Originally posted by: TC_FA
Okay as asked , I'm also posting it here 😆
It's completely my pov 
First of all,I don't think that himanshi is serious about that 9 years relationship. Her mother has said that both the families know each from a very long time. So it could also be an arrange affair. Both could be friends too. So maybe parents have decided dosti ko rishtedaari mein badalne ka.
And when himanshi came to BB house,she might came with the agenda to pretend to be engaged because she didn't want to showmance. And we have seen that she literally gave no bhaav to Asim in the beginning. But slowly and steadily Asim started affecting her. He took care of her 24x7. Jo bhi woh kehti thi Asim wahi karta tha and maybe it did happen with her for the first time that someone was doing so much for her , Shayad kabhi chaw ne bhi aisa na Kiya ho.
Aur ek ladki ko Kya chahiye - love,respect,care and attention that Asim gave her. So its natural that anybody could have start feeling for a person jiski har baat usi se shuru ho rahi hai aur usi par khatam.
Another thing could also be that things between chaw and her were not working properly but she didn't break that relation. As chaw is living in Canada,they can't meet on regular basis. So again it's obvious, that she didn't get that type of care and attention she needed.
And now in her interviews,she has said that she isn't officially engaged which also proves my point that it could be an arrange affair. Sometimes hum family friends ke saath time spend karte Hain,toh parents think that it's better for their children to settle down with each other.
But suddenly you find a guy,who is doing everything you want,who is making you feel special and it's happening with you for the first time. So I think Himanshi is feeling the same way.
Also her manager has said that she isn't going to marry for 5-6 years. Utne time mein apna Banda bhi financially stable ho hi jaayega 
Rest it's himanshi's life,she has to take the decision. Log toh bolte rahenge kyunki unka kaam hai bolna.
Also this situation reminds of that serial silsila badalte rishton ka part-2 