Originally posted by: AreYaar
Nice write up, Diya :)
I have a slightly different POV....Kuhu is not a family oriented bahu, it’s more like she craves attention and pampering whenever she is. Right now she happens to be in the RV house as a bahu so she wants attention from every member of that family. She gets attention by giving attention to all of them....to me, it seems more calculative and transactional. An actually family oriented bahu would care for the family out of love and respect, not out of a need to collect them all as her personal trophies that will be a symbol of her achievements 😕
Mishti’s case is more complicated...she is somewhat caught between two worlds. She does have a more liberated outlook in how she approaches love and sticks up for her choices and viewpoints....but at the same time, she does feel the family pressure of conforming many times too....so her reactions keep varying depending on the situation because she is surrounded by people in both families who try to emotionally blackmail and guilt trip her 😆....sometimes she succeeds in not giving in to the guilt trip, other times she doesn’t 🤷♀️
Whatever Mishti does comes from a place of genuine love and emotion. She doesn’t treat people like assets to be collected, so she doesn’t do things like cooking etc to impress people or do a favor to them. She reacts emotionally to people and situations. Abir is like a rare anchor in her life who loves her for who she he is and empowers her to not guilt trip over feeling a right to happiness. Mishti has an inner self confidence already, but Abir helps strengthen it, especially in moments where her emotional side can weaken her.
So I would say, despite their liberated views on many topics, AM are the ones who are more family oriented because they are both more emotional people who want to see their loved ones happy. The difference is that unlike most ITV leads, they make more effort to claim their own happiness too.
Ohh this is something different Anu.. 👍🏼
actually i wrote that in mostly related to baba track where kuhu wanted to go with flow not wanting baba to return as family n kunal doesnt want but mishbir went their way to do what they wanted... it was actually good as they got a closure for the question abir has been searching all these years...
maybe in future too mishbir will have many instances where they will want to do something but family is not happy about it but they will fight for it which will anyhow end in good for everyone... they are like the fighter couple whereas kuku are like family couple what family wants is ok for them they dont have any individual thoughts...
@bold1 - actually i agree with kuhu pov i wanted to say something similar but i didnt know much about kuhu deeply so generally said but this i agree..
@bold2 - Mishti is a little impulsive but a strong headed girl with strong opinion naa... more than mah house in rjv she is a little liberated tbh... bcoz in mah house she has family pressure directly in name of ehsaan but in rjv everything is connected to abir, which gives her a haq to feel the apna... i dont know how to say but in rjv or particularly Abir is the only person she feels belonged who she can be herself n do anything she wants... she might feel family pressure but she will be leaning on abir more n like you said he will be the anchor n guide her to be the liberated self.. Abir wouldnt let her compromise n give her the needed strength to fight for right...
they are family oriented but are more like balanced people they are not like giving opinion like kuhu trying to change people of rjv making them dance to her tunes but mish is someone who supports them when they need else she is happy in her own world with abir n her work.. thats makes the inspirational n unique couple.. their journey can be interesting if they keep mishbir together n show them balancing everything... them working together in ngo, balancing family n work, mish rather than sitting come goes to work with abir..
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