SidNaaz :Discussion Thread 19: I hate u..Good for u😂 - Page 13

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OfXu2cbKuM8

this is slightly longer version of arthi-sana fight, main thing is when sana says khatam ho gaya about sidnaaz, paras says yeh teri galat fehmi hai 😊

Originally posted by: soulstarspirit

My two cents on Sidnaaz

So its kind of clear Sid is pissed at Sana for Paras thing and not GG and KA. GG and KA kaand might have made him jealous but not angry and hurt. What I think both Sana and Sid are behaving like teenagers in love and they are hopeless cases. Both are at fault for not being mature and having a sensible conversation like a 39 and 26 year old. Sana may act kiddish but she listens to Sid if he conveys something clearly and not in riddles.

Few days back Sid said “tum kisi ki nahi ho”, “tum un logon se baat karti ho jinhone mere bare mein itna bura bhala kaha”. (i.e, Rashmi and Asim). But then Sid talks to Paras and Shefali who clearly disrespect Sana and cannot stand her.May be it hasn’t happened in front of Sid but Sana has said that she has problem with Paras and mahira . But Sid thinks it’s because she has feelings for Paras that is why she wants to avoid them. Again communication gap and lack of understanding between Sid and Sana.

Coming to the statement ki tum apne maa baap ki nahi ho. Sid is pissed that Sana forgave Paras and said attachment word again even after knowing he disrespected her father. After this Sid strongly believes she is not a loyal person. But Sana’s intentions were not the same. She just didn’t want Paras to feel demotivated and affect his game coz she understands this show is important for people. Here Sana was just being humane. Though she should have avoided the attachment word. It went against her. But didn’t Sid is doing the same thing. Rashmi called him bh****d on his face thrice and also said “teri maa ghar pe khana banati hai wo bhi naukrani hui kya”. Isn’t Sid is also being cordial to Rashmi now. He also went to the extent of consoling her during the family task coz he knows she has disturbed relationship with her family. Sid was genuinely kind and caring towards her that day. Isn’t Rashmi is also Sid’s ex just like he believes Paras is Sana’s ex (although it’s not applicable). If Sid can be kind towards Rashmi after she said many things about his character, personal life and family members then why different rules for Sana. Sana even went onto the extent of calling Paras her brother in front of Sid. Rashmi is actually his ex and Paras is just a strong crush. And all this is happening when Sid haven’t even confessed and given any commitment to Sana. She asked him clearly if you say anything to me I wouldn’t look at GG and KA but he refused. The problem is Sid expects Sana to behave as his wife without making his feelings clear. Sana has very loudly and clearly said I love you, live in relationship. People say Sana always says wo wala I love you nahi, ye wala I love you but come on sid is not stupid. He clearly knows which I love you. Salman cleared it and Why would sana talk about live-in rlnshp if not wo wala I love you. Sid is way too intelligent and observant to understand. Either he wants Sana to clearly say wo wala I Love you and commit to her completely but Sana is scared and confused coz she has said everything indirectly but sid didn’t say anything in response. Now Sana can’t do anything more than this. Come on, being a girl, how much more open can she be on national tv. Lip kiss bhi maang li , usko kar bhi di indirectly.

My analysis is Sid is insecure because of age thing and his past baggage. He can’t commit to her without clearing everything and that he won’t do in the show. But still expects Sana to understand everything, be loyal to him like a wife (not even a girlfriend). But Sana is also in a game show. She also needs to play. She is playing and also being loyal to him at the same time. But sid is still insecure. And this is because of the conversation gap between them. They are behaving really silly. I would say Sid is being more stupid here. He could have handled the situation but the guy has really serious relationship issues, is scared of getting hurt. But then he himself is inflicting the pain on himself.

Also sid accepted in front of his mom ( her mom did say yes yes yes good choice) which means he is serious about Sana. I wouldn’t believe ever that Sid was just attracted to her and didn’t think of the future with her. He somewhere was thinking about serious relationship or may be marriage with her. Otherwise he wouln't have behaved like this in a show.

At the end of the day, they both need to talk maturely which I think sid won’t do in the show. My only fear is what if situation worsens from here and it cannot be amended after the show.

I agree sid is scared of getting hurt in a relationship again and so being extra cautious now ..

Yesterday he told sana that in past too smart people like u hv fooled me ..mujhe dumb banaya hai was his exact dialogue ..so he is scared and somewhere doubtful that mayb sana is faking all love fr him just fr the game ..thats why in bed other day he told her i will clear my issues with u outside ..mayb he thinks outsidd he will get more clarity about sana's real self since there will b no cameras around ..

Sid is actually confused that whether this is real Sana or she is putting up cuteness mask just fr game..so he plays these hurt games with her to see her real self and how much he affects her bec he looks damn serious about her ..

Coming to his sympathy fr rashmi , i feel theres a diff ..he never told rashmi i hv attachment with u or ander se feelings aati hai which sana keeps telling paras ..thats his problem ..

But sana has prob with words ..he told ssme attachment and feelings thing to rashmi yesterday ..does that mean she is in love with rashmi now ?? 😆..nope ..its just the limited vocabulary she has something that sid need to understand..

Abi kya ap mereko zada serious lene lag gaye ho?

I dun wanna get into this shit man! *walks away*

Kyu k tere pass jwaab nai hai

Kabi kabi chup rehna acha hota hai

Tu khol muh khol *intense bg score*

Sid stops there

Muje lag raha inki gandi ladai hogi🤔

Bohat gandi🤔

Originally posted by: hira221

Jay for Sid??!! Why not his mom?

And kashmera? Oh god I hated her in S1

He wudnt ever want them to b part of this mess. Is liye jay friend hai to approach kiya gaya hoga

Why do I feel the anger is just a simple case of abhimaan .. Sid was all right with her during GG task which was quite ok .. because even KSG came for Arti .. and GG is a Bigg boss winner ... sana had been expecting him to come sometime .. but she mentioned in front of Salman last week

Then when kartik Aryan came he took it sportingly ..

I feel Sid has realised sana is quite close to the trophy the way channel is going overboard her .. Salman was gushing about her to Amruta Singh

He cleared in front of Sara that I told her she looks like Amrita .. Sara just said somebody

Sid is somebody who does not like even losing in task

He might have felt sana will come in top 3 but now he feels she has serious chances of winning the trophy

even if he was doing showmance ( I don’t believe this ) he would have continued for 3 more weeks it is more positive to his image than fighting with asim

And he is coming out as a bairi piya who ill treat his wife.

He is not happy .. about this doesn’t have a reason to fight is coming out as a sore loser

If they continue to fight till 27 and then make up I would feel they are doing show mance for the public whatever was between them has been lost in the negativity

no good hubby keeps his wife miserable and crying for so many days .. it’s been 4 days now that she has been crying .kartik and Gautam ka bhoot utar Gaya ..
now she is just his wife fighting about her rights on him

Inko ek gandi larai hi ki zarurat hai.. pura Ghar laga hai Arti and Sana ko rokne mein and Sid ko dekho🤣

Originally posted by: jyoti06

I agree sid is scared of getting hurt in a relationship again and so being extra cautious now ..

Yesterday he told sana that in past too smart people like u hv fooled me ..mujhe dumb banaya hai was his exact dialogue ..so he is scared and somewhere doubtful that mayb sana is faking all love fr him just fr the game ..thats why in bed other day he told her i will clear my issues with u outside ..mayb he thinks outsidd he will get more clarity about sana's real self since there will b no cameras around ..

Sid is actually confused that whether this is real Sana or she is putting up cuteness mask just fr game..so he plays these hurt games with her to see her real self and how much he affects her bec he looks damn serious about her ..

Coming to his sympathy fr rashmi , i feel theres a diff ..he never told rashmi i hv attachment with u or ander se feelings aati hai which sana keeps telling paras ..thats his problem ..

But sana has prob with words ..he told ssme attachment and feelings thing to rashmi yesterday ..does that mean she is in love with rashmi now ?? 😆..nope ..its just the limited vocabulary she has something that sid need to understand..

Yes, i agree completely.

And Sana has limited vocabulary. This even Sid knows, better than us. Even paras said once when sana called herself characterless that "ye words galat choose karti hai". But Sid is not sure how serious is Sana about her feelings for him. but then, didn't she say live in relnshp and i wouldn't look at GG and KA if you say something to me. At the end of the day, main problem is Sid is insecure and doesnt wanna get hurt. He overthinks and this is messing things between them

Originally posted by: CatcherInTheRye

Abi kya ap mereko zada serious lene lag gaye ho?

I dun wanna get into this shit man! *walks away*

Kyu k tere pass jwaab nai hai

Kabi kabi chup rehna acha hota hai

Tu khol muh khol *intense bg score*

Sid stops there

Muje lag raha inki gandi ladai hogi🤔

Bohat gandi🤔

Ab gandi ladai toh gande wale pyaar mein hota hai 😆..

This wkw salman will tell sana : be careful of this one bec he is in love with u and its a bad one itna bad ki asim ko markar show se nikal jaana tha usko " 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Inko ek gandi larai hi ki zarurat hai.. pura Ghar laga hai Arti and Sana ko rokne mein and Sid ko dekho🤣

I too want them to have Gandi ladai 🤣

I loved putla Sid 🤣

Originally posted by: soulstarspirit

Yes, i agree completely.

And Sana has limited vocabulary. This even Sid knows, better than us. Even paras said once when sana called herself characterless that "ye words galat choose karti hai". But Sid is not sure how serious is Sana about her feelings for him. but then, didn't she say live in relnshp and i wouldn't look at GG and KA if you say something to me. At the end of the day, main problem is Sid is insecure and doesnt wanna get hurt. He overthinks and this is messing things between them

He dont tk that live in relation seriously bec sana mazaak mazaak nein bahut kuch bol deti hai which sid knows ..biggest example is she calling herself characterless 😆..

Thats why he is insecure bec he is not sure how much serious sana is about him or is it limited to just bb show bec fm his side he is getting very serious fr her and its affecting him..