Originally posted by: Gurmeet4Drashti
Right! But imagine if you had someone who behaved like he was straight out of all the romantic books you’ve read, gave you his undivided attention INITIALLY and did every possible thing to make sure that you fall for him along with promising you the world AND was good looking as hell.. he was like this walking talking dream of mine.
Ughhhh. So my romantic loner self fell for him SO hard...
Thank you for being so kind and making me feel better ♥️
Yah dear I understand. The stories I told you in previous comments were where I didn't fall prey and ignored the games.
But the biggest mind gamer I have met was my first or rather only love. He was just like the tailor-made guy with whatever I wanted in a guy. Even ironically it started when in a spin the bottle game---I was asked what kind of guy I wanted and I told the criterias I had even before meeting him. And all my friends screamed omg that's exactly him. Coincidentally he reached there at the same time and it was a awkward but sweet situation.
Anyway, lots of flirting, indirect proposal from him, his proposal from his friends, mind games later----I proposed him. His answer was-----Why are you being so serious ?
So for that long time (years), every gesture and everything from him was just joke/game(we were not committed but he always acted as if we were a couple and rumours were spread even in the circles I didn't know. It was complicated and I was naive and young i.e. stupid.)
I had a hard time moving on but when I did, I moved on completely.
I think-----not stalking his online profiles helps. I mean Not entering any of his profiles even once and not getting any updates from his life.
Trying to forget does more harm than help. Just cut yourself some slack, give yourself time, accept wholeheartedly that he would have been wrong for you in the long term (which is true as per his behavior) and don't lose belief in love 
Sorry for such a loooonngggg comment 
Edited by stormborn - 5 years ago