Let's talk about Kabir-Nisha

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Let's talk about Kabir-Nisha for a moment. Kabir suggestion of abortion... Is it right? Yes, he feels he isn't able enough currently to take responsibility of a child. I get that. But he doesn't have the right to take this decision alone. Nisha can neither feel happy or sad here.

Kabir had already mentioned before that he doesn't want a child. Nisha should have been aware of that before marriage? If Kabir hadn't told her that, then he has betrayed her. They both love each other, no doubt. But what does he expect of Nisha?

I think Kabir is using his investment loss as an excuse. He never wants a child because of his childhood.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Agree ....

He is just using financial loss as an excuse... If he didn't want to have a child then why get married..?? He should have stay bachelor for his whole life... Didn't he thought that his wife would want to have children after some point of marriage.... Getting a abortion appointment without talking first with his wife....... I wish she had talk about this with kusum yesterday..

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Agree with the points you mentioned.

Kabir doesn’t wanna have child because he has fear that he will become like his father or because of his childhood he doesn’t want to take responsibility of a child.

But by doing this he is becoming like his father. True if he doesn’t want to have a child then why He married Nisha?

As we know by the story that kabir and nisha always have arguments and it irks kabir when nisha talks about having a child.

Someone has to put sense in his brain that he is not kailash. He is kabir. So he won’t end up like his father as he has Srivastavas upbringing.

He has this financial situation as an excuse right now. But what’s nisha’s fault in this? Why to blame her that she is responsible for that? And he took an appointment for abortion that too without asking her permissions.

By doing all this he is showing his father’s traits like foolish financial decisions, turning to alcohol, running from the responsibility, blaming his wife for everything, his behavior towards her and now an abortion appointment without taking her permissions or even without even asking her.

I wish nisha opens up to someone about what’s going on. As its high time now.

Or may be someone from the family or Pari will definitely come to know about it and will notify Yogi. Or Pakya comes to know when he is in the hospital. N more drama ahead in the family.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: dusk2dawn

Agree with the points you mentioned.

Kabir doesn’t wanna have child because he has fear that he will become like his father or because of his childhood he doesn’t want to take responsibility of a child.

But by doing this he is becoming like his father. True if he doesn’t want to have a child then why He married Nisha?

As we know by the story that kabir and nisha always have arguments and it irks kabir when nisha talks about having a child.

Someone has to put sense in his brain that he is not kailash. He is kabir. So he won’t end up like his father as he has Srivastavas upbringing.

He has this financial situation as an excuse right now. But what’s nisha’s fault in this? Why to blame her that she is responsible for that? And he took an appointment for abortion that too without asking her permissions.

By doing all this he is showing his father’s traits like foolish financial decisions, turning to alcohol, running from the responsibility, blaming his wife for everything, his behavior towards her and now an abortion appointment without taking her permissions or even without even asking her.

I wish nisha opens up to someone about what’s going on. As its high time now.

Or may be someone from the family or Pari will definitely come to know about it and will notify Yogi. Or Pakya comes to know when he is in the hospital. N more drama ahead in the family.

@ bold true...... By behaving like this he is showing his father traits....

What wrong with nisha... Why the hell she didn't talk about it with kusum yesterday.... By not talking about it just going to make it so difficult..why wait for last moment.. It's not her talk is going to change his mind...

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gaurirane366

@ bold true...... By behaving like this he is showing his father traits....

What wrong with nisha... Why the hell she didn't talk about it with kusum yesterday.... By not talking about it just going to make it so difficult..why wait for last moment.. It's not her talk is going to change his mind...

True at least one of them must talk about the issues.

Just like we have got proper track for Rani during the wedding drama. We all want a proper sensible track here too. N definitely Yogi is going to play an important part in this mess. Cz my guess is Pari comes to know about Kabir-Nisha going for abortion or whatever. N she will notify Yogi about it. N thus whole family will come to know and some more drama ahead.

I have seen people like kabir who doesn’t want to take responsibility of a child and what their wives have to go through. As everyone is going to blame the wife. Not the husband who is running from the responsibility.😡

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Originally posted by: dusk2dawn

True at least one of them must talk about the issues.

Just like we have got proper track for Rani during the wedding drama. We all want a proper sensible track here too. N definitely Yogi is going to play a important part in this mess. Cz my guess is Pari comes to know about Kabir-Nisha going for abortion or whatever. N she will notify Yogi about it. N thus whole family will come to know and some more drama ahead.

I have seen people like kabir who doesn’t want to take responsibility of a child and what their wives have to go through. As everyone is going to blame the wife. Not the husband who is running from the responsibility.😡

true......regarding pari i just want her to inform this to yogi nothing more.. I don't want her to get involve in this more than that.... In generally I had seen Kabir talking with pari rudely sometimes.. If she get too much involve Kabir is not going to keep quiet he will say something bad...

I just feel so sad people like kabir are there In real world... Society, family members are ready to blame the women..... At least nisha as her in laws support...

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gaurirane366

true......regarding pari i just want her to inform this to yogi nothing more.. I don't want her to get involve in this more than that.... In generally I had seen Kabir talking with pari rudely sometimes.. If she get too much involve Kabir is not going to keep quiet he will say something bad...

I just feel so sad people like kabir are there In real world... Society, family members are ready to blame the women..... At least nisha as her in laws support...

Same here I don’t want Pari’s involvement here. I want her just as a messenger. Like she notified Yogi. Thats it. I don’t want kabir to hurt her by his rude behavior.

So no more involvement of Pari until all family accept YaRi.

@ bold true nisha has whole family’s support so after some drama all things will get sorted.

Pakya and dadaji will take kabir’s class. N hope someone put some sense in his brain that he is not kailash. He is kabir pakya and Kusum’s son. things happen in life , move on. And don’t run from responsibilities. We all will share it equally.

True yaar there are people like kabir in our society and I have seen people like that. Sometimes I do feel that indian society is so biased when supporting women. Not all but some with the rigid mentality. Plus today’s saas bahu craps making it more worse and degrading.😡

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: dusk2dawn

Same here I don’t want Pari’s involvement here. I want her just as a messenger. Like she notified Yogi. Thats it. I don’t want kabir to hurt her by his rude behavior.

So no more involvement of Pari until all family accept YaRi.

@ bold true nisha has whole family’s support so after some drama all things will get sorted.

Pakya and dadaji will take kabir’s class. N hope someone put some sense in his brain that he is not kailash. He is kabir pakya and Kusum’s son. things happen in life , move on. And don’t run from responsibilities. We all will share it equally.

True yaar there are people like kabir in our society and I have seen people like that. Sometimes I do feel that indian society is so biased when supporting women. Not all but some with the rigid mentality. Plus today’s saas bahu craps making it more worse and degrading.😡

true no more involvement of pari until all family accept her...

Pakya, kusum, dadaji all three need to talk class of him and make him realise...

I don't want that typical itv twist.. When the wife has accident and doc say she and child both are in danger.. And then husband realize it... I know it's too flimy 😅

True.. Not everyone but some people are so biased when supporting women....my cousin sis was talking about her friends experience with us...


Tv and film content create great impact on people......this saas bahu drama bring more trp so many writers write such track in every show...MIL or hero emotional or sometimes physical torturing herione. .. Herione crying, suffering and then people sympathize with herione ...

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gaurirane366

true no more involvement of pari until all family accept her...

Pakya, kusum, dadaji all three need to talk class of him and make him realise...

I don't want that typical itv twist.. When the wife has accident and doc say she and child both are in danger.. And then husband realize it... I know it's too flimy 😅

True.. Not everyone but some people are so biased when supporting women....my cousin sis was talking about her friends experience with us...


Tv and film content create great impact on people......this saas bahu drama bring more trp so many writers write such track in every show...MIL or hero emotional or sometimes physical torturing herione. .. Herione crying, suffering and then people sympathize with herione ...

True. Yaar . Not all but some people are. N we all have these kind of stories going around us .

N I am glad that makers of IIM has touched the right chords with showing all the social issues and bring it forward. Whether disability, socio- economic class difference, child abuse, society issues, Doctor’s strikes, Ponzi scams n now this Kabir-Nisha track issue of Running from responsibility.

n I love it that IIM different than other crap going on. Mahaan ML n FL. Abusive in laws , domestic violence. All the animals coming on tv now a days with CGI crap. 😡

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: dusk2dawn

True. Yaar . Not all but some people are. N we all have these kind of stories going around us .

N I am glad that makers of IIM has touched the right chords with showing all the social issues and bring it forward. Whether disability, socio- economic class difference, child abuse, society issues, Doctor’s strikes, Ponzi scams n now this Kabir-Nisha track issue of Running from responsibility.

n I love it that IIM different than other crap going on. Mahaan ML n FL. Abusive in laws , domestic violence. All the animals coming on tv now a days with CGI crap. 😡

true... We are lucky I guess... IIM are giving right message by touching right chords.. Nothing ott...

One more thing I like about this show is costumes.. A 21century wears 😅

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