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I wanted to say one more thing.....

I think in social media sites many may have seen a forward

After break up phase..

A boy moves on... Smiles a is normal immediately after breakup

Where as a girl cries her heart out

A few days the boy starts missing the girl...n gets little upset thinking about her

The girl tries to slowly move on

After few more days the boy starts really missing the girl.... Prefers to be alone n cries.. Is kinda broken

The girl is normal n with her friends/ family n has got some smile back... She kinda moved on.. Her crying phase is over...

Where are the boys crying phase starts

Something like this may be happening here....

Abhir will hold himself...... Hold till a breaking point comes.....n the breaking point comes when he sees Mishti smiling back with Nanu....

He'll be Jelous but not overly possessive.. those trigger will need needed for him to understand that wishing Mishti to move on in yourb heart is different then actually seeing it.....

Same with Mishti...... She'll have to rekindle the love for him....n this time protect that light from every darkness

Originally posted by: Onyourface

I am yet to see today's episode... so no idea why you wrote this .. sorry dear ... I thought it is in connection with yesterday's post 😳

Nannu is mahs ghar ka ladka ... voh acha nahi hoga toh bhi uski tareef toh karenge ghar vale...jaise kuhu ki karte hain 😆

Regarding abir ... it hurts idhar 💔 Pe ... isse zyada kuch bolungi nahi

Thanks :) 🤗🤗

I am not sure which post from yesterday you are referring to. I don't think we had actively discussed Nannu yesterday, but I could be wrong.

The episode got to me and I am a bit emotional right now, so I am going to take a little break. But I am sorry if I made you feel I was hinting at you as that was certainly not the case, in fact it didn't even cross my mind that you might think it was for you, otherwise I would not have written it in the first place. I was feeling emotional about Abir's new reality and I penned it down - that's about it. But I would sincerely request that we keep the actor separate from the character, otherwise I feel afraid to say anything about the character as I definitely don't want to end up hurting anyone.

Much love 🤗

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Pali.... Abhir hasn't lost his dignity Yaara😊...

Ok let me share my view..

1. I think just like there was a reason why mishti could never tell Abhir about her adventures with baba.... Here too I think there may be some reason why they are not showing Abhir completely breaking down.....

They are showing that he's holding pretty well till now..n for the next couple of months.... But the moment he realises Mishti had moved on... Or tried to move on he'll have some self talk n breakdown for sure...I know our MishBir love is pure n different n this will be very cliched rout where a third angle is needed for realisation... But can't debate that they are humans after all n humans can err .. Make mistakes n learn.....

Right now he did all stupid things to make Mishti go away.. Why will he crib or be sad in front of his family when he's done it for them..n also I think the CVS wanted to genuinely show Abhir sticking firm to his decision. So no monologue or breakdown was shown....

I think they dint wanted over drama....n Abhirs main breaking point was at the temple n at the construction site.... That did show he broke n came back to execute his action..n after that he's trying to be normal with family with his broken heart...

I've vented enough on Abhir last week..n in no way my anger had subsided... Also no way I'm justifying the writers for not showing Abhirs breakdown after breakup properly...

It's just that my be it'll come out after he deeply realises what he's done once he sees Mishti with Nanu......

2. Nanu is coming as a friend to be with Mishti at her tough time.... But who knows.. It may be Mishtis plan at the end to make Abhir speak by hook or crook..... She may give Abhir some space but at same time will want to know the truth or will want to make him realise

She knows Abhir will not accept the problem.. So may be.. Just may be Mishti takes nannu help later to bring Abhir out Off his own lie......

Also I think Cvs were not wanting to drag the crying n seperation a lot... Friday's episode has beautifully shown how they broke up and how it broke them..... Now they show a few things after break up Howe both are with their families n what they'll do... Then comes the leap... Where things will change a lot.....

Sorry for the long post dear

Thanks cool! Let me gather my thoughts and come back to your post dear 🤗

Originally posted by: SheThought

pic credit: twitter

I don't care...

How caring he is,
How trusting he is,
How understanding he is,
How loving he is,
How good looking he is,
How sincere he is,
How successful he is,
How ideal he is for Mishti...

The fact is, Nannu is NOT Abir!

Let our man Abir live with some dignity post leap!

And let our Mishti not give up on Abir post leap!

Baaki, Nannu can come and go... I don't care!

superb superb... east or west abir is the best... he will always be our best ML... how much ever they show nannu as good is not gonna effect abirs character n the love we have for him... better they show some proper abirs pov after leap... i like both vatty n shaheer but its about abir whomever might've been in their place my fav will always be the character abir... hope they dont mess it up even more.. sorry yaar i'm ranting so much... my total excitement for leap is going down

congratulations for new AT dears 🤗🤗 thank you nami.. 🤗

let the new change bring a change in us too.. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Onyourface

I feel we will see abir's breakdown after leap ...dheere dheere in pieces

Yes guruji😊...

Even I have a feeling...

Like I've said with our amazing discussion n theories n symbolisms we've taken MishBir story to another level.. No doubt MishBir story has been very beautiful.. But at the end of the day

1. It's an ITV n dead Butter for many.... So the show needs something to move on

2. MishBir are humans after all..n humans learn from their mistakes...... So this is their learning phase..... Abhir will learn that he need not choose always.. But can fight for both Nano n Mishti equally..... Mishti will learn that no one person can be the reason of your smile or your pain.. She'll need to be a little more tougher n will need to know whom to trust....

See..I feel the third angle will need imp here.. Because the way Abhir broke up.. there are little chances of him even realising what he's done..... This will surely help Abhiiiirrrrrr to realise that no matter how much he pretends, how many faces he puts up... How many goggles he changes losing Mishti was the biggest loss n he will not be able to afford the loss

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Pali.... Abhir hasn't lost his dignity Yaara😊...

Ok let me share my view..

1. I think just like there was a reason why mishti could never tell Abhir about her adventures with baba.... Here too I think there may be some reason why they are not showing Abhir completely breaking down.....

They are showing that he's holding pretty well till now..n for the next couple of months.... But the moment he realises Mishti had moved on... Or tried to move on he'll have some self talk n breakdown for sure...I know our MishBir love is pure n different n this will be very cliched rout where a third angle is needed for realisation... But can't debate that they are humans after all n humans can err .. Make mistakes n learn.....

Right now he did all stupid things to make Mishti go away.. Why will he crib or be sad in front of his family when he's done it for them..n also I think the CVS wanted to genuinely show Abhir sticking firm to his decision. So no monologue or breakdown was shown....

I think they dint wanted over drama....n Abhirs main breaking point was at the temple n at the construction site.... That did show he broke n came back to execute his action..n after that he's trying to be normal with family with his broken heart...

I've vented enough on Abhir last week..n in no way my anger had subsided... Also no way I'm justifying the writers for not showing Abhirs breakdown after breakup properly...

It's just that my be it'll come out after he deeply realises what he's done once he sees Mishti with Nanu......

2. Nanu is coming as a friend to be with Mishti at her tough time.... But who knows.. It may be Mishtis plan at the end to make Abhir speak by hook or crook..... She may give Abhir some space but at same time will want to know the truth or will want to make him realise

She knows Abhir will not accept the problem.. So may be.. Just may be Mishti takes nannu help later to bring Abhir out Off his own lie......

Also I think Cvs were not wanting to drag the crying n seperation a lot... Friday's episode has beautifully shown how they broke up and how it broke them..... Now they show a few things after break up Howe both are with their families n what they'll do... Then comes the leap... Where things will change a lot.....

Sorry for the long post dear

thanks for the positive post cool... i dont know what to feel about leap anymore... and my fear of nannu entry is getting to me now... and also i've been cribbing about mish not believing what abir said n gives up only bcoz he is ready to give up on their love n today seeing her believing that abir was manipulated by meenu is getting to me too... suddenly i feel disconnected to the show... but i dont wanna leave too... i want the leap to come fast... i cant even think of skipping episode... i love both mishbir and seeing such silly plot just for the sake of leap is making me frustrated, emotional n what not.. sorry dear i'm on ranting mode today..

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Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

I wanted to say one more thing.....

I think in social media sites many may have seen a forward

After break up phase..

A boy moves on... Smiles a is normal immediately after breakup

Where as a girl cries her heart out

A few days the boy starts missing the girl...n gets little upset thinking about her

The girl tries to slowly move on

After few more days the boy starts really missing the girl.... Prefers to be alone n cries.. Is kinda broken

The girl is normal n with her friends/ family n has got some smile back... She kinda moved on.. Her crying phase is over...

Where are the boys crying phase starts

Something like this may be happening here....

Abhir will hold himself...... Hold till a breaking point comes.....n the breaking point comes when he sees Mishti smiling back with Nanu....

He'll be Jelous but not overly possessive.. those trigger will need needed for him to understand that wishing Mishti to move on in yourb heart is different then actually seeing it.....

Same with Mishti...... She'll have to rekindle the love for him....n this time protect that light from every darkness

hey this i've seen many youtube videos n some animated sns posts too... this actually makes sense anu... 🤗

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

superb superb... east or west abir is the best... he will always be our best ML... how much ever they show nannu as good is not gonna effect abirs character n the love we have for him... better they show some proper abirs pov after leap... i like both vatty n shaheer but its about abir whomever might've been in their place my fav will always be the character abir... hope they dont mess it up even more.. sorry yaar i'm ranting so much... my total excitement for leap is going down

Meri light🤗🤗🤗....*runs to hug*

I think my fear n venting last week has helped me be cool right now😆

See.. After what happens we cannot effect Abhir to be all smiles..... All the time like before.. He'll have that guilt if not anything.. He still has that love deep for her.. But there will be changes in him.. For sure

Difficult to say... But I have a feeling that his love for Mishti may make him take some impulsive decisions when he sees her with Nanu.. Just as Mishti may have thinking that he's marrying someone else......

So some extremes will be needed for MishBir to get back... This will in no way prove that their love was week or anything..... Sometimes we just need a push, a nudge to strive for things we want.....n MishBir ka changed attitude will trigger that push...... Without charge is tough to happen.......

That does not mean about will go shady or his character traits will change.. But few things will change n let's be prepared to see it....

But our main MishBir will also be the same.. Equally trusting equally deep in love.. Though Mishti will be shown smiling.... Her love for Abhir will remain the same....n That to will need a nudge na