Nostalgia :Sid nurtured Asim !!! But.. video - Page 6

Originally posted by: randomfancrics

sach kahoon i genuinely feels shukla liked asim n sana the most out of all the housemates. i feel he liked asim even more than arti or shefali or even paras or mahira. though he doesnt get along with asim anymore, i feel he still has a soft corner for asim n so does asim. they both somewhere still likes each other like a bro. it was very easy for both of them to ignore each other when their family photos came but they instead showed it to each other, and hugged to sort out their differences. maybe pehla jaisa nahi hoga but as long as they r cordial i m happy enough 😊

i want them both to be cordial at least, if their friendship shines again I m totally fine with it. shukla n asim both have flaws and they know their agression can lead to something very serious. but if they r friends like intially they both can control each other's aggression very well n snake n ladder task is a perfect example. sid-paras fight asim stopped them n calmed sid down, next day asim-paras fight sid stopped them n calmed asim down. paras cant be that bro for sid that asim can be. paras hai toh entertaining but i find sid n asim more real than paras.

from starting itself even if i wasnt fond of shukla, i never wanted their friendship to break. if sid could have controlled his rude languages and asim could have stopped being too angry baath itna nahi bigarta. both guys were wrong in that matter.

How well you put it . Wish we could have more like you writing about BB . Thanks dear .

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

Sid ne kabhi nahi jataya . He said tumhe chota bhai maana . That is not jatana .

Yes people do but many just get thrown out prematurely from bb too . The newcomers come uo to a level because of some or other celebrity . after a certain level it then is their own game .

Sid ne jataya hai. I hv heard him saying it...'main leke aaya isko...' something along those lines.

Yeah true many get thrown out but those are the people widout a personality. How do we know Asim would hv been thrown out widout Sid ?? Do we hv any proof ?? No right. He is here and all credit goes to him .....just like everyone who still is inside the house.

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

No I will not pass any hatred . And I havent in my post too. i will mke posts highlighting sid . Tht is it . The way he is bashed is too one sided . So I will put forth my view on sid !!!

Asim fans keep spitting venom for sid and i will keep writing good things about him .

Not only sid i have also not been spared .

I will again put my point for you.....SidSim friendship isnt hated on forum yet......agar ek dosti thi jise log pasand karte hain......uspar yeh bola jaaye ki ek kam tha....ek jyaada....jabki friendship jaise cheej mei kam jyaada nahi hota hain.....toh log pissed off ho jaate hain. This would make people hate SidSim.....which will not be good for sid either....it would just increase the hate dear. You can always feel free to put your points in support of sid but you feel that giving him the upper hand in friendship is the only point you can support sid on. Episodes hum roj dekh rahe hain.....why cant posts be put up in support of the episode. Isse pyaari post hoti na ki sid ke saare friends jinko uski picture mili.....sab ne uski memories mein rakhi.....kisi ne uski pic nahi phaadi.....just an example. That would have put sid in good light without putting anyone in bad light.

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

No sid fans never do that dear . I never do that . But the extent to which asim fans abuse sid here actually is extreme. And so this post .

When sid called asim his younger brother it naturally was an acknowledgement that asim had also invested a lot of emotions in that relationship. No denying that .

See you don't understand. You can't generalise a fandom. In both fandoms, there are a section of fans who are blind enough to spread hate. But why do we become like them?

Sid is blamed for his current actions, never for his friendship with Asim. I would at least never do that.

@bold- Today itself a Sid fan here in IF namecalled Asim and accused his friendship with Sid. But had I retorted him back with Sid, I would have been unfair to myself bcoz I respected their friendship and I KNOW they both had a genuine bond. Doing that will only be an insult to those good memories.

Its not like for ex- I hate Sid so u have to hate Asim to counter me? Bcoz even you do that, things won't get better.

Also SidSim still mean a lot, bcoz even after all that fight, they chose to hug each other. Asim went to show him his family pic and Sid gave him a peck🤣

I am sure these guys will make it up after the show ends.😆 Bcoz there will be no Paras factor that time😆

Sid and Asim will have a soft corner for each other it's just things are not good at the moment but they will surely make up after the show Asim first went to Sid to show the photo frame and helping Sid early in the morning clearly shows the love they have for each other but it's the house dynamic which is against them. As Aarti rightly said in dono ke ladai Mai sabne APNI rotiye seke.

The one who nurtures you doesn't abuse , humiliate and demoralise you !!

Sid always wanted Asim to behave as per his instructions....Asim was his team member and Sid wanted his team members to remain in his control always ...he never wanted them to discuss their strategies in front of other group , he never allowed his team members to put their opinions , he just wanted them to follow his game plan ..he wanted robots not friends...his statement to Asim " let's fly solo" when first time Asim demanded respect from him says volume !!

Originally posted by: randomfancrics

sach kahoon i genuinely feels shukla liked asim n sana the most out of all the housemates. i feel he liked asim even more than arti or shefali or even paras or mahira. though he doesnt get along with asim anymore, i feel he still has a soft corner for asim n so does asim. they both somewhere still likes each other like a bro. it was very easy for both of them to ignore each other when their family photos came but they instead showed it to each other, and hugged to sort out their differences. maybe pehla jaisa nahi hoga but as long as they r cordial i m happy enough 😊

i want them both to be cordial at least, if their friendship shines again I m totally fine with it. shukla n asim both have flaws and they know their agression can lead to something very serious. but if they r friends like intially they both can control each other's aggression very well n snake n ladder task is a perfect example. sid-paras fight asim stopped them n calmed sid down, next day asim-paras fight sid stopped them n calmed asim down. paras cant be that bro for sid that asim can be. paras hai toh entertaining but i find sid n asim more real than paras.

from starting itself even if i wasnt fond of shukla, i never wanted their friendship to break. if sid could have controlled his rude languages and asim could have stopped being too angry baath itna nahi bigarta. both guys were wrong in that matter.

Stop patronizing Asim!

If SS was so essential for his growth, then he would have fallen without him now. But he's only grown taller. It's his mental strength and maturity vis a vis a much older man that's attractive to audience.

It's only the others who cling to SS for protection and power.. Sana, Arti, Pahira, Zariwala.

And btw, Dosti main ehsaan nahi hota...

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

i personally love the bond the most this season....this is the only bond which touched my heart.....i dont like when it is put up like this ......friendship is never about kisne jyaada kiya hain kiske liye aur is case mein toh visibly dono khade the ek doosre ke liye poori tarah se jab tak saath the.....agar dosti sachi na hoti .....toh joh sidsim moments milte rehte hain woh bhi na note. Sid clapping ki asim samajh gaya game or asim standing on sid legs to relieve him from joint pain....yeh nahi hota. And to be truthful.....i am scared that this will initiate hate for SidSim friendship which till now isnt there.....people dont hate the friendship abhi tak and do feel ki sachi thi. I dont want that to go. This giving the upper hand to sid will just put off many individuals.

I am just loving ur writings. Making me so nostalgic. Once upon a time I preferred Sid and Asim alone vs the whole house. Even though i wasn't fond of Sid , but there was no point of denying how true he was to Asim, how they had always been there for each other like a wall. Sana and Arti always flipped but these two guys when they were together, they were totally involved in it.

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

So be it . Sid has been demonised enough here dear . Now there is nothing left . Nd you are going on about belittling . when did I do that ???

Asim has never even acknowledged their friendship after the fight . He belittled it .

And asim fans have ridiculed , abused sid enough now .

Although i made a post requesting BB to again get sid asim together ,

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/bigg-boss-13/5139405/sid-sana-asim-shefali-what-a-group-that-would-be

But now I dont even want that .Too much hurt this forum has caused.