Super epi Aman roshni against kabir - Page 9

Originally posted by: vibha28

I want to first say a big THANK YOU TO YOU 🙏🙏

This this is my problem. I get that he had an ex with whom he had a sexual relationship, that’s fine with me I am an adult and I have grown past the one man and one woman only scenario. I was okay with the kid too. My problem started when he trusted Alia more and then saying to roshni you harmed our child and then saying to her that I love you trust me - but he wasn’t trusting roshni at all when it came to Alia.

The way he threw her out was brutal. It was unnecessary and disgusting. A woman getting thrown out by her husband and not just once but multiple times. Then rather than thinking or talking to Tabeezi he parties and worse he tells his mum she was right roshni wasn’t worthy of him. What am I watching? She died for him. What more can she do? One mistake and yes it was a big one makes her unworthy? Everything else she did is null and void?

Then with office track they made him act like he is the one wronged and what pisses me off is that it’s all about him - his hurt, his trust, his love then what about her? See he saw her dancing and being happy he formed and opinion and burned her bakery. Wasn’t he dancing and being happy the night before?

He refuses to think, feels he is a victim, and starts on his daily insults spree. Why can’t he respect a woman and if he must fight then stop the name calling and fight like a man? He says I can’t control myself and want to say something but I say something else. Well I am sorry so you are having control issues and she has to pay?why? But when she fights with you she means it? That makes me really really angry. The writer of the show is one sadistic person who have no life to write a character like this.

Yep u r absolutely right I agree 100 %

The worst was he thinking rosh cheated him with imran

like seriously when had she ever behaved as a bed hopping girl

Did she ever tried to entice him before TBR.No

They only took the physical step after the declaration of love and they both were ready

When he told that she must have stop them since he has been under poison effect I seriously want to punch his face

There is a thing that only men can do but women cant and that's rape

Women can tempt a man but she could never force him if he is not willing

Originally posted by: Jiss555

Yep u r absolutely right I agree 100 %

The worst was he thinking rosh cheated him with imran

like seriously when had she ever behaved as a bed hopping girl

Did she ever tried to entice him before TBR.No

They only took the physical step after the declaration of love and they both were ready

When he told that she must have stop them since he has been under poison effect I seriously want to punch his face

There is a thing that only men can do but women cant and that's rape

Women can tempt a man but she could never force him if he is not willing

Same I agree that she was never lovey dovey until after the love declaration. What’s worse it’s the same dialogue he used with Alia. Alia said she couldn’t control herself and thought that’s what he wanted and he let it go. But with Roshni to whom he is married he says you came on to me? So what she raped him? Then didn’t Alia raped him too? So why was Alia okay and roshni not? I want to smack him too.

He thinks she cheated based on what he saw. That’s my problem - he sees and believes. He must have known Roshni was a virgin and unless since then she is sleeping the night away her past behaviour was not of a woman who sleeps with many men. Also what annoys me the most is that he asks roshni for truth but has no intention of believing her. When she tells him the truth he says you are lying - so basically unless roshni tells the truth and presents the evidence he won’t believe her. What kind of twisted love is this?

Originally posted by: vibha28

Same I agree that she was never lovey dovey until after the love declaration. What’s worse it’s the same dialogue he used with Alia. Alia said she couldn’t control herself and thought that’s what he wanted and he let it go. But with Roshni to whom he is married he says you came on to me? So what she raped him? Then didn’t Alia raped him too? So why was Alia okay and roshni not? I want to smack him too.

He thinks she cheated based on what he saw. That’s my problem - he sees and believes. He must have known Roshni was a virgin and unless since then she is sleeping the night away her past behaviour was not of a woman who sleeps with many men. Also what annoys me the most is that he asks roshni for truth but has no intention of believing her. When she tells him the truth he says you are lying - so basically unless roshni tells the truth and presents the evidence he won’t believe her. What kind of twisted love is this?

God yaar women cant rape men .

I dont think makers are realizing they r making their ML into a vain egotistical person(he is vain about his class and money)

Originally posted by: Jiss555

God yaar women cant rape men .

I dont think makers are realizing they r making their ML into a vain egotistical person(he is vain about his class and money)

As per statistics more rapist are men but I have read cases where women were convicted of raping men too but the situation was usually teacher student scenario and as they were underage their consent didn’t count. Where a man is like our lead you are right women can’t rape him unless he said no no no and they tied him up and had their way with him but we know that didn’t happen.

I don’t why are they still showing him as egotistical man when he already knows about Roshni. He could have stayed angry based on mum’s health why bring money class upbringing and character in picture? Ruined him I tell you ruined him big time.

Originally posted by: vibha28

As per statistics more rapist are men but I have read cases where women were convicted of raping men too but the situation was usually teacher student scenario and as they were underage their consent didn’t count. Where a man is like our lead you are right women can’t rape him unless he said no no no and they tied him up and had their way with him but we know that didn’t happen.

I don’t why are they still showing him as egotistical man when he already knows about Roshni. He could have stayed angry based on mum’s health why bring money class upbringing and character in picture? Ruined him I tell you ruined him big time.

He staying angry about his mother would have been enough

And it would have looked more authentic if roshni leaving aman and aman hell bent on punishing burns her bakery to bring her back

Here plot doesn't match one day he couldn't get out of the lift fast enough and forbid her granny to utter the name roshni

Next day he go and appointed her as her PA so she will be with him the entire time.

Kya yaar kuch bhi

Originally posted by: Jiss555

ya u r right .I forgot the underage scenario. there was no need to bring in class and money .

He staying angry about his mother would have been enough

And it would have looked more authentic if roshni leaving aman and aman hell bent on punishing burns her bakery to bring her back

Here plot doesn't match one day he couldn't get out of the lift fast enough and forbid her granny to utter the name roshni

Next day he go and appointed her as her PA so she will be with him the entire time.

Kya yaar kuch bhi

Exactly!!!! Be consistent in your own product. Stay angry because of mum instead of bringing her class upbringing and money. Also what bothers me is his love for his mum is all good but when she talks about her mum it’s not. I get that when they we’re together her priority more should be his family ( don’t agree at all but from an Indian perspective) but now that they are separated why would she not give her mum priority? He cannot expect that even now she will make him a priority?

Yes you are right burning the bakery to bring her back would have been more in tune with his character. But here one minute get out of the elevator and next work for me. Had he just burned the bakery and let it be that would have been fine too but why have her work for him? He can’t stay away from her? Then why run from the elevator? I think he can’t stand that she is able to handle herself better and like typical misogynistic man went on a rampage.

Originally posted by: vibha28

Exactly!!!! Be consistent in your own product. Stay angry because of mum instead of bringing her class upbringing and money. Also what bothers me is his love for his mum is all good but when she talks about her mum it’s not. I get that when they we’re together her priority more should be his family ( don’t agree at all but from an Indian perspective) but now that they are separated why would she not give her mum priority? He cannot expect that even now she will make him a priority?

Yes you are right burning the bakery to bring her back would have been more in tune with his character. But here one minute get out of the elevator and next work for me. Had he just burned the bakery and let it be that would have been fine too but why have her work for him? He can’t stay away from her? Then why run from the elevator? I think he can’t stand that she is able to handle herself better and like typical misogynistic man went on a rampage.

I dont agree in an Indian perspective also.roshni is an only child and so am i.so it's our sole responsibility to look out for our parents welfare

If my husband ask me to never stay with my parents will I listen to him never.infact I spent more time in my house than at my in laws bcoz I am more comfortable with my parents and my husband is ok with it(and I trust my kids with my mom more.whats wrong with it)so expecting roshni to abandon her mother is just not done

And now also look how his face fell whenever roshni mentions her mom

Originally posted by: Jiss555

I dont agree in an Indian perspective also.roshni is an only child and so am i.so it's our sole responsibility to look out for our parents welfare

If my husband ask me to never stay with my parents will I listen to him never.infact I spent more time in my house than at my in laws bcoz I am more comfortable with my parents and my husband is ok with it(and I trust my kids with my mom more.whats wrong with it)so expecting roshni to abandon her mother is just not done

And now also look how his face fell whenever roshni mentions her mom

I agree with you 100% but I don’t know how things are in a conservative Indian home. But yes you are right being married doesn’t mean you don’t support your mother and specially when that’s all you have. I am the same I am always at my mum’s and dad’s house more than my in laws as they live opposite us and my kids are there always. No one really cares in my household to be honest but I didn’t know how it goes in India.

I hate the whole a married woman’s first priority is only her husband and his family. Here roshni had permission to go and of course although she had reservations towards Alia she had no reason to believe Alia would harm Parveen. Plus Alia was there because of Aman as roshni wanted her out and he didn’t. Nothing was working as Aman was not in the listening mood. He now shouldn’t expect that roshni will be moping and crying for him.

That’s why I call him a hypocrite as for him his mother is god but for roshni her mum can’t.

Originally posted by: vibha28

I agree with you 100% but I don’t know how things are in a conservative Indian home. But yes you are right being married doesn’t mean you don’t support your mother and specially when that’s all you have. I am the same I am always at my mum’s and dad’s house more than my in laws as they live opposite us and my kids are there always. No one really cares in my household to be honest but I didn’t know how it goes in India.

I hate the whole a married woman’s first priority is only her husband and his family. Here roshni had permission to go and of course although she had reservations towards Alia she had no reason to believe Alia would harm Parveen. Plus Alia was there because of Aman as roshni wanted her out and he didn’t. Nothing was working as Aman was not in the listening mood. He now shouldn’t expect that roshni will be moping and crying for him.

That’s why I call him a hypocrite as for him his mother is god but for roshni her mum can’t.

If parveen is harmed it's only bcoz of aman and he is reaping what he sow

Roshni is 10% responsible bcoz she could have asked tabeezia help(loopholes)

But 90%is amans fault He is the one who let aliya creepy snake stay with them

He is the one who never trusted his wife and always believed aliya

***I think Indian perspective changes with the state in which we r living.mine is a small one by size but has the highest literacy rate in india

So it's easy to live here bcoz discrimination based on caste and religion is null here

And we girls get more freedom because most are financially independent

Originally posted by: Jiss555

that I told in the throwing away episode itself

If parveen is harmed it's only bcoz of aman and he is reaping what he sow

Roshni is 10% responsible bcoz she could have asked tabeezia help(loopholes)

But 90%is amans fault He is the one who let aliya creepy snake stay with them

He is the one who never trusted his wife and always believed aliya

***I think Indian perspective changes with the state in which we r living.mine is a small one by size but has the highest literacy rate in india

So it's easy to live here bcoz discrimination based on caste and religion is null here

And we girls get more freedom because most are financially independent

It was his fault I agree. Roshni knew that Alia was only after her and no one else. She had no reason to harm Parveen as Alia must know Aman treats Parveen like god. Secondly, she had permission to go and when Aman said you didn’t ring me? I was thinking you took phone with you to your rescue mission in that kala jungle where baazigar couldn’t come but phone reception can? And if he wanted why not send roshni to jungle and be at his mum’s bedside vigil?

He says she broke his trust but she said she had permission to go. Why did he not trusted her then? Be angry and even stop talking but why kick her out so bad? Also why did he not do kiya mifa and made mum better? I blame him too. Roshni’s fault was not checking if Alia is dead indeed but that could be coz of emotions.

That’s good - I have a very liberal outlook as you can tell lol 😂 I think those regressive and patriarchal mindset is what creates all these issues in the society and gender imbalance. I have always had freedom to do what I want and I respect that freedom of choice and I wish everyone should get that. The whole societal dogma of women are better seen not spoken really makes me angry.