept your mistakes....it not only takes a big heart but also immense strength and courage to realise your own mistakes and also accept them and apologise for them .... that's why I respect abir more than anyone in this show ... mishti's confrontation will never make kuhu realise what she has done , instead she will find more ways to blame others especially mishti, I am happy that kunal is in the process to find the truth and kuhu got extremely afraid because of that , he won't give up unless he finds the real culprit , someone apart form mishti has to step in to break this cycle of hiding and blaming ... someone who kuhu genuinely loves and respects, when that person will show her the mirror, that's when kuhu will actually break in real sense...

Coming to mishti again , I respect her a lot that she controlled and didn't really make benba's dream turn into reality First she wasn't sure about the truth so that plays a role.here in not going for the direct confrontation and second BB's plan flopped but after that she shouldn't be hiding things from her husband , because of 2 things -

abir is a victim here and he deserves all the rights to know that who is the one responsible for his condition

The promise mishti gave to abir , the first promise after being his wife , promise that she won't hide anything and this thing is not a small thing

Some may say that can't go ahead without any solid proof, well I would have agreed with this if the premises was mahs house where people blame her all the time , here in rv house mishti isn't required to think before speaking her mind especially in front of abir, and abir has believed her even without proofs - ved fiasco , she was a stranger for him but still trusted her over his sister's future husband baba fiasco - abir figured out on his own and made baba speak the truth just a slight hint was enough for him to realise and I am sure if mishti drops a hint or shares her confusions...at least abir will try to think in that direction I really don't want to remain clueless here and play holi

In rv house , people don't let go the things easily or have a chalta hai jaane do attitude....and in a way its good and I am loving it and hope this stays , kunal is trying his best to find the culprit , meenu will not let anyone forget this because she has her own personal gains from this , mishti is in violent chroni avatar and abir knows that parul can't be the culprit There is extreme level of pressure on kuhu from all sides , I have a very strong feeling, this pressure only will make her accidentally speak up and someone will know ...

Lol I don't know where the drama is leading to , but this time I hope the kaand comes out and kuhu is caught, because through this not only kuhu will be served proper punishment and but also mishti will realise that hiding things wasn't a proper way to deal with certain matters ...its only abir who can make her realise and for that abir should know the truth ..... but I don't trust the makers ...hiding blaming stuff is giving lot of raw material for drama...so I doubt kitna kheechna chahte hai isse ....expecting some dhamaka on holi now

One more thing i noticed , benba's dream ...she tells bachpan se ladkiyon ke beech mann mutaav chal raha hai ...means she has already done her complete research on these sisters vaise I don't fully blame her.... I mean some what mistake credit should go to kuhu and mishti too ... come on ...spiking someone's drink is a crime and hiding it isn't a great idea either

Talking about the episode now , even with high voltage drama I still loved it

So AM are progressing with their kisses...forehead se temples ...hmmmm Next time thoda aur neeche

Lol abir is neend mein bhi hoshiyar....but today he is behoshi mein bhi hoshiyar Asking angry Chorni to relax , mishti was very angry on doctor when she was asking ke kab tak theek hoga abir

Mishnal bond is definitely rising now , they bonded because of abir but now I see a mutual respect getting developed between them Haan nanko mujhe bhi yaad reh gaya hai ...ek goli abhi , ek hai ek hour baad aur ek uske 15 mins baad and then check the temp Lol abir behosh tha varna yeh bond dekh ke garba kar leta khushi se

Sasuma and bahu twinning today...name starts with M and ends with I ....both have a habit of watching elaborate dreams With detailed analysis of everyone's expressions and dialogues And both of them know the truth but are 😷

I hope Angry Chorni jaldi hi apne sleeping beauty ko jagah de ...please please

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Ok girls , I have to make some points here

First lets talk about mishti and BM bond ...though I like their bond but I don't think that BM realises that she is creating an usual friction and pressure on mishti and her thought process and this I believe the same is done over the years , clearly along with her abandonment issues, this is also one of the reason where she tries to fight things on her own and prefers to lie and hide certain things under the carpet so that certain bonds and relationships remain intact ...I don't really appreciate this kind of attitude when you are actually living in a joint family...I will tell you why , haathon ki paanch ungliyaan ek jaisi nahi hoti hai , phir bhi saari ungliyon ki zarurat hoti hai ek mazboot moothi banane ke liye.in the same way if you actually want to keep a family together , it's the responsibility of every adult member to understand each other and make sure to create strong bonds , it's not the sole responsibility of the bahu or the sister or the head of the family to do so , badi maa unnecessarily created a pressure on her saying that abinal bond should remain intact , no badi maa ...its not mishti's sole responsibility to check if any bond is intact , if abinal breaks then abinal are responsible for the same this is what abir says - jab koi rishta toot ta hai toh uske liye sirf vo do log responsible hote hai jo us rishte mein ho - simple yet deep ! So keeping in mind parivaar ki izzat and respect of other bonds , mishti prefers to go for private confrontation because she feels if things can get solved between 2 persons then why to exaggerate and tell others and this attitude of hers was clearly highlighted in today's episode also , when bb was complaining to BM about mishti's attempt to bring abir back home and not take him to the hospital ....she tells bb that if you have any complaints for me because you feel I have done mistake then please tell me , unless you tell me how will I know that I am making some mistake in the process ...so she prefers to go for private confrontations because ..... badi maa ki baat bhi reh jayegi aur confrontation bhi ho jayega n this is exactly where she goes wrong .... she has been doing this for years I believe by trying to hide the real aspects of mishku relationship and putting up a face of happy sister relationship, this thing has gone overboard that she now has a tough time coming out of this fake zone , clearly she is still the girl who hasn't learned to differentiate between pyaar and ehsaan, and I don't blame her completely but I just sometimes feel bad for her she is pressurised from all sides so much so that she is not able to pour out her real feelings openly ...And I don't think she has realised that in a way this thought process of hers is inviting more troubles and ultimately and back firing on her only😆 Because then it becomes all mishti ki wajah se and then she makes that extra effort to clear her name and the cycle continues .....

When you allow others to walk over you , they do walk over you ...simple....you have to set your own limits here

as much as I will love her being angry chroni and giving it back to kuhu in her own way , for a fact I still know that things are not going to change between them even after the slap , if mishti's private confrontation works then they would have worked from the first confrontation itself ....committing a crime is wrong , hiding that crime is wrong as well ... kuhu will never understand if mishti will tell her the truth or slap her or will show her the fierce attitude, it will just give more chances to kuhu to go against mishti blame mishti , instead of realising her own mistakes, she will only concentrate on hating mishti and thereby go on self destruction mode ending up creating blunders and committing crimes in the name of insecurities and jealousy

And why does this happen all the time, why kuhu doesn't understand ...the answer is quite simple - just like saying a truth is important , the time at which the truth is told , the person who is saying the truth , all that plays an important role here , what's the reason that kunal got such a beautiful redemption? Because there is some one who told him the truth on his face in front of everyone .."tu mere bhai nahi ho sakta nanko " this one sentence by abir changed kunal for good, mishti tried her best to make kunal understand that he should be the brother that abir needs but kunal never got it the right way , it was abir ( the one who kunal loves the most and the bond that kunal prioritizes ) who made him realise how wrong he is, when he spoke those words , things started changing ....abir also gave innumerable chances to kunal thinking that he may improve one day but once he realised that kunal tried to put someone's life at risk and it's a criminal offence ....that was it for him , and that triggered this reaction....even if same words are spoken by someone who we love and we hate the most ...still it will create different kind of impact on us .....those words were spoken by abir and that's why it created a huge impact on kunal

when mishti says something to kuhu, kuhu's hatred for mishti takes over her ability to understand what mishti is saying , in the end instead of realising that how wrong she is , she ends up blaming mishti because thats more convenient way to do when you dont want to accept your mistakes....it not only takes a big heart but also immense strength and courage to realise your own mistakes and also accept them and apologise for them .... that's why I respect abir more than anyone in this show ... mishti's confrontation will never make kuhu realise what she has done , instead she will find more ways to blame others especially mishti, I am happy that kunal is in the process to find the truth and kuhu got extremely afraid because of that , he won't give up unless he finds the real culprit , someone apart form mishti has to step in to break this cycle of hiding and blaming ... someone who kuhu genuinely loves and respects, when that person will show her the mirror, that's when kuhu will actually break in real sense...

Coming to mishti again , I respect her a lot that she controlled and didn't really make benba's dream turn into reality First she wasn't sure about the truth so that plays a role.here in not going for the direct confrontation and second BB's plan flopped but after that she shouldn't be hiding things from her husband , because of 2 things -

abir is a victim here and he deserves all the rights to know that who is the one responsible for his condition

The promise mishti gave to abir , the first promise after being his wife , promise that she won't hide anything and this thing is not a small thing

Some may say that can't go ahead without any solid proof, well I would have agreed with this if the premises was mahs house where people blame her all the time , here in rv house mishti isn't required to think before speaking her mind especially in front of abir, and abir has believed her even without proofs - ved fiasco , she was a stranger for him but still trusted her over his sister's future husband baba fiasco - abir figured out on his own and made baba speak the truth just a slight hint was enough for him to realise and I am sure if mishti drops a hint or shares her confusions...at least abir will try to think in that direction I really don't want to remain clueless here and play holi

In rv house , people don't let go the things easily or have a chalta hai jaane do attitude....and in a way its good and I am loving it and hope this stays , kunal is trying his best to find the culprit , meenu will not let anyone forget this because she has her own personal gains from this , mishti is in violent chroni avatar and abir knows that parul can't be the culprit There is extreme level of pressure on kuhu from all sides , I have a very strong feeling, this pressure only will make her accidentally speak up and someone will know ...

Lol I don't know where the drama is leading to , but this time I hope the kaand comes out and kuhu is caught, because through this not only kuhu will be served proper punishment and but also mishti will realise that hiding things wasn't a proper way to deal with certain matters ...its only abir who can make her realise and for that abir should know the truth ..... but I don't trust the makers ...hiding blaming stuff is giving lot of raw material for drama...so I doubt kitna kheechna chahte hai isse ....expecting some dhamaka on holi now

One more thing i noticed , benba's dream ...she tells bachpan se ladkiyon ke beech mann mutaav chal raha hai ...means she has already done her complete research on these sisters vaise I don't fully blame her.... I mean some what mistake credit should go to kuhu and mishti too ... come on ...spiking someone's drink is a crime and hiding it isn't a great idea either

Talking about the episode now , even with high voltage drama I still loved it

So AM are progressing with their kisses...forehead se temples ...hmmmm Next time thoda aur neeche

Lol abir is neend mein bhi hoshiyar....but today he is behoshi mein bhi hoshiyar Asking angry Chorni to relax , mishti was very angry on doctor when she was asking ke kab tak theek hoga abir

Mishnal bond is definitely rising now , they bonded because of abir but now I see a mutual respect getting developed between them Haan nanko mujhe bhi yaad reh gaya hai ...ek goli abhi , ek hai ek hour baad aur ek uske 15 mins baad and then check the temp Lol abir behosh tha varna yeh bond dekh ke garba kar leta khushi se

Sasuma and bahu twinning today...name starts with M and ends with I ....both have a habit of watching elaborate dreams With detailed analysis of everyone's expressions and dialogues And both of them know the truth but are 😷

I hope Angry Chorni jaldi hi apne sleeping beauty ko jagah de ...please please

Uru darling....🤗I second you in this...I completely agree with each and every word...

I can understand where mishti is coming from.. she simply doesn't want to carry her tag line "Broken Family"....From Childhood, this tag line given by the society and people like Jas has been haunting her and that is the main reason for her to confront family members in private. It is not that she is afraid but she is frightened of that "Tag Line".

I agree even this slap and private talk is not going to get Kuhu her senses back. she is plainly been blinded by insecurities and Jealousy. (Jas might have played a major role in this since kuhu childhood)

Yesterday, I mentioned about KARMA hitting back the core of your heart that is the one who you love the most....So when kunal desert her after Abir steps out of RVs to live separately....Kuhu will realize her mistake and from there kuhu's redemption will commence.

PROMISE---- I want mishti to keep up her Promise she made to her husband on the wedding day. I so badly want her to tell Abir about this pill conspiracy or atleast give a hint where he is clever enough to connect the dots. To me, there should be no secrets between spouse be it about thier respective families. They must work as a team to keep the family intact, if that's what they want... Spouse comes first followed by the in-laws and not viceversa.

Like BP and BM does..first sit and talk to deduce to a decision that is right and then the man should take it forward with his woman by his side. BP always turn towards BM before he agrees to anyone about anything.

@Bold... I hope Mishti know how to wake up a sleeping beauty😉🤣

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Ok girls , I have to make some points here

First lets talk about mishti and BM bond ...though I like their bond but I don't think that BM realises that she is creating an usual friction and pressure on mishti and her thought process and this I believe the same is done over the years , clearly along with her abandonment issues, this is also one of the reason where she tries to fight things on her own and prefers to lie and hide certain things under the carpet so that certain bonds and relationships remain intact ...I don't really appreciate this kind of attitude when you are actually living in a joint family...I will tell you why , haathon ki paanch ungliyaan ek jaisi nahi hoti hai , phir bhi saari ungliyon ki zarurat hoti hai ek mazboot moothi banane ke liye.in the same way if you actually want to keep a family together , it's the responsibility of every adult member to understand each other and make sure to create strong bonds , it's not the sole responsibility of the bahu or the sister or the head of the family to do so , badi maa unnecessarily created a pressure on her saying that abinal bond should remain intact , no badi maa ...its not mishti's sole responsibility to check if any bond is intact , if abinal breaks then abinal are responsible for the same this is what abir says - jab koi rishta toot ta hai toh uske liye sirf vo do log responsible hote hai jo us rishte mein ho - simple yet deep ! So keeping in mind parivaar ki izzat and respect of other bonds , mishti prefers to go for private confrontation because she feels if things can get solved between 2 persons then why to exaggerate and tell others and this attitude of hers was clearly highlighted in today's episode also , when bb was complaining to BM about mishti's attempt to bring abir back home and not take him to the hospital ....she tells bb that if you have any complaints for me because you feel I have done mistake then please tell me , unless you tell me how will I know that I am making some mistake in the process ...so she prefers to go for private confrontations because ..... badi maa ki baat bhi reh jayegi aur confrontation bhi ho jayega n this is exactly where she goes wrong .... she has been doing this for years I believe by trying to hide the real aspects of mishku relationship and putting up a face of happy sister relationship, this thing has gone overboard that she now has a tough time coming out of this fake zone , clearly she is still the girl who hasn't learned to differentiate between pyaar and ehsaan, and I don't blame her completely but I just sometimes feel bad for her she is pressurised from all sides so much so that she is not able to pour out her real feelings openly ...And I don't think she has realised that in a way this thought process of hers is inviting more troubles and ultimately and back firing on her only😆 Because then it becomes all mishti ki wajah se and then she makes that extra effort to clear her name and the cycle continues .....

When you allow others to walk over you , they do walk over you ...simple....you have to set your own limits here

as much as I will love her being angry chroni and giving it back to kuhu in her own way , for a fact I still know that things are not going to change between them even after the slap , if mishti's private confrontation works then they would have worked from the first confrontation itself ....committing a crime is wrong , hiding that crime is wrong as well ... kuhu will never understand if mishti will tell her the truth or slap her or will show her the fierce attitude, it will just give more chances to kuhu to go against mishti blame mishti , instead of realising her own mistakes, she will only concentrate on hating mishti and thereby go on self destruction mode ending up creating blunders and committing crimes in the name of insecurities and jealousy

And why does this happen all the time, why kuhu doesn't understand ...the answer is quite simple - just like saying a truth is important , the time at which the truth is told , the person who is saying the truth , all that plays an important role here , what's the reason that kunal got such a beautiful redemption? Because there is some one who told him the truth on his face in front of everyone .."tu mere bhai nahi ho sakta nanko " this one sentence by abir changed kunal for good, mishti tried her best to make kunal understand that he should be the brother that abir needs but kunal never got it the right way , it was abir ( the one who kunal loves the most and the bond that kunal prioritizes ) who made him realise how wrong he is, when he spoke those words , things started changing ....abir also gave innumerable chances to kunal thinking that he may improve one day but once he realised that kunal tried to put someone's life at risk and it's a criminal offence ....that was it for him , and that triggered this reaction....even if same words are spoken by someone who we love and we hate the most ...still it will create different kind of impact on us .....those words were spoken by abir and that's why it created a huge impact on kunal

when mishti says something to kuhu, kuhu's hatred for mishti takes over her ability to understand what mishti is saying , in the end instead of realising that how wrong she is , she ends up blaming mishti because thats more convenient way to do when you dont want to accept your mistakes....it not only takes a big heart but also immense strength and courage to realise your own mistakes and also accept them and apologise for them .... that's why I respect abir more than anyone in this show ... mishti's confrontation will never make kuhu realise what she has done , instead she will find more ways to blame others especially mishti, I am happy that kunal is in the process to find the truth and kuhu got extremely afraid because of that , he won't give up unless he finds the real culprit , someone apart form mishti has to step in to break this cycle of hiding and blaming ... someone who kuhu genuinely loves and respects, when that person will show her the mirror, that's when kuhu will actually break in real sense...

Coming to mishti again , I respect her a lot that she controlled and didn't really make benba's dream turn into reality First she wasn't sure about the truth so that plays a role.here in not going for the direct confrontation and second BB's plan flopped but after that she shouldn't be hiding things from her husband , because of 2 things -

abir is a victim here and he deserves all the rights to know that who is the one responsible for his condition

The promise mishti gave to abir , the first promise after being his wife , promise that she won't hide anything and this thing is not a small thing

Some may say that can't go ahead without any solid proof, well I would have agreed with this if the premises was mahs house where people blame her all the time , here in rv house mishti isn't required to think before speaking her mind especially in front of abir, and abir has believed her even without proofs - ved fiasco , she was a stranger for him but still trusted her over his sister's future husband baba fiasco - abir figured out on his own and made baba speak the truth just a slight hint was enough for him to realise and I am sure if mishti drops a hint or shares her confusions...at least abir will try to think in that direction I really don't want to remain clueless here and play holi

In rv house , people don't let go the things easily or have a chalta hai jaane do attitude....and in a way its good and I am loving it and hope this stays , kunal is trying his best to find the culprit , meenu will not let anyone forget this because she has her own personal gains from this , mishti is in violent chroni avatar and abir knows that parul can't be the culprit There is extreme level of pressure on kuhu from all sides , I have a very strong feeling, this pressure only will make her accidentally speak up and someone will know ...

Lol I don't know where the drama is leading to , but this time I hope the kaand comes out and kuhu is caught, because through this not only kuhu will be served proper punishment and but also mishti will realise that hiding things wasn't a proper way to deal with certain matters ...its only abir who can make her realise and for that abir should know the truth ..... but I don't trust the makers ...hiding blaming stuff is giving lot of raw material for drama...so I doubt kitna kheechna chahte hai isse ....expecting some dhamaka on holi now

One more thing i noticed , benba's dream ...she tells bachpan se ladkiyon ke beech mann mutaav chal raha hai ...means she has already done her complete research on these sisters vaise I don't fully blame her.... I mean some what mistake credit should go to kuhu and mishti too ... come on ...spiking someone's drink is a crime and hiding it isn't a great idea either

Talking about the episode now , even with high voltage drama I still loved it

So AM are progressing with their kisses...forehead se temples ...hmmmm Next time thoda aur neeche

Lol abir is neend mein bhi hoshiyar....but today he is behoshi mein bhi hoshiyar Asking angry Chorni to relax , mishti was very angry on doctor when she was asking ke kab tak theek hoga abir

Mishnal bond is definitely rising now , they bonded because of abir but now I see a mutual respect getting developed between them Haan nanko mujhe bhi yaad reh gaya hai ...ek goli abhi , ek hai ek hour baad aur ek uske 15 mins baad and then check the temp Lol abir behosh tha varna yeh bond dekh ke garba kar leta khushi se

Sasuma and bahu twinning today...name starts with M and ends with I ....both have a habit of watching elaborate dreams With detailed analysis of everyone's expressions and dialogues And both of them know the truth but are 😷

I hope Angry Chorni jaldi hi apne sleeping beauty ko jagah de ...please please

wow yeah mishbir at hai na

because after a long time i am seeing sane views after views that all are accepting how both are at fault and how both are not at fault even

anyway i dont agree with mishti justification as what justification mishti has same goes to kuhu

mishti knows right and wrong but in some different type of pressure not take good discision

just like kuhu for me

both for me are equally responsible one due to pressure of becoming ideal and other due to jealousy and insecurity

Originally posted by: ruhi19

mish is shy yar...

if u help her she wont do IT...

so let her have her ways...

Mishti is shy, agree

But if I went to help her, she'll become angry violent ladki and will hit with stick 🤣

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Ok girls , I have to make some points here

First lets talk about mishti and BM bond ...though I like their bond but I don't think that BM realises that she is creating an usual friction and pressure on mishti and her thought process and this I believe the same is done over the years , clearly along with her abandonment issues, this is also one of the reason where she tries to fight things on her own and prefers to lie and hide certain things under the carpet so that certain bonds and relationships remain intact ...I don't really appreciate this kind of attitude when you are actually living in a joint family...I will tell you why , haathon ki paanch ungliyaan ek jaisi nahi hoti hai , phir bhi saari ungliyon ki zarurat hoti hai ek mazboot moothi banane ke liye.in the same way if you actually want to keep a family together , it's the responsibility of every adult member to understand each other and make sure to create strong bonds , it's not the sole responsibility of the bahu or the sister or the head of the family to do so , badi maa unnecessarily created a pressure on her saying that abinal bond should remain intact , no badi maa ...its not mishti's sole responsibility to check if any bond is intact , if abinal breaks then abinal are responsible for the same this is what abir says - jab koi rishta toot ta hai toh uske liye sirf vo do log responsible hote hai jo us rishte mein ho - simple yet deep ! So keeping in mind parivaar ki izzat and respect of other bonds , mishti prefers to go for private confrontation because she feels if things can get solved between 2 persons then why to exaggerate and tell others and this attitude of hers was clearly highlighted in today's episode also , when bb was complaining to BM about mishti's attempt to bring abir back home and not take him to the hospital ....she tells bb that if you have any complaints for me because you feel I have done mistake then please tell me , unless you tell me how will I know that I am making some mistake in the process ...so she prefers to go for private confrontations because ..... badi maa ki baat bhi reh jayegi aur confrontation bhi ho jayega n this is exactly where she goes wrong .... she has been doing this for years I believe by trying to hide the real aspects of mishku relationship and putting up a face of happy sister relationship, this thing has gone overboard that she now has a tough time coming out of this fake zone , clearly she is still the girl who hasn't learned to differentiate between pyaar and ehsaan, and I don't blame her completely but I just sometimes feel bad for her she is pressurised from all sides so much so that she is not able to pour out her real feelings openly ...And I don't think she has realised that in a way this thought process of hers is inviting more troubles and ultimately and back firing on her only😆 Because then it becomes all mishti ki wajah se and then she makes that extra effort to clear her name and the cycle continues .....

When you allow others to walk over you , they do walk over you ...simple....you have to set your own limits here

as much as I will love her being angry chroni and giving it back to kuhu in her own way , for a fact I still know that things are not going to change between them even after the slap , if mishti's private confrontation works then they would have worked from the first confrontation itself ....committing a crime is wrong , hiding that crime is wrong as well ... kuhu will never understand if mishti will tell her the truth or slap her or will show her the fierce attitude, it will just give more chances to kuhu to go against mishti blame mishti , instead of realising her own mistakes, she will only concentrate on hating mishti and thereby go on self destruction mode ending up creating blunders and committing crimes in the name of insecurities and jealousy

And why does this happen all the time, why kuhu doesn't understand ...the answer is quite simple - just like saying a truth is important , the time at which the truth is told , the person who is saying the truth , all that plays an important role here , what's the reason that kunal got such a beautiful redemption? Because there is some one who told him the truth on his face in front of everyone .."tu mere bhai nahi ho sakta nanko " this one sentence by abir changed kunal for good, mishti tried her best to make kunal understand that he should be the brother that abir needs but kunal never got it the right way , it was abir ( the one who kunal loves the most and the bond that kunal prioritizes ) who made him realise how wrong he is, when he spoke those words , things started changing ....abir also gave innumerable chances to kunal thinking that he may improve one day but once he realised that kunal tried to put someone's life at risk and it's a criminal offence ....that was it for him , and that triggered this reaction....even if same words are spoken by someone who we love and we hate the most ...still it will create different kind of impact on us .....those words were spoken by abir and that's why it created a huge impact on kunal

when mishti says something to kuhu, kuhu's hatred for mishti takes over her ability to understand what mishti is saying , in the end instead of realising that how wrong she is , she ends up blaming mishti because thats more convenient way to do when you dont want to accept your mistakes....it not only takes a big heart but also immense strength and courage to realise your own mistakes and also accept them and apologise for them .... that's why I respect abir more than anyone in this show ... mishti's confrontation will never make kuhu realise what she has done , instead she will find more ways to blame others especially mishti, I am happy that kunal is in the process to find the truth and kuhu got extremely afraid because of that , he won't give up unless he finds the real culprit , someone apart form mishti has to step in to break this cycle of hiding and blaming ... someone who kuhu genuinely loves and respects, when that person will show her the mirror, that's when kuhu will actually break in real sense...

Coming to mishti again , I respect her a lot that she controlled and didn't really make benba's dream turn into reality First she wasn't sure about the truth so that plays a role.here in not going for the direct confrontation and second BB's plan flopped but after that she shouldn't be hiding things from her husband , because of 2 things -

abir is a victim here and he deserves all the rights to know that who is the one responsible for his condition

The promise mishti gave to abir , the first promise after being his wife , promise that she won't hide anything and this thing is not a small thing

Some may say that can't go ahead without any solid proof, well I would have agreed with this if the premises was mahs house where people blame her all the time , here in rv house mishti isn't required to think before speaking her mind especially in front of abir, and abir has believed her even without proofs - ved fiasco , she was a stranger for him but still trusted her over his sister's future husband baba fiasco - abir figured out on his own and made baba speak the truth just a slight hint was enough for him to realise and I am sure if mishti drops a hint or shares her confusions...at least abir will try to think in that direction I really don't want to remain clueless here and play holi

In rv house , people don't let go the things easily or have a chalta hai jaane do attitude....and in a way its good and I am loving it and hope this stays , kunal is trying his best to find the culprit , meenu will not let anyone forget this because she has her own personal gains from this , mishti is in violent chroni avatar and abir knows that parul can't be the culprit There is extreme level of pressure on kuhu from all sides , I have a very strong feeling, this pressure only will make her accidentally speak up and someone will know ...

Lol I don't know where the drama is leading to , but this time I hope the kaand comes out and kuhu is caught, because through this not only kuhu will be served proper punishment and but also mishti will realise that hiding things wasn't a proper way to deal with certain matters ...its only abir who can make her realise and for that abir should know the truth ..... but I don't trust the makers ...hiding blaming stuff is giving lot of raw material for drama...so I doubt kitna kheechna chahte hai isse ....expecting some dhamaka on holi now

One more thing i noticed , benba's dream ...she tells bachpan se ladkiyon ke beech mann mutaav chal raha hai ...means she has already done her complete research on these sisters vaise I don't fully blame her.... I mean some what mistake credit should go to kuhu and mishti too ... come on ...spiking someone's drink is a crime and hiding it isn't a great idea either

Talking about the episode now , even with high voltage drama I still loved it

So AM are progressing with their kisses...forehead se temples ...hmmmm Next time thoda aur neeche

Lol abir is neend mein bhi hoshiyar....but today he is behoshi mein bhi hoshiyar Asking angry Chorni to relax , mishti was very angry on doctor when she was asking ke kab tak theek hoga abir

Mishnal bond is definitely rising now , they bonded because of abir but now I see a mutual respect getting developed between them Haan nanko mujhe bhi yaad reh gaya hai ...ek goli abhi , ek hai ek hour baad aur ek uske 15 mins baad and then check the temp Lol abir behosh tha varna yeh bond dekh ke garba kar leta khushi se

Sasuma and bahu twinning today...name starts with M and ends with I ....both have a habit of watching elaborate dreams With detailed analysis of everyone's expressions and dialogues And both of them know the truth but are 😷

I hope Angry Chorni jaldi hi apne sleeping beauty ko jagah de ...please please

Take a bow 🤗👏🤗 amazing amazingly explained yaar👏👏*hats off**

I agree with everything you said .... how beautifully you explained Kunal’s redemption... and it’s so true

How beautifully you explained mishtis dilemma.... right again

and like you said this may go under carpet for now coz Mishti has been pressured from many sides to keep the family united as she has the so called reputation of coming from a broken family......

Mishti may be quit for now as she sees how furious Kunal is and how all are waiting to pounce on the culprit ..... and now it’s more tough for kuhu since she was quite when All we’re blaming Parul........

Kuhu is actually in deep waters now

well even I really want Mishti to at least discuss this with abhir.... but we al know this is tv.... n without drama show won’t sustain

once again beautifully said gurujiiiii🤗🤗🤗

Even I have a feeling that kuhu will blurt it out in pressure before everyone...

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Mishti is shy, agree

But if I went to help her, she'll become angry violent ladki and will hit with stick 🤣

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Ok girls , I have to make some points here

First lets talk about mishti and BM bond ...though I like their bond but I don't think that BM realises that she is creating an usual friction and pressure on mishti and her thought process and this I believe the same is done over the years , clearly along with her abandonment issues, this is also one of the reason where she tries to fight things on her own and prefers to lie and hide certain things under the carpet so that certain bonds and relationships remain intact ...I don't really appreciate this kind of attitude when you are actually living in a joint family...I will tell you why , haathon ki paanch ungliyaan ek jaisi nahi hoti hai , phir bhi saari ungliyon ki zarurat hoti hai ek mazboot moothi banane ke liye.in the same way if you actually want to keep a family together , it's the responsibility of every adult member to understand each other and make sure to create strong bonds , it's not the sole responsibility of the bahu or the sister or the head of the family to do so , badi maa unnecessarily created a pressure on her saying that abinal bond should remain intact , no badi maa ...its not mishti's sole responsibility to check if any bond is intact , if abinal breaks then abinal are responsible for the same this is what abir says - jab koi rishta toot ta hai toh uske liye sirf vo do log responsible hote hai jo us rishte mein ho - simple yet deep ! So keeping in mind parivaar ki izzat and respect of other bonds , mishti prefers to go for private confrontation because she feels if things can get solved between 2 persons then why to exaggerate and tell others and this attitude of hers was clearly highlighted in today's episode also , when bb was complaining to BM about mishti's attempt to bring abir back home and not take him to the hospital ....she tells bb that if you have any complaints for me because you feel I have done mistake then please tell me , unless you tell me how will I know that I am making some mistake in the process ...so she prefers to go for private confrontations because ..... badi maa ki baat bhi reh jayegi aur confrontation bhi ho jayega n this is exactly where she goes wrong .... she has been doing this for years I believe by trying to hide the real aspects of mishku relationship and putting up a face of happy sister relationship, this thing has gone overboard that she now has a tough time coming out of this fake zone , clearly she is still the girl who hasn't learned to differentiate between pyaar and ehsaan, and I don't blame her completely but I just sometimes feel bad for her she is pressurised from all sides so much so that she is not able to pour out her real feelings openly ...And I don't think she has realised that in a way this thought process of hers is inviting more troubles and ultimately and back firing on her only😆 Because then it becomes all mishti ki wajah se and then she makes that extra effort to clear her name and the cycle continues .....

When you allow others to walk over you , they do walk over you ...simple....you have to set your own limits here

as much as I will love her being angry chroni and giving it back to kuhu in her own way , for a fact I still know that things are not going to change between them even after the slap , if mishti's private confrontation works then they would have worked from the first confrontation itself ....committing a crime is wrong , hiding that crime is wrong as well ... kuhu will never understand if mishti will tell her the truth or slap her or will show her the fierce attitude, it will just give more chances to kuhu to go against mishti blame mishti , instead of realising her own mistakes, she will only concentrate on hating mishti and thereby go on self destruction mode ending up creating blunders and committing crimes in the name of insecurities and jealousy

And why does this happen all the time, why kuhu doesn't understand ...the answer is quite simple - just like saying a truth is important , the time at which the truth is told , the person who is saying the truth , all that plays an important role here , what's the reason that kunal got such a beautiful redemption? Because there is some one who told him the truth on his face in front of everyone .."tu mere bhai nahi ho sakta nanko " this one sentence by abir changed kunal for good, mishti tried her best to make kunal understand that he should be the brother that abir needs but kunal never got it the right way , it was abir ( the one who kunal loves the most and the bond that kunal prioritizes ) who made him realise how wrong he is, when he spoke those words , things started changing ....abir also gave innumerable chances to kunal thinking that he may improve one day but once he realised that kunal tried to put someone's life at risk and it's a criminal offence ....that was it for him , and that triggered this reaction....even if same words are spoken by someone who we love and we hate the most ...still it will create different kind of impact on us .....those words were spoken by abir and that's why it created a huge impact on kunal

when mishti says something to kuhu, kuhu's hatred for mishti takes over her ability to understand what mishti is saying , in the end instead of realising that how wrong she is , she ends up blaming mishti because thats more convenient way to do when you dont want to accept your mistakes....it not only takes a big heart but also immense strength and courage to realise your own mistakes and also accept them and apologise for them .... that's why I respect abir more than anyone in this show ... mishti's confrontation will never make kuhu realise what she has done , instead she will find more ways to blame others especially mishti, I am happy that kunal is in the process to find the truth and kuhu got extremely afraid because of that , he won't give up unless he finds the real culprit , someone apart form mishti has to step in to break this cycle of hiding and blaming ... someone who kuhu genuinely loves and respects, when that person will show her the mirror, that's when kuhu will actually break in real sense...

Coming to mishti again , I respect her a lot that she controlled and didn't really make benba's dream turn into reality First she wasn't sure about the truth so that plays a role.here in not going for the direct confrontation and second BB's plan flopped but after that she shouldn't be hiding things from her husband , because of 2 things -

abir is a victim here and he deserves all the rights to know that who is the one responsible for his condition

The promise mishti gave to abir , the first promise after being his wife , promise that she won't hide anything and this thing is not a small thing

Some may say that can't go ahead without any solid proof, well I would have agreed with this if the premises was mahs house where people blame her all the time , here in rv house mishti isn't required to think before speaking her mind especially in front of abir, and abir has believed her even without proofs - ved fiasco , she was a stranger for him but still trusted her over his sister's future husband baba fiasco - abir figured out on his own and made baba speak the truth just a slight hint was enough for him to realise and I am sure if mishti drops a hint or shares her confusions...at least abir will try to think in that direction I really don't want to remain clueless here and play holi

In rv house , people don't let go the things easily or have a chalta hai jaane do attitude....and in a way its good and I am loving it and hope this stays , kunal is trying his best to find the culprit , meenu will not let anyone forget this because she has her own personal gains from this , mishti is in violent chroni avatar and abir knows that parul can't be the culprit There is extreme level of pressure on kuhu from all sides , I have a very strong feeling, this pressure only will make her accidentally speak up and someone will know ...

Lol I don't know where the drama is leading to , but this time I hope the kaand comes out and kuhu is caught, because through this not only kuhu will be served proper punishment and but also mishti will realise that hiding things wasn't a proper way to deal with certain matters ...its only abir who can make her realise and for that abir should know the truth ..... but I don't trust the makers ...hiding blaming stuff is giving lot of raw material for drama...so I doubt kitna kheechna chahte hai isse ....expecting some dhamaka on holi now

One more thing i noticed , benba's dream ...she tells bachpan se ladkiyon ke beech mann mutaav chal raha hai ...means she has already done her complete research on these sisters vaise I don't fully blame her.... I mean some what mistake credit should go to kuhu and mishti too ... come on ...spiking someone's drink is a crime and hiding it isn't a great idea either

Talking about the episode now , even with high voltage drama I still loved it

So AM are progressing with their kisses...forehead se temples ...hmmmm Next time thoda aur neeche

Lol abir is neend mein bhi hoshiyar....but today he is behoshi mein bhi hoshiyar Asking angry Chorni to relax , mishti was very angry on doctor when she was asking ke kab tak theek hoga abir

Mishnal bond is definitely rising now , they bonded because of abir but now I see a mutual respect getting developed between them Haan nanko mujhe bhi yaad reh gaya hai ...ek goli abhi , ek hai ek hour baad aur ek uske 15 mins baad and then check the temp Lol abir behosh tha varna yeh bond dekh ke garba kar leta khushi se

Sasuma and bahu twinning today...name starts with M and ends with I ....both have a habit of watching elaborate dreams With detailed analysis of everyone's expressions and dialogues And both of them know the truth but are 😷

I hope Angry Chorni jaldi hi apne sleeping beauty ko jagah de ...please please

Wow wow guruji what a dhamakedar post yaar... 👏👏🤗🤗

totally amazing n i agree to everything you say... the basic thing which i wanted to say n even piya n mini said you have explained it elaborately... superb dear...

i totally agree the brothers bond is in their hand only... sisters just need to support their respective spouse n be honest with them..

actually its like a role reversal now uru... bcoz of the brothers love for each other the sisters went through so much trouble kuhu got into this fake shaadi, mish went through so much n finally the breakup too... now bcoz of the girls difference with each other the boys n also the family is getting affected but upto what extend this gonna affect i dont know...

Mish kuhu relationship i actually blame both only as if one doing crime is wrong, the other hiding is also wrong... what meenu said is absolute truth the sisters childhood issue is affecting this family.. and mah family has failed in their parenting somewhere thats also true like you said bm pressurizing, and also they just wanted the girls to be together never tried to look beyond that, letting jas influence them both in good n bad way for both girls...

coming to mish actually like you said not only this time always her impulsiveness has landed her in trouble... even though she is a deep thinker but when it comes to action she gets very much impulsive n she herself gets into problem n it comes to hit back her.... and also today abir trying to calm down mishti, i see this as a foreshadowing... she can only be controlled n her impulsiveness can change only bcoz of abir... she was controlled today but her always handling things in private is not good even kunal spiking drink was in private, that lead to a big mess... lets see how she changes... i'm still doubtful of mish being sweet to meenu, i hope she atleast gives some benefit of doubt to meenu, kuhu today too tried to say ask maa if you want or something, when kuhu says everything mish should share everything with abir... he deserves to know n also this can lead to many problems too... she needs to learn hiding things are not gonna end up well... remember what i said about abir being hurt of mish hiding things, one more secret he will not be able to handle benba playing with it.. i so want abir to get angry atleast once for this... still i feel bad for mish too... if abir starts influencing her more she will start changing for good...

coming to kuhu.. the person you said who can change her possibilties are kunal, varsha or to an extend abir... she loves varsha so much n her mother being disappointed in her is something which she never wanted n that will have an effect on her, she is so scared when kunal said there should be no secret, she is literally scared of loosing him which leads her to be silent... if he gets to know n distants himself that can give her a reality check,.. and abir can surely guide her on where she went wrong, he is someone who she can listen to,.. he has his way with words like meenu but she uses it to manipulate, he can use it for good.... no sure on who will be that person...

AM the most adorable couple.... let sleeping beauty sleep more naa can watch him sleeping even for a whole episode but only camera focused on him...

Originally posted by: The_incredible

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It's hilarious 😂 😂😂😂😂 I can't stop my laughing yaar..mumma Mishti and baby abir🤣🤣btw it was very cute also..Mishti was taking care of Abir like a mother only

omg baby abir n mumma mishti this is so hilarious yaar 🤣🤣🤣🤣 awee my cute babies...