Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus
Just copying n pasting my post in the LU:
I tried my best to be concise and not rant...but the words just kept pouring out😳 sorry, tried to be as practical and neutral as possible👍🏼
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Okay so here's my thoughts on the current situation: here me out
1. Mishti telling off Kunal: once again Mishti takes the prize here
Simply beautifully bang on!
As we have all seen over the 200 episodes, we see that Mishti takes her real angry chorni avatar only when something or someone close to her is being unnecessarily deeply hurt/insulted. Learning that Kunal once again is the reason for another member of her family being hurt (Kuhu's divorce and now Nannu's health), she had every right to question and challenge Kunal
2. Kunal's birth truth revelation: Yes! About time this truth be revealed!
[feels like us fans know this secret forever!
]
Mishti has definitely crossed the line by revealing Kunal's birth truth right to his face, in such an intense situation already. I get it, she has reached a limit with all the RV drama, she feels enough is enough with all the pain, stress, challenges she endures all due to Meenakshi's ego, and irrational hatred against her
. But she has made a costly mistake by accidentally revealing Kunal's birth truth
. Even Meenu doesn't know that Mishti knows her family's most biggest secret. So obviously, Abir will be shocked to the core, on how Mishti already knows Kunal's truth.
Right now after today's episode, we are left with a very emotionally stressed and overwhelmed Mishti. I'm sure soon enough in the next episode, she will realise and regret what she has spilled out to Kunal in the heat of the moment. A mistake is a mistake. And this appears to be a very pricy one.
Feel bad for Mishti, who has always picked herself up after all the pain and heart-breaks she's had, but life still throws her around. All she genuinely wishes for is Abir to be happy which she knows lies in her and their pyaar.
3. Abir's reaction: Abir who finally after more than 2 months of sacrifice, more than 2 months of inner turmoil, heartbreak and basically depression, has FINALLY woken up to the realisation that telling Kunal directly the truth is the only way out of Meenu's blackmail
He is gradually getting back his strength with the hint that Mishti still loves and cares for him. Now with all the courage he and confidence he convinced Maasi to allow him to say the truth carefully, he will be shook to the core that Mishti has broken the bubble suddenly. He had no idea that Mishti already knew the biggest truth. Just like when Abir got to know Mishti already knew about Baba's real identity, he'll again have a thousand questions running in his mind about how, when and why Mishti found out and chose to once again keep it hidden from him. There is only so much Abir can handle and accept with Mishti's decisions to hide things. Abir will surely feel that ALL his sacrifice over the 2 months and his pain for hurting Mishti and breaking their rishta, simply for keeping this birth truth hidden, is now a huge waste! IF mishti already knew the truth, then Abir wouldn't have had the need to hide from Mishti the reason for the break up and then crush her heart so badly at the lake scene. Abir could have easily worked it out together to tell Kunal slowly and carefully. Abir's tense reaction is completely justified; not only will he be mad at Mishti for hiding her knowledge of the truth and then also dropping the bomb on Kunal without warning...but Abir will be frustrated with himself, he'll be angry with himself for letting this secret be burden and allowing Meenu's blackmail take control over him, which has caused his and Mishti's life to be ruined
Once again their bond's trust factor is being tested (typical ITV
) Abir still loves Mishti deeply, and Mishti yearns to be back with Abir too
All they really need is one huge heart-to-heart, deep, open uninterrupted conversation about everything from Rajgadh and Baba track.
This leads to the main problem with mishbir is the lack of clear communication. It feels so odd to be saying that open communication is the issue with mishbir - whose unique stand-out from other tv couples was the fact that they used to share every single thing with each other. Disappointment from ITV
** That is why the no.1 culprit here is the writers/makers: they have simply created small loopholes in the storyline to help build a separation track that didn't add up/match with the characters they created in the first 80 episodes or so. Simply for the initiation of ITV drama and extend the show's life, they had to somehow twist the characters to insert a break-up that was inevitable for lead couple
.
Yes, both characters mishbir are truly inspirational with their own flaws; those childhood flaws could have been tastefully addressed without a massive, heartbreaking separation
. Instead the writers irrationally began mis-communication and hiding truths as the basis for mishbir problems
Bottom line: WAIT for the episode to turn up. Wait to see how the writers and makers mould the character's action and reactions.
The spoiler segments are always high with drama and aim to get get reactions from the audience for publicity.
We must learn from our show and their characters - impulsive reactions and actions NEVER result in positive outcome
Don't overthink too much from the spoilers, just let the story play out in the episodes.
xx sorry I really tried to make this concise. But us fans are so invested in this show and characters that we can't help pouring our emotions out
I agree Nandu......👍🏼 Said kind of the same thing above....
BOTTOM LINE IS
WHY BLAME THE CHARACTERS?? BLAME THE WRITERS!!!!🤔