MayRa/ShivJen DT #38 'Mere nazar se dekhogi to khudse tumhe pyar hoga' - Page 107

Maya was stitching the buttons back on Rudras shirts 😆

Originally posted by: dewdrops.16

I am glad how Rudra is trying to convince her still maintaining a distance..and he is very clear to her about the priorities in his life😆 Unlike the ML of the last season😳

She can accept her place in Rudra's life as his best friend and find peace in life..but she..khair choriye🤣

He doesn't go after her anymore like he used to do earlier. I still remember that episode when rudra said main tujhse pyaar karta hun Annu lol that made me cringe...🤔 The writers can't use the pyaar word for anyone else rather than Maya! & That day Twitter was on full on bajao cvs mode 🤣 that how dare they give him such dailogue & it didn't come across looking good. That day I was pissed seeing rudra trying to convince annoyanya now he's not giving a damn abt her & I feel that's better 😎

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

https://twitter.com/Beyhadh2U/status/1232386464463413248?s=19

Also when he said 'wanna try' Shivins voice is ☺️

Originally posted by: Gurmeet4Drashti

I hate saying this but these women are so dependent on their husbands for everything and literally worship the ground they walk on. So they just refuse to budge and unlearn anything nonsensical.

I had once dealt with a man, who unfortunately happens to be my relative, who had an opinion on tall girls (aka me) wearing heels and looking taller than them.. their fragile egos make them insufferable. I avoid the men in my family like plague!!

This is the most hilarious shit they do. When I was thin in childhood, people were like, feed her tangri ki juice coz she has thin legs. Then I got fat in 7th std coz of anemia meds. The same people were like-----tell her to skip and diet. Then again I lost weight after the meds stopped----them----> Beti itni patli kyun ho gayi ?.......After growing up, I got well toned and slim-----them------ewwww you look ugly, you need fat under your skin.

My hair is naturally dark brown. Just today I heard, brown achha nehi hai, you should dye it black. I asked----okk aunty. and what about my eyes ? Should I get black contacts as well ?

Originally posted by: stormborn

In today's incident, you know who I started talking with ?----not mausa, but my maasi. I started talking with the pinch---- Maasi, tell me something---. But guess who started replying !?

He himself became his wife's voice and then kept screaming----you can't change MY opinion. I was like excuse me---I was not even talking to you. I am not stupid that I would try to change your opinion. but he kept repeating the same sentence to stop me from talking.

These people show to the world (and to themselves) that they love their wives with all their heart. They make even the wives believe that. The wives in turn start treating themselves like beggars who got love as alms and now should keep it holding like their lives depend on it.

You can never make them believe that respect is a two way street. They are like ---ohhh my husband bought me that saree with the colour he thinks suits my complexion even if it's so expensive. I should worship him to keep this amazing lob alive !!

This dependency has possibly created the worst imbalance in the dynamics. They just expect the lady to be home and do every chore, be solely responsible for the upbringing of the children along with juggling the entire family. The littlest of things had to be sought permission from.. “can I visit my parents?”

And then comes the glorifying bit which makes me die a little from the inside... “he didn’t even let me out of the car because there were men and we got a takeaway”...

Oh and the best bit is the utter disregard and disrespect of these women in front of anyone.. “humari kismat mein yeh likhi thi? Mummy paapa ko aur dhoondna chahiye tha.. ha ha ha”

This is probably one of the topics which has bothered me since forever and I’m extremely sensitive and vocal about it.

Originally posted by: Gurmeet4Drashti

But isn’t it saddening when people who are in our age bracket display these signs? Have a few cousins and friends who would shame another girl for the stupidest of things..

older generation is beyond repair imo.

Yeah I do have these kinda people around me.. its sad.. I have seen some dual faced people too who brag about equality and feminism in front of people but personally they do have maslaa with another person/woman around them having better life than them or something better not financially but family wise or something else..

Older gen is so rigid imo they are the wall and we are banging our head there..😆

Some ladies do act like that but they are treating their own family like differently.

Sirf naare lagaane ya bolne se kuch nahi hota , badlaav karne se aata hai..

My father always used to tell me ki 'beta bol ke nahi, sab ko kar ke dikha..'

that time lecture se gussa aata tha but now these words really as gems in my life.

idhar maya didi rudy boy ko dar ki hadhe todne ka lacture de rahi thi but khud implement karne mein itni der lagaa di..🤣

Originally posted by: stormborn

I wish our families were accustomed with the OK Boomer burn 😆

Fir do words se kaam chal jaati

I just visualized them bitching about “badtameez ladki” after that burn for YEARSSSS!

Originally posted by: Gurmeet4Drashti

This dependency has possibly created the worst imbalance in the dynamics. They just expect the lady to be home and do every chore, be solely responsible for the upbringing of the children along with juggling the entire family. The littlest of things had to be sought permission from.. “can I visit my parents?”

And then comes the glorifying bit which makes me die a little from the inside... “he didn’t even let me out of the car because there were men and we got a takeaway”...

Oh and the best bit is the utter disregard and disrespect of these women in front of anyone.. “humari kismat mein yeh likhi thi? Mummy paapa ko aur dhoondna chahiye tha.. ha ha ha”

This is probably one of the topics which has bothered me since forever and I’m extremely sensitive and vocal about it.

Poor chaps lack sense of humour but want to sound funny. So how to do that !?-----of cocurse in the wife's expense like everything else.

and whenever the child does anything bad=> mother's fault. When they achieve something-----pappa ke poore vansh ke genes ki kamaal

Originally posted by: Gurmeet4Drashti

I just visualized them bitching about “badtameez ladki” after that burn for YEARSSSS!

oofffff badtameez ladki (in my lang ---asobhyo meye) would be like a cuckoo's song to my ears

If it happens, I will immediately play badtameez dil in my phone in full volume.

Originally posted by: stormborn

BTW when I was watching BY and chatting here, he saw me in my mob and actually asked ---what are you doing in mob

I said---talking to friends about this show. He didn't say anything else 😆

The reason why I avoid the men in my family.... they have never heard the concept of mind your own business.

I don’t know if it happens in your family but mine belongs to the category who will blissfully remain BLIND to the deeds of their raja bete and all the nonsense is reserved for the girl