Originally posted by: Uma2010
I would say both are lucky to have each other. We live in times when honesty is taken as a sin and is punished. We have grown to distrust everybody and believe it is essential to put on a mask to appeal. Being real is no longer being human. Siddharth knows in his bones that she is the closest approximate to real he can get in a girl- this one doesn’t hesitate to tell him on his face when she feels he has done a bad job acting (the horror incident), doesn’t play on his team just to please him and took all his behavior issues as calmly as can be expected of only one’s own girl. If she isn’t his, who is, eh? There are no cold wars with this one, no pretenses, no masks. She is what you see. Hate it or love it and he loves it to his deepest self. Coz as he said early on in WKV, she reminds him of himself at her age. And you do know that love is narcissistic at heart- one loves seeing oneself in the other. In occult speak, Siddharth had hit bull’s eye with that statement. And what more testimonial do we need that they were meant for each other- peas of the same pod.
And yes, am going to miss it all... but these memories are documented and I shall be ever grateful for that. That last day was the best we could have asked for. Siddharth’s arc of evolution from Day 1 to yesterday at MSK has been the best I have seen in terms of relationship management. What a journey of inner self-growth- all that intelligence put to excellent use. I knew that this could happen with that post Rajat USUD, but never imagined the corrections to come in as quick. And he and we have been lucky to have had this platform to see that journey he has made. He understands she is precious enough for him to make an effort. Sigh