NO one is a saint here ! I agree !
There was no need for Rashmi to speak to Umar and Himanshi about Arhaan....We still don't know what exactly went wrong between Arhaan and Rashmi coz both now are changing their statements ! We are judging Himanshi on basis of speculation and blaming her for judging Rashmi when we don't even know what exactly did Arhaan tell her ! Did he show her some proofs ? We have no clue about their convo ! So, who's to say that she is quick to judge or Arhaan had proofs to back himself up in front of Asim
Also why are giving a free pass to Chow in this situation ! Himanshi and Asim never crossed a line when they were in the house ! It is very easy to blame the girl BUT what about the guy who broke up with her without even giving her a chance to explain her side of the story !
Umar was supposed to come BUT channel cancelled his entry and called Himanshi instead which clearly shows that they wanted to milk this situation and try to pull Asim down
I do feel both Rashmi and especially Himanshi should have avoided talking about Arhaan !
I don't know about this Umar situation because I didn't see her asking about it. Must have missed it. When did it happen?
Here's what I think: Arhaan's Revelation was this huge event which created a lot of ripples afterwards. Had it died down immediately after the first discussion, no-one would have cared. But it was brought up again and again- especially by Salman and then Debo, which made it sound like things were really bad outside. Now anybody in the situation would inquire about it because well, reputation matters in the industry.
I personally do not blame Rashami for asking about it, and not even Himanshi for telling her. What looked bad was how the latter brought it out in front of Asim and Vishal and explained it in a way which put Rashami in a negative light. Arhaan is a sleazy guy. He might have said anything, but I don't feel the singer is foolish enough to not understand the connotation of telling people that " hey! He did so much for her but she didn't care enough to clear the air"
And no one is giving a free pass to Chow. He didn't trust his fiancee...says a lot about his shallow-mindedness. But having faced this situation- I expected Himanshi to be a little sympathetic about the other lady and her relationship issues. What if Rashami had said something like, chow stayed with her for almost a decade and she didn't respect him enough to maintain some distance. People would have blasted her for making such comments.
Anyway, don't want to argue about this. I know these are morally culpable humans and are anything but perfect. Plus, all of them are mature enough to handle their situations! Nice thread though!