Sid - Failing but not giving up - Page 3

'Cannot control his temper...vulnerable hai..'.

Uske negative point ko positive ki tarah mat pesh karo,, It's the same enabling attitude for abusers we have - generally as a society too.

'Boys will be boys' kind.

Koi dhood ka dhula nahi hai yahan but Shukla's aggression, mocking, never listening - and his way is childish, school bully like - keep talking over loudly and kissi ki suno hi nahi! That seriously frustrates me as a fan/viewer.

I want a more balanced and sane attitude in my BB winner.

Personally, he was my number 1 HM till he betrayed me (a fan) by going over to the Pappu camp. I gave up on him that day! Clean break!

To win -

He should show his capacity to listen,

Respect opposing view (others can be right too, you know),

Lead positively and stand up for long time friends like Arti and not enable Pappu and co's mean attacks.

Lessen the taunts,

Choose friends who reflect him and not hateful ppl OR go alone - he has the capacity - mental and as a popular celeb.

To APOLOGISE, when wrong!

And, of course, decrease aggression!

And maybe the fans he has lost - like me and I see so many others on this forum - will come back.

As SidHearts we shall never give up on him because he hasn't.

Sid is the only one inside the house despite being targeted every single week by the pack of wolves who come to target him in jhund have never once played sympathy card or cried or asked to quit. NOT ONCE.

Despite having fever, on antibiotics/saline that man was performing the task. & brutal BB didn't even spare a sick man for TRP.. & thew him in a physical task.

I know he needs to work a lot on his anger issues, i hope he does. Sid's current competition is now with himself. If he redeems himself.. he'll be a force to be reckoned with which he's.

Originally posted by: viknandera

Yaar woh sab theek h

But aggression me kisi ko serious injured na Kar de, because physically he is strong

So he need to channel his aggression in the right direction

Sid ko aise hi blame kiya jaa tha hai..

recent task .. Sid ne nahi khela.. beemar tha..anda wala task..

BB ne task shuru hothe hi..BB cancel kar diya task ko..

2 fracture..6 x ray...ye ghar walo ka aggression hai.. Sid ka nahi..... think abt this..

Sid ek bali ka bakra hai .. jo audience aur ghar wale use kar rahe hai bas..

Originally posted by: jyoti06

The only reason i like him despite all his agression is because not once he shed any crocodile tears or complained Big boss that he wants to quit like other contestants do at the drop of a hat ..He is suffering fm typhoid which salman too confirmed yet he never complained and was keen to do the tasks which i feel is commendable ..

It was other contestants who made him the captain unanimously and thats why as captain he was given max rights to nominate..So how is it a bias..Instead it was a direct hint to other housemates that u dint fight enough fr captaincy , so bear the consequences now..

To b honest i dont trust aarti either bec she too has bitched about sid behind his back in last to last week when he dint save her fr nominations ..She qas back with sid only after last nominations when he saved her over paras ..

Currently i see only sana on his side without any motive..Even mahira fr that matter ..

Remove Sid fm house and then the no contestant will hv any mudda to fight fr ..

Very well said. I've said the same thing.

These people come in jhund to pick fights with him, because they know once he's triggered he loses his cool & gets hyper.. & visually comes across as wrong, even if he's right logically. But generally visuals overpower logical reasons, as people remember who's visually more wrong.

If Sid works on himself & tones down his anger issues & stop getting riled up on what people says, there's still no competition for him.. he's 10 times ahead of others. I really hope he realizes so & fixes where he goes wrong.

Sid’s journey in bb is like a movie:

All characters n hero is introduced..every thing goes well, friends and game is good..people happy..then just before interval friends stabs from behind and everyone targets him..hero is hurt n low in energy..others celebrate yay we did it..but people forget hurt lion is very dangerous n when he bounces back..there’s no stopping..just my POV

It is my point of view the problem asim had with sid was hypocrisy if your tell your friend do not talk to xyz and after one month you yourself starts talking to xyz you will look through whole hyprocrisy i always knew asim and sid never had genuine friendship when they both had shared duties asim used to do all the work on the other hand sid never did his personal work too and as a contestant point of view they don't like favouritism tell me which of the captain got right to nominate people as sid has gotten right to nominate people and select from two people devo got evicted due to her back injury and for paras as now he is in sid team got to go for his finger surgery and they opened voting line to evict himanshi and regarding the fight sid told asim iss kutte ke bache ko bol then asim got aggressive there is a way of talking to people if you disrespect people which he always does people are not going to sit he has always instigated and disrespect people yesterday weekend ka vaar even salman did his epic beizzati by not giving him importance it has been showed sid is being targeted but its other way around he and his partner in crime mock people ,make fun of them and then they blame others for standing up for themselves.

Originally posted by: S2590

It is my point of view the problem asim had with sid was hypocrisy if your tell your friend do not talk to xyz and after one month you yourself starts talking to xyz you will look through whole hyprocrisy i always knew asim and sid never had genuine friendship when they both had shared duties asim used to do all the work on the other hand sid never did his personal work too and as a contestant point of view they don't like favouritism tell me which of the captain got right to nominate people as sid has gotten right to nominate people and select from two people devo got evicted due to her back injury and for paras as now he is in sid team got to go for his finger surgery and they opened voting line to evict himanshi and regarding the fight sid told asim iss kutte ke bache ko bol then asim got aggressive there is a way of talking to people if you disrespect people which he always does people are not going to sit he has always instigated and disrespect people yesterday weekend ka vaar even salman did his epic beizzati by not giving him importance it has been showed sid is being targeted but its other way around he and his partner in crime mock people ,make fun of them and then they blame others for standing up for themselves.

Sid got the power because he was unanimously chosen as the captain. & in previous seasons, many contestants have been given such power to nominate anyone they like (eg, Surbhi & Sreesanth from BB12 etc).

& BB saving Paras unfairly isn't Sid's fault. BB wanted to save Paras because he isn't getting votes but giving max content, hence they did it. You can blame BB for it, not Sid.

BB's main goal currently is to get rid of the freeloaders one by one, Himanshi was BB's first target. Next will likely be Aarti & Madhurima. BB always does such manipulation to get rid of freeloaders, which is again not a first on BB. They do it to save the content providers.

Originally posted by: Oye_Chup_Kar

Very well said. I've said the same thing.

These people come in jhund to pick fights with him, because they know once he's triggered he loses his cool & gets hyper.. & visually comes across as wrong, even if he's right logically. But generally visuals overpower logical reasons, as people remember who's visually more wrong.

If Sid works on himself & tones down his anger issues & stop getting riled up on what people says, there's still no competition for him.. he's 10 times ahead of others. I really hope he realizes so & fixes where he goes wrong.

Actually its easier said than done ..imagine a guy suffering fm typhoid is asked to do a task on someone else's behalf and then everyone gangs up on him during the task ...its quite a difficult scenario fr him ..first asim betrayed him and then bhau and vishal went against him who he saved fm nominations or else bhau might hv been out today.. so its also very hurtful in a way ..

Today in Dabang task he puts the chashma on himself and says he was betrayed by those fr whom he took stand ..so fine fm now he will stop doing that ..indirectly he said no footage fr anyone anymore 😆..lets see how all play the game now 😆

Originally posted by: intruderfast

A person is not a failure when he fails but he is a failure when he gives up. Sid hasn't given up so haven't we Sid fans .

Two imp incidents . Sid was becoming a darling of the house . Remember the disco night when he dances with all the ladies. . Next day what happened . The stupid fight of oranges and apples . And then the tide turned. Kisne kiya Asim ne. Yes and then sid lost it.

Then sid became unanimous captain of the house. Some voted cos they wanted. Some cos of guilt . Some had no option. Everything in captaincy was going smoothly. But vishal had some angst .Rash kaa to everyone knows. Then sid team wins the luxury task. Then hoti hai planned chori again . And the tide turns again.

Both the times he was betrayed by ppl who he regarded very high. One can clearly see the jealousy of many HM's when Sid is happy, popular and in a jovial mood. Wo chahiye kisko. The convo between vishal and asim after sid became captain was starkling. It gave away so much.

Sid cannot control his temper. And HM knows it. Asim has exposed sid during their fight how vulnerable he is. Peeche se they plan slyly kaise fight karni hai. I saw one clip where arhaan asim are strategizing how to fight sid.

Sid despite being smart has fallen into this viscious cycle . Salman corrects him, gives him hints and he falters again. His single big weakness is turning into a nightmare for him . Old friends now target him . Enemies turned friends he still cant trust fully. Only sana and aarti right now he can trust.

But.... despite that he hasn't given up. And so still we have not. I know for sure his aggression will not go overnight. He will still have his moment of weakness . But I am glad he despite being going through in these tough times ,he still has will to fight. He hasn't yest chillao on bigg boss that I want to quit like other losers. He is ready for whatever challenge is thrown . No complaints yet.. So yes other HM's have defeated him may times mentally . But his spirit is still intact.

Change esp a personality change is very slow gradual process . It requires effort each day. Fail fail fail again and succeed. Yes he is failing these days more . But the process is still going on.

I am sure he will bounce back very strongly. One of the best contestants hands down till yet for me. His journey has been so exciting and entertaining. Waiting for the next chapters . the road is long ahead . As long as sid has faith in himself ,I have faith in him. That he will change things around.

He has turned tide against him before also. But he couldn't maintain it last time. This time hopefully it will be different

P..S- Jisko ab mock ,troll karna hai karo. I am ready for it.😎. But will forever remain positive

Leaving with some inspirational songs to lift your mood sidhearts.🥳

https://youtu.be/9iIX4PBplAY

https://youtu.be/yXpbI1F2yoc

https://youtu.be/kd-6aw99DpA

People didn't have problems with his aggression and anger management issues though that made it difficult to live with him.

He never wanted friends he only wanted minions around him.If Asim told him to treat him with the respect a friend he kicked him out.When Salman praised Asim he went and hugged him because he wanted to look good.

He had problems with Asim if he spent time with people like Himanshi and now Rashmi but he expects Asim to accept his newborn friendship with Paras.

Today he is friendless because of his own ego and self centrednes

His friendship with Sana I guess it is their obnoxiousness that keeps them together along with his need for companion under blanket and her need to stay in the game