RaSim- Discussion Thread 7- Tu hai Toh I’ll be alright - Page 25

I am happy at PaHira's stupid task suggestions. Aur chadaney doh inko sar pey Rashmi ko. At some point she needs to understand that all people do not deserve niceness, and not just in the show, even world at large.

Originally posted by: LastManStanding

Who was right and who was wrong yesterday is subjective thing.

Where Rashami was right?

She was right in her stand trying to stop the fight from both the sides. When Shukla pushed Asim first(although it wasn't that hard), first thing Rashami did was trying to hold back Asim's right arm with her hands. She was then trying to come in between both when Paras hadn't come, She went to stop Shukla only when Paras had taken over Asim and was trying to stop him because Jariwala was just trying to show off as if she is stopping but all she was doing was stirring up, instigating the fight shouting Asim poke kar raha hain.

When you are with talking terms with Shukla, there is no harm taking his name and asking him to stop. Just imagine Rashami trying to take Asim into corner and telling him,"Woh gandh hai, tu kyun fight kar raha hai". That would have totally changed narrative saying Rashami is instigating him rather than stopping it.

Where Rashami was wrong?

I think it was okay to come in between when fight is going on but There was no need to have that extended conversation when Shukla came to her asking to stay away from fights. Asking Shukla that it is expected from you to show maturity. There was no need of that. Rashami should be the last person expecting maturity from him. Her intentions weren't wrong but they don't wait for a second to interpret in a dissimilar way.

Like, By telling him that maturity is expected from you, Are you saying that Asim is immature? People dont expect anything mature from Asim? Okay, you don't want to pick a fight with him and don't want get into mud-slinging with him, but there is always an ignore mode.

Another thing is showing concern for Shukla because of Sana. Rashami should really shut that concern door for those who aren't her friends. That's not NICENESS, that is dumbness.

Where Asim was right?

He was hardly wrong today. From the first minute of the episode he was coming across as hero. He has every right to chime in the discussion about house duties when all the HMs have taunted him for duty in past. From the very first week, He has been tantalised for not doing duties.Although, I know he was showing concern for Rashami mentioning her hairline fracture and asking Paras to do his duty.

He was damn right in that fight with Shukla, too. "Bahar aakar milna, Bap ne ghar se nikala hain", He is not there to take this BS from anyone, Trash-talking has to be done in limits. That old mule needs to keep a lock on his tongue while trash-talking. Shukla first pushed Asim and then everything went underway.

Where was Asim DEAD ON, Darn right?

His whole conversation with Rashami while sitting on the bench was Gold. And it wasn't only spoken out of possessiveness. It is the every sane individual is here trying to convey to Rashami since SidRa nonsense is going on.

"Rashami will have to listen to either Asim or Shukla. Thats the game. Asim in clear words said to Rashami, "He is the same guy who has been keeping you under feet in the show. You need to keep a layer even if you don't want to incite a fight.

It isnt the first time He has pushed me, He has pushed me 10 times but why are you expecting maturity from him all of a sudden? Shukla is the same person who has pounced on you,torn apart Arhaan's shirt, had thrown tea at you but now showing concern for you telling not to come in between fights ? That guy has been behind you since last 3 months, made your life hell and out of the blue you are giving suggestions to him how to avoid fight and all? "

Trust me, if any of you guys have friend who confronts you this way, Don't let him/her get out of your life..

Where things might have gone wrong?

Rashami conversing with Shukla in morning when Asim was asking Paras to do duty. Although Rashami was speaking in favour of Asim, I think Asim didn't know what they were talking about. That's when Asim felt that Rashami was listening more attentively to Shukla than him.

What can we expect?

What happened today was outlet of Asim's anger towards Shukla and doubts arising due to unfulfilled expectations from Rashami. Although Rashami and Asim sorted out in the end, Shukla angle definitely can work as crack opener in RaSim. Rashami really needs to get done with this overt niceness about Mahira-Shukla. Asim has been fighting for her with Mahira-Paras-Shukla taking all the verbal dirt they have thrown at him, the least he can expect from his friend is to take his side fully(Specially against Shukla)when he needs him and don't act as a buffer both the side because the other side neither deserves nor values Rashami's courteousness.

Nevertheless, one simple argument isn't going to change the innumerable things they have done for each other.

Last thing, Rashami's convo inside with Shukla and her narration to Asim about it on bench outside, She definitely changed one statement.(When Shukla said he first pushed me, She affirmatively said I understand, But to Asim she said When Shukla told me that First Asim pushed me, I said no that he didnt do it first) I don't think it was intentional as Rashami isn't going to gain anything from Shukla. But I'm waiting for COTW or SK to point it out. It has been weeks since someone has called Rashami, So I am definitely expecting that. Tough days ahead for RaSim.!!!

Originally posted by: LastManStanding

Yeah, But more than diplomatic She was trapped there when She decided to have convo with Shukla itself. Shukla doesnt even let her doormats speak so just forget about Rashami. He wasnt even listening to Rashami and just forcing his point and blurted out He pushed me first and she just said Yeah, I understand, disagreeing with him would obviously incite a fight. Thats why I hate Rashami talking with Shukla, Ek toh you are non-confrontational, agreeable, articulate poorly and then you went to have conversation with Shukla, obviously you'll be dominated by him and you can't even cut him off the conversation as he isnt your friend.

Even with Asim, He was asking questions in between, but atleast He is friend and that's why she could atleast ask him that let me just finish the whole convo and then you can raise questions. Obviously She lied there about one thing to Asim. But one thing channel did good was that they didnt edit out last conversation of RaSim while having tea, It was moment of relief.

And thanks for appreciation about Post !!

See this why I felt she was diplomatic coz she in a way agreed with Shukla and then later on said something else to Asim !

I am not discussing about her reasons for doing what she did...What she did was being diplomatic in a way coz she didn't take a stand for Asim in front of Shukla neither disagreed with him ! So, what exactly was her point of going and speaking to Shukla !

Also I didn't like when she said Shukla is worried about Sana in his defence .....What was the point of defending Shukla when he was absolutely wrong

I am glad Asim pointed out that he himself is going through a lot (coz of Himanshi) and so are others

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

I think the kitchen fight thing Rashmi clarifies to Shukla that Asim isn’t fighting for her but for the house duties only. She tells Asim the same that she called Shukla to tell him Asim is fighting for house duties as these guys keep taunting Asim. She doesn’t say she likes Pahira. She said she likes Mahira because she is young and childish. And expects maturity from Paras.😆. Regarding after sanchalan talk was started by Sid saying you will get hurt the next time or something like that . I don’t think Rashmi says the words I care for Asim to either Shukla or Asim I may need to see that conversation again. But ya saying you show maturity and keep your hands back to Shukla wasn’t needed. She knows him the best itna toh bata hi hoga he has zero maturity. But she was honest about this conversation to Asim. So it’s ok.In any case finally Rashmi and Asim got lots of footage on a Monday episode so it’s good enough for me .😆

Rashami told Asim yesterday. you're important for me!

Originally posted by: garima22

Vo aarti fir se Rashmi ko Asim k khilaf boli...kah rhi Asim cards play kr rha hai...had hoti hai...bht hi bura wkw hoga Asim k liye vo soch bhi nhi skta kya hone wala hai...ek bnda kitna brdsh kre...aaj bhi sb usko hi accuse krnge...

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

where in the unseen ?

Yes...idhar bhi Rashmi ne kuch khas defend nhi kra Asim ko bs ye kaha cards kaise...Asim hota to sbse phele bolta ladh hi pdta...yhn pe Rashmi lack kr rhi yr...kal bhi yhi hua...as a frd we do expect ki aap dusro k samne bhi hamare liye bolo...espclly jb hum bolte hai unke liye...Yhi meri bhi pblm hai bura lgta ye sb dkh ke...If she can defend mahira in front of others y not Asim?? Mujhe bilkul acha nhi lga jb she was taking her side...

https://www.voot.com/shows/bigg-boss/13/839463/rashami-witnesses-arti-s-anger/907221

Originally posted by: anshvi

See this why I felt she was diplomatic coz she in a way agreed with Shukla and then later on said something else to Asim !

I am not discussing about her reasons for doing what she did...What she did was being diplomatic in a way coz she didn't take a stand for Asim in front of Shukla neither disagreed with him ! So, what exactly was her point of going and speaking to Shukla !

Also I didn't like when she said Shukla is worried about Sana in his defence .....What was the point of defending Shukla when he was absolutely wrong

I am glad Asim pointed out that he himself is going through a lot (coz of Himanshi) and so are others

Exactly, that was futile conversation itself when she couldn't defend Asim but in turn came across as someone trying to ride both the sides.

And it was equally idiotic to even mention Sana-Shukla's matter. I was like WTF, why do you even care?? 😡

Originally posted by: garima22

Yes...idhar bhi Rashmi ne kuch khas defend nhi kra Asim ko bs ye kaha cards kaise...Asim hota to sbse phele bolta ladh hi pdta...yhn pe Rashmi lack kr rhi yr...kal bhi yhi hua...as a frd we do expect ki aap dusro k samne bhi hamare liye bolo...espclly jb hum bolte hai unke liye...Yhi meri bhi pblm hai bura lgta ye sb dkh ke...If she can defend mahira in front of others y not Asim?? Mujhe bilkul acha nhi lga jb she was taking her side...

https://www.voot.com/shows/bigg-boss/13/839463/rashami-witnesses-arti-s-anger/907221

Asim also made fun if aisi ladki thing. Both were wrong. Let's cut them some slack.

The only important thing is that they've sorted their differences out and sticking together.

This is all that matters. Wahan kya kam piche pade hain RaSim ke ki yahan pe bhi hum sab aapas mein lage hue hain.

Trust them Yaar. Rashmi took his side yesterday na.

Nobody can be perfect, Ho jaati hain galtiyaan. Chill Karo please.

Twitter morons have gone crazy today. Maltab I don't understand why RaSim fans are fighting amongst themselves.

We need to understand this is what channel wants. We really need to stick together rn. I'm not saying for votes but for support.

Originally posted by: Guneet80

Asim also made fun if aisi ladki thing. Both were wrong. Let's cut them some slack.

The only important thing is that they've sorted their differences out and sticking together.

This is all that matters. Wahan kya kam piche pade hain RaSim ke ki yahan pe bhi hum sab aapas mein lage hue hain.

Trust them Yaar. Rashmi took his side yesterday na.

Nobody can be perfect, Ho jaati hain galtiyaan. Chill Karo please.

Yes aur Rashmi ne kal usko toka bhi hai...Li uski side bt Sid k samne haa mein haa bhi milayi hai...anyways leave mujhe bhi bolna tha maine bol diya...completely my opinion!! Maine btaya Rashmi kahan lack kr rhi iss frdshp mein aur Asim uska gussa bht bura hai vo gusse mein bht kuch bol jaata hai but best part vo bd mein realise bhi krta hai sorry bol deta hai 😆Jst like me...dts y main uss se bht relate kr paati hun...I jst think like him...mera gussa bhi kam nhi hai 😳