I must say SurBab perform miracles, enlightening Yogi with love advice as though they are love gurus with years of experience. 🤣
Anyway jokes aside, I have realised how adamant Yogi can be. It took three efforts from SurBab to make him think properly. Funnily enough, the advice given in all three efforts were the same. To me it seemed SurBabs' advice went through one ear and out the other with the first two efforts. Now clearly they got Yogi thinking with the final attempt in the shop as next week is the new beginning. Though what has Yogi learnt:
1. Pari loves him and his imperfections.
2. She wants him not any other 'better guy'.
3. She understands him
4. Its her choice to leave and she is leaving because of him avoiding her.
5. He realises his defense mechanism of avoiding and pushing her away has done more harm then good.
Now the last two points are what has woken up Yogi. SurBab told Yogi that Pari is leaving because of him as he is pushing her away and avoiding her. This was his realisation that he needs to act quick because he is driving her away.
We also saw Yogi thinking several memories of Pari. I don't think he knows he is in love yet as after Pakya (as we are all calling him now lol) asked him the out of nowhere question about if he is in love. He was confused and for the first time he was thinking about his own feelings and not Pari's like he has been doing this entire week.
Next week Monday should begin with Yogi acknowledging his deep burrowed feelings for Pari and then he proposes with that same ring from before. Yes the same ring Pari wore by accident. The ring no longer symbolises YoGuns' love like Yogi said, but it will symbolise a new beginning for Yari. Just note that Proposal may not even be on on Monday but later into that week. The wait!!
So Yogi is now in a position where he has learnt, Pari loves him and his imperfections, she wants to be with him not any other 'better guy', she understands him completely, she chose to leave and she is leaving because of him avoiding her and his defense mechanism of avoiding and pushing her away has done more harm then good. I do feel he has moved away from being insecure.
Now for whats left for Yogi to be his old self, he needs acknowledge his feelings, face his fear of love by also plucking the courage to confess to Pari. When he does so the old Yogi will be back, no longer ashamed of his disability but accepting it as part of him. He won't fear love, his confidence will be great and his insecurity will belong to the past. Just watch how Yogi will be all smiles!
Hopefully this is my last analysis of this, next week better be YaRi patching up quick. No more drama. I'm tired of writing report after report.
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