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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: inlieu

Ego takes over so the concern for HS doesn't even come into the picture. They have sidelined his happiness from day 1.

well mini did try before going asking her babes to give her a parting hug once, asking her to speak to her once. And the letter she left for babes it was full of love for her. which mother would still be in ego and not try to reconcile with mini even after reading the letter. I think babita dint want to try. Mini door chali gai to gayi she dint even try to keep a connect with her over the phone or by video chats i think. And mini must have lived under the assumption that babes is still angry with me

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: naq5

well mini did try before going asking her babes to give her a parting hug once, asking her to speak to her once. And the letter she left for babes it was full of love for her. which mother would still be in ego and not try to reconcile with mini even after reading the letter. I think babita dint want to try. Mini door chali gai to gayi she dint even try to keep a connect with her over the phone or by video chats i think. And mini must have lived under the assumption that babes is still angry with me

In their situation, I feel like it was on Babita to reach out to Minnie and make things right. What's the point of talking about Minnie all the time when she can't even be bothered to speak to her in person? For the first few days or weeks, chalo maan liya ki Babita abhi bhi ghussa hai. But years? Miss call maar ke utha sakti hai lekin baat ni kar sakti?

Minnie mentioned ki when she came home, mushkil se Babita se baat hoti thi. So was Babita just ignoring her again?

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I don't know if I mentioned this but Hanita at least got five years of happiness. But Minnie? She spent those years isolated and alone. She could have been an integral part of it but she wasn't. Whenever she felt extremely low, she at least knew that she could go to HS and cry her heart out. That was a viable option for her whether or not she took it. Door se hi sahi but Babita ki khabar aati hogi usse. But ab toh kuch bhi ni raha. Na HS ke wise words, Babita ka pyaar, kuch ni. Sirf yaadein hai jo abhi bohot takleef deri hogi isse. 😭

i think this is what has made her so resentful towards everyone. Everyone moved on & found some happiness and togetherness but she spent all of it alone, handled herself alone, because everyone thought she was brave enough to handle it so they left it to her. Her disconnect with arya comes out of this. She really dosent want to connect & feels the inability to love anyone anymore. IDK she seems distant with daadu beeji also to me. mini was very loving before that quality has been taken out of her now

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

In their situation, I feel like it was on Babita to reach out to Minnie and make things right. What's the point of talking about Minnie all the time when she can't even be bothered to speak to her in person? For the first few days or weeks, chalo maan liya ki Babita abhi bhi ghussa hai. But years? Miss call maar ke utha sakti hai lekin baat ni kar sakti?

Minnie mentioned ki when she came home, mushkil se Babita se baat hoti thi. So was Babita just ignoring her again?

i agree because mini reached out finally with the letter. IDK if she could have done more than that with her leaving so dejectedly. she said everything she could even told babes would be her only mother always. even after that babita dint decide to take a step towards mini then it was entirely upon her
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: naq5

i think this is what has made her so resentful towards everyone. Everyone moved on & found some happiness and togetherness but she spent all of it alone, handled herself alone, because everyone thought she was brave enough to handle it so they left it to her. Her disconnect with arya comes out of this. She really dosent want to connect & feels the inability to love anyone anymore. IDK she seems distant with daadu beeji also to me. mini was very loving before that quality has been taken out of her now

Yeahh, she had even told Jas that no one will be waiting for her. Don't know what she was expecting, but everyone have their own lives to live. They have to find happiness in some shape or form to keep on living, otherwise bohot buri halat ho jaati hai.

I think she's been living on escape mode for the past five years. Physically obviously, but mostly emotionally. If we compare the first episodes for each season, S1 Minnie had so much life, hope and love inside of her. Love for her Babes, love for life itself, the desire and ambition to go out and reach the skies. In S2, it was all gone. There was no hope, the love for Babes was heavily masked with bitter pain, she has reached the skies but there's no peace or happiness.

She's like that kite that has drifted off too far away. She needs someone to ground her again. HS ne toh bohot koshish ki lekin ab toh woh bhi ni raha. Shayad Arya kuch kar paye.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Lekin Babita called Mini everyday to wake her up but they didn’t talk? Why? It makes no sense. Kabhi toh baat hoti hogi na? Kuch toh baat hogi? When Mini got that call from Babes, she was like “babes haan bol”. It seemed like a casual way to respond, like with someone who you talk to everyday. There is a major disconnect in what they are showing. Also, Babes called Mini right back, if she was so mad at Mini why would she call her back?

Mini came 2 years later and they are telling us Babes and Mini barely talked? That makes no sense whatsoever.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Yeahh, she had even told Jas that no one will be waiting for her. Don't know what she was expecting, but everyone have their own lives to live. They have to find happiness in some shape or form to keep on living, otherwise bohot buri halat ho jaati hai.

I think she's been living on escape mode for the past five years. Physically obviously, but mostly emotionally. If we compare the first episodes for each season, S1 Minnie had so much life, hope and love inside of her. Love for her Babes, love for life itself, the desire and ambition to go out and reach the skies. In S2, it was all gone. There was no hope, the love for Babes was heavily masked with bitter pain, she has reached the skies but there's no peace or happiness.

She's like that kite that has drifted off too far away. She needs someone to ground her again. HS ne toh bohot koshish ki lekin ab toh woh bhi ni raha. Shayad Arya kuch kar paye.

i think the way she left left an impact on her. Babes dint even look at her and HS decided to go and be with babita on the balcony instead of at least coming outside to drop her. they did have an interaction where they did the smile gesture and mini would have felt that atleast hanuman uncle is interacting with me and wishes good for me but it still left her wanting. She wanted him to come and drop her off atleast the day before. though mini does understand why HS was on the balcony with babita and why he dint come to drop her off, she even understands that it means HS priority will be babita always. He will choose babita even if he dosent want to.

The thing is that HS babita had each other and others to move on and find happiness in some form but mini had no one. And these two dint actually put themselves in minis place and think what she was going through. even mini thought from babitas side that she would have thought of her everyday and be troubled with that. But no one thought how mini was feeling. It was all about their family breaking & mini going away far for Both HS and babita. And HS feeble attempts of keeping mini involved dint really help with babita showing no interest in it.

Generally if a child drifts away at that age it is due to their childishness and teenage attitude and arrogance, but here minis case is different. Mini has drifted away due to hurt and pain due to her parents and them not really trying to reconcile with her.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

She already referred to him as her dad when she was crying to Jas in Friday's episode. She was telling her how her entire world has also been turned upside down. Even she has lost her mom and dad.

She called him her dad???? WHAT??? I gotta watch that. Ab kyun? Chidya to khet chug gayi.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

When did he change his watch? I don’t remember this.

You remember the mechanical one that Dadu gave him during the roka?

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: inlieu

She called him her dad???? WHAT??? I gotta watch that. Ab kyun? Chidya to khet chug gayi.

Yeahh, it was in a very casual manner too. I hope I'm not misremembering but I clearly remember her saying mama papa at some point. 🤔

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