MayRa/ShivJen DT #35 "Hum ek doosre ke dil mein rehte hai" - Page 96

Originally posted by: Gurmeet4Drashti

I am the kind who doesn’t talk to anybody. I don’t make friends very easily and then guys always come up with the “oh you look like Emma Watson or some actress” to strike conversations and being approached because of the way I looked made me extremely wary.

So my ex literally tried to befriend me for 2 months till I kinda relented (he was extremely sweet, knew what made me tick or what was appealing and insanely good looking)

Then I had to go away for a few months (we weren’t in touch at all for a lot of reasons) and when I came back, for some reason we instantly reconnected and picked up right where we left off.

So we FINALLY exchanged numbers and then initially started the wooing stage which lasted for 3 months and “pighalna” was inevitable because he was my SRK.

Fast forward to a few months, love kept dissipating, I was an idiot and pathetically in love (did every idiotic thing you can possibly imagine) then one inconvenience later... “I don’t love you anymore and I think I don’t have it in me to be committed to anyone blah blah blah”

Toh that one stupid first best friend, boyfriend.. shattered my heart and here I am :)

Shit. sorry for the ridiculous rant...

You girls moved me with your stories of heartbreaks. It's not ridiculous, hugs for both of you🤗🤗

I too have broken my heart at hands of an idiot. He is an idiot definitely because I know I am a good person. Sometimes I still feel wary to fall in love again, but I do believe in love. I can't explain how it feels when you feel your world has come crashing down because you trusted someone with your love. But I am happily single, now..it's been many years.. The best revenge to people who destroy you is erase them from your system like they never existed. 😎

Originally posted by: Gurmeet4Drashti

I am the kind who doesn’t talk to anybody. I don’t make friends very easily and then guys always come up with the “oh you look like Emma Watson or some actress” to strike conversations and being approached because of the way I looked made me extremely wary.

So my ex literally tried to befriend me for 2 months till I kinda relented (he was extremely sweet, knew what made me tick or what was appealing and insanely good looking)

Then I had to go away for a few months (we weren’t in touch at all for a lot of reasons) and when I came back, for some reason we instantly reconnected and picked up right where we left off.

So we FINALLY exchanged numbers and then initially started the wooing stage which lasted for 3 months and “pighalna” was inevitable because he was my SRK.

Fast forward to a few months, love kept dissipating, I was an idiot and pathetically in love (did every idiotic thing you can possibly imagine) then one inconvenience later... “I don’t love you anymore and I think I don’t have it in me to be committed to anyone blah blah blah”

Toh that one stupid first best friend, boyfriend.. shattered my heart and here I am :)

Shit. sorry for the ridiculous rant...

I think my husband has been a huge driving factor in my life.. we dated for 4 years and then married.. I think he has made me a much confident person in life than I ever was.. it so important that the one u love can show u ur worth that u dont realise of..

I think in college life we were 56 guys to 4 girls in the class 😳.. but somehow I dint like any of them 😆

Originally posted by: stormborn

Lol. I have been advised to marry a guy who has sltshamed and bodyshamed me at one go----because he has 2 houses, 2 cars and he is pretty.

The one who advised that has married some1 like that and is now in an abusive marital relationship

Oh NOT necessarily for marriage. I was talking about crushes and harmless boyfriends.

Please tell me someone slapped that guy or at the very least showed him the door???

Originally posted by: Gurmeet4Drashti

I am the kind who doesn’t talk to anybody. I don’t make friends very easily and then guys always come up with the “oh you look like Emma Watson or some actress” to strike conversations and being approached because of the way I looked made me extremely wary.

So my ex literally tried to befriend me for 2 months till I kinda relented (he was extremely sweet, knew what made me tick or what was appealing and insanely good looking)

Then I had to go away for a few months (we weren’t in touch at all for a lot of reasons) and when I came back, for some reason we instantly reconnected and picked up right where we left off.

So we FINALLY exchanged numbers and then initially started the wooing stage which lasted for 3 months and “pighalna” was inevitable because he was my SRK.

Fast forward to a few months, love kept dissipating, I was an idiot and pathetically in love (did every idiotic thing you can possibly imagine) then one inconvenience later... “I don’t love you anymore and I think I don’t have it in me to be committed to anyone blah blah blah”

Toh that one stupid first best friend, boyfriend.. shattered my heart and here I am :)

Shit. sorry for the ridiculous rant...

Arrrghhhhhhhh this is the worst. These guys take 'wooing a girl' as a challenge to feed their fragile male ego. They can never get at peace or stability themselves because of this vile nature.

You were not at fault girl ! Men are almost never sweet or nice or respectful, so our expectations have become so less. That's why women always give so much and expect so less in back. So whenever anyone is very sweet-natured, it's hard to relent coz it's so much rare. Plus love makes us do things and your feelings were genuine.

Originally posted by: tournesol

You girls moved me with your stories of heartbreaks. It's not ridiculous, hugs for both of you🤗🤗

I too have broken my heart at hands of an idiot. He is an idiot definitely because I know I am a good person. Sometimes I still feel wary to fall in love again, but I do believe in love. I can't explain how it feels when you feel your world has come crashing down because you trusted someone with your love. But I am happily single, now..it's been many years.. The best revenge to people who destroy you is erase them from your system like they never existed. 😎

Actually I feel we dont see subtle hints that we get or choose to ignore them and love makes u that blind to see the obvious..

I used to like a guy and even proposed him and he rejected me saying I was overweight can u believe it.. 2 years later he proposed me when I had shed a lot of weight and I enjoyed savaging that moment.. I felt good 😈

Originally posted by: tournesol

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You know, I was wondering why MJ is so hell bent on proving Maya is Manvi, is it to protect his son or protect his ego? If he killed her years ago, why does he want to reawaken that Manvi? Maybe he wants to satisfy his ego that what he did to Manvi destroyed her, and only he can control her fate whether to kill her or reawaken her only to destroy her again. MJ has a twisted kind of God complex. He is not thinking about his son at all.

Right now his hormones and **** are doing his thinking. He is lusting and obsessing over Mayavi (my name for maya manvi combo)The moment he gave Maya the address and underestimated Diya (hell hath no fury than a woman scorned), uska brain ka swaha ho gaya

Originally posted by: NamuVyas

Actually I feel we dont see subtle hints that we get or choose to ignore them and love makes u that blind to see the obvious..

I used to like a guy and even proposed him and he rejected me saying I was overweight can u believe it.. 2 years later he proposed me when I had shed a lot of weight and I enjoyed savaging that moment.. I felt good 😈

Yeah, plus I was in college then, pretty much naive to understand if someone was playing with my feelings.. So for a while I didn't understand, then few months later I broke up with him the moment I learnt what a douchbag he was 🤢

What a shallow fellow, is he proposing a girl or a perfect figure

Originally posted by: tournesol

You girls moved me with your stories of heartbreaks. It's not ridiculous, hugs for both of you🤗🤗

I too have broken my heart at hands of an idiot. He is an idiot definitely because I know I am a good person. Sometimes I still feel wary to fall in love again, but I do believe in love. I can't explain how it feels when you feel your world has come crashing down because you trusted someone with your love. But I am happily single, now..it's been many years.. The best revenge to people who destroy you is erase them from your system like they never existed. 😎

you are right.

Sometimes I wonder whether I am being cynical, but also I never judge a book by its cover. Everytime I have trashzoned a guy, I have had proof (m good at online investigation and I speak less and observe and listen more. that helps). So may be I have a special kind of luck where I get only fake guys or may be it's the same for most I don't know. But I right now don't have anyone particular in my heart or mind and I am pretty content as a single person.

But even though I am wary of people, I believe in love.

Originally posted by: tournesol

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You know, I was wondering why MJ is so hell bent on proving Maya is Manvi, is it to protect his son or protect his ego? If he killed her years ago, why does he want to reawaken that Manvi? Maybe he wants to satisfy his ego that what he did to Manvi destroyed her, and only he can control her fate whether to kill her or reawaken her only to destroy her again. MJ has a twisted kind of God complex. He is not thinking about his son at all.

Actually he is butt hurt and his ego is punctured.. this girl who to start with dint heed him and he went on to play his love game and destroyed her life to show her aukaad has returned to his son as his love.. it's a hard thing for ppl like MJ to accept and digest.. not just that but to digest the fact that she is having the same romantic relationship with his son is not going well with him..

First it was Rudras well being which mattered which has now moved to trying to possess Maya and control her back under him.. MJ never cared about his sons heart really.. he wants to see him alive around him that's it.. and now that he is seeing how much in love MayRa is he will go more mad..

I feel MJ wont die, he might become mentally unstable in the end of it..

Originally posted by: stormborn

Right now his hormones and **** are doing his thinking. He is lusting and obsessing over Mayavi (my name for maya manvi combo)The moment he gave Maya the address and underestimated Diya (hell hath no fury than a woman scorned), uska brain ka swaha ho gaya

He needs to get a kick where his hormones do their work. Sari akal thikane aa jayegi. Iss umar mein kamzor ho jati hai, cchot lagegi to kya karega 🤣