Kahan thi tu (want to add all kinds of adjectives here, but stopping myself!)?
Shaadi wale episode main bhi gayab?!?
Not done!
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Abhi sirf gussa aa raha hai tujh par 🤔
Originally posted by: Onyourface
Hello hello hello
Sabse pehle ek dhamakedar dhaasu khidki tod shaadi ke liye bohot bohot bohot zyada Mubarak ho mishbir
Words fall short to describe the absolute feelings of happiness, peace, calmness ans just the soothing effect that our hearts are getting now ....to see these two ajeeb souls finally dealing the deal in the atmosphere specifically designed to showcase the sheer brilliance of the poetic justice to this amazing couple's love story
It all started on the bus top , they met accidentally thsg it all ended into a beginning of another beautiful journey on the same bus
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They bonded because of a void that they had in their lives, the void they felt because of some unanswered questions in their respective lives
apart from finding those answers yet they were also struggling hard , struggling to fit into their own skin , one was dealing with deep abandonment issues , the other one was a banjara looking out for a ghar , a ghar where he could share his real emotions with someone. The blend of the characters is so interesting ....it started with just some admiration for each other , the best bond of friendship, feeling that inner connect to know each other , finally expressing their feelings in an expected way, breaking apart just to realise how strong their love was and finally sealing the deal today on the bus top , the same place where they met
Over the time, life made them bump into each other in mysterious ways giving each other an insight into their real personalities , abir was the first one to notice that this chota packet is actually a bada dhamaka
he was the one who told "tumhe dekh ke lagta hai ki tun 20 ki speed se scooty bhi chala lo vo bhi ek adventure hoga"
to realising that she actually not as navie as he was expecting, it took him many many incidents to realise that this girl is angry , violent chroni masked by a girl jo gehre dard mein bhi hasna janti hai ...the strong fierce lady who doesn't shy away from keeping her points across is the girl he fell in love with, he didn't even realise it until one day he unknowingly made her an inspiration of his art ( represented by a painting ) Surprisingly that painting only became a point for mishti to realise that he loves her , a guy who fits in the definition of "perfect man"actually loves her, her , who people preferred to leave , who people believed that her presence invited only troubles in other's lives, that's all....how is abir inviting a future with her ? Slowly and gradually and unknowingly abir made her realise, that her presence can actually bring happiness around too , she came out from the shell and started believing in herself , she no longer feels abandoned because abir made her realise that she doesn't have to "fit" in a role to be around him , all she needs is just to be herself, the Angry Violent Chorni, that she originally is !!
Now only abir , but unknowingly mishti also gave a new dynamic to abir's personality , that banjara was someone who actually didn't share his real emotions with anyone ... he just believed in keeping it within , going on an adventure to find answers, the artist inside him made him let out those emotions through shayaris , paintings , photography but letting out those emotions and actually addressing them are two different things...it was just organic how mishti though a stranger at that time in many ways , still came to know about the biggest answer that abir was looking for - his baba .... mishti was the one who became the link for abir to get those answers .... she was made the one who successfully brought out the real truth in front of him, thereby making a restless abir get all his answers , the start of a phase when finally banjara starts to find a stability in life.
When finally things started falling in place , a series of events made sure they come across the biggest fears of their lives, abir's biggest fear was to choose between his kadi chaval and aam ras ans mishti's biggest fear was what if one day abir leaves her .. once again hats off to the writers here for creating a situation where both their fears came out together....the point that is worth noting here was none of them separated because of their internal differences, they were forced to leave each other....but fondness and admiration that they had for each other still remained intact.... wasn't this fondness and admiration the essence of their love too ??
Abir who has such deep understanding of human emotions and relationships , he has the capability of being the perfect philosopher friend and guide to any human being , no wonder he has an amazing bond with everyone around, his presence, his aura and his positivity manages to bring out the best in others, be it inspiring kuhu to feel good about herself and not to reduce herself to a shaadi, be it convincing kunal to come out to meenu ka munna shell and take his own decisions, or be it a sense of relief that makes mishti realise that she isn't the abandoned one ... this quality of him is given by Meenakshi rajvansh, my pyaari Sausma
Yes you read it correct, just like abir , meenu also has perfect understanding of human personalities, feelings and emotions but she has a controlling attitude, for her it's her way or the highway , that's why she ends up bringing out the worst fears in others and make other meet their vulnerabilities, be it using nanko's weakness of loving abir and doing things for the family, be it targeting mishti's quality of trying to cross oceans for others , be it letting abir to make a tough choice or be it using kuhu's insecurities against her now ....
...abir is the perfect example of the saying "diya tale andhera" ..... means that a diya is capable enough to show light to others but that diya has a darkness beneath the light ...which no one cares for ....no wonder when abir was in the shades zone in his life , no one actually managed to bring him out of that zone , that "diya tale andhera " was supposed to be addressed by mishti only ...if I actually analyse the whole after break up story , strictly ignoring the who what when dynamics, only one thing that holds importance is that mishbir's belief in love and only love was the reason to bring then up together again , the whole point of getting separated and then coming up together again was both of them realising the strength of their love
It took a lot for abir to say "mera aur mishti ka saath duniya banane vale ne banaya hai , duniya wale hume alag nahi kar sakte " .... both of them believed in love, but it took them a separation to realise how strong their love actually is !! Letting each other go could have been the biggest mistake in their lives, both of them got to experience this in their lives in their own twisted ways ... isn't that the whole idea of actually being in s courtship , the idea of courtship is not just to know a good side of a relationship but also to know the unpleasant side , abir and mishti got to experience the unexpected unpleasant sides too ...
they still accepted each other with all the flaws.. again their relationship started off from where they had left, him giving her the strength to come out of her "meri wajah se " shell and fight and she brings him the answers thereby maintaining a stability in his life can't help but notice these two things came out in play today in a beautiful way , how magically abir makes her realise to enjoy the moment and have a mandap date , how mishti becomes abir's go to person when he asks her what should be his stand for meenu , how magically mishti asks BP to help abir in showing him the correct way and how fiercely she made sure she will give the perfect wedding that they deserve , she was in a dilemma for a brief period on what should be her further course of action , but finally decided to stick to her words that they will get married today and in the mahurat time , no matter what ...
And then finally finally the moment is here.... !!
Just look at these two
Under the sky , on the bus top, in the presence of peace and happiness as their guests , they are getting to seal the bond of love, trust , understanding and happiness, the bond called marriage in the purest form ever
Finally banjara finds a hone , finally she dosent feel left out , after all the hurdles , ups and downs , after perfect realisation of the strength of love for each other ...these two are now ready to face a new life with each other on their sides !! Now that's a perfect ajeeb wedding for this perfect couple !!
Hai vo ishq ka dariya hi kya, jisme bagawat ki aag na ho
Hai vo pyaar ki dhun hi kya, jisme rukavat ka raag na ho
Agar manzil tak pahuchna hota itna hi aasaan
Toh kehlati na yeh, Mishbir ki anokhi Dastaan
Toh kya hua agar raste mein pathar se lagi thokar, tu rukna nahi
Toh kya hua agar zamana baith gaya muh mod kar, tu jhukna nahi
Agar kar liya hai zindagi bhar saath nibhana ka vaada
Toh kar khud Ko mazboot, bata de duniya Ko apna iraada
Samandar yeh hai bada gehra, yeh maante hai hum
Lekin us par hai ek kinaara bhi sunhara, yeh jaante hai hum
O banjare, chorni k saath basana tum tab apna ghar vahan
Bade kaale anjaan jahaan mein ek chota sunhara apna jahaan
- Abir ki uru
you a very happy married life mishbir 🎈🎈🎈🎈
Okay talking about the looks , I loved Rhea's look, she is looking absolutely gorgeous ❤️❤️ red is the ultimate colour you can go for ❤️ I love the simplicity maintained in her get up 🤗🤗🤗
Shaheer, well ,though the costume is simpler compared to what I expected but the way he again manages carry it off in style, it just says that you don't need clothes, its tne charm , the smile and the aura that can add up to showcase the amazing personality of our ajeeb dulha 🤗🤗🤗
Sorry guys , real life keeping me extra busy these days, not able to keep a tab on updates as well , only watching the episodes that too in a rush manner , I have a lot to say about other things too but I guess abhi ke life itna coffee hai 😉, may be on weekends I can try to describe the episodes in highlights way 😆😆 I hope kisi ne mujhe miss nahi kiya hoga 🤣
Okay , one serious question behno , so now abir is officially married 😭😭 can I still call myself abir ki uru ? 😛