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Originally posted by: Koms9

ben ba ko utha le, ya fir RV house pe hi bomb dal de. Don't want any RV housemate to ever raise their voice at mishti who has only helped those selfish folks

Originally posted by: Samyuktha123

Even then Pali, if Abir is with Nanko, I am sure he is going to handle it well. Why can't Abir tell Meenu that along with Kunal, he will also go out of the house and she will loose not one son but two sons. Kunal has loved Meenu dearly even after his marriage fiasco.

Can't Abir see Meenu is using Kunal and Parul and particularly Kunal after all these years of acting like loving him as her son.

Even Kuhu is illegitimate but the world has nothing to do with it if the family supports.

For me, this reason for breakup is so lame and selfish.

Yes, he could have.

But I guess ultimately Abir was put on spot and was asked to choose between Nanko and Mishti... and he got carried away with the new identity of his brother whom he treats like his son and chose Nanko. But I also feel that he knows what his mom is capable of, she would not let them live in peace even if he found other solutions...

Also, somewhere I think he also feels that he has more right on Mishti than anyone else, so he chose to hurt her instead of Nanko...

No matter how we try to justify it, this will become this one daag on Abir that he will not outlive! His mother played her game, and he chose to break Mishti's heart to protect his family. Period.

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

exactly i dont hate abir at all and totally understand him... come on guys Abir has always been soft when everyone cheated him, lied to him why being so harsh on him.. he always gets worst punishment without even his mistake like always please hate is a big word for him..

True diya...he was always soft on everyone...but now when he is being harsh...he is also suffering...he is not being separated from the girl he loves he is being separated from his soul....writers took this cliche route for their breakup and I'm not okay with that...I can feel for both Mish and Abir...from this,not only Mish is suffering Abir is also suffering..I'm reminding u all that...😕

Originally posted by: SheThought

Yes, he could have.

But I guess ultimately Abir was put on spot and was asked to choose between Nanko and Mishti... and he got carried away with the new identity of his brother who he treats like his son and chose Nanko. But I also feel that he knows what his mom is capable of, she would not let them live in peace even if he found other solutions...

Also, somewhere I think he also feels that he has more right on Mishti than anyone else, so he chose to hurt her instead of Nanko...

No matter how we try to justify it, this will become this one daag on Abir that he will not outlive! His mother played her game, and he chose to break Mishti's heart to protect his family. Period.

@ Bold - 👎🏼That too publicely and also privately with the worst words possible.Words could make or break a person!!! His words did break mishti in the worst way!!!

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

exactly kuch bhi chalega not this... mishti was dreaming about them sometime back n then this break the girl will be broken beyond repair...

i want BB to be left alone yaar whole family is selfish but this woman is 1000 times worse she needs to be kept away from everyone she is very toxic..

yaar parul has always been selfish last time too she let mishti do the haldi fiasco only after that she threatened bb with kunal truth...

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Well said ! Pali

@ Bold - 👎🏼That too publicely and also privately with the worst words possible.Words could make or break a person!!! His words did break mishti in the worst way!!!

I want to give Abir the benefit of the doubt with this one...

He basically wants to make it very clear to Mishti that there is absolutely no possibility of them ever getting back together. He does not want her to keep waiting for him... hence this out of character behavior and brutal breakup!

He is not in the right frame of mind to deal with this... he has to kill his own dreams too!

He has vocalized many times that Mishti is strong, he is going to think that this way she will be able to forget him and move on...

Their love was too perfect, so it hurts us even more! I hate to feel this sad for a fictional show... but my heart is aching and I can't help it...

Originally posted by: SheThought

Meenu really showed her real colors today! Abir was not ready to believe ... but Parul confirmed and told him how Benba took her in when Mehul was hiding from police, otherwise Kunal and her would have been on the road... Abir is heartbroken... BB emphasizes that Kunal is nazayaz since Mehul was already married to BB before Parul... although they were going back and forth regarding which wife came first. So I suspect there is a secret there too... maybe Parul never confirmed with BB when she actually got married to Mehul... BB doesn't do charity for free, so it is highly likely that BB marriage is invalid and Parul was married to Mehul before her! This is exactly the reason BB does not want Mishti to remain in Abir's life, She is afraid Mishti will learn sooner or later that she is the other wife and Abir is the najayaz one... she is trying to protect her dirty little secret!

Parul pleads with Abir to not let Kunal's truth out, Abir desperately agrees, but BB promises Abir that if he goes ahead with Mishti, she is not only going to reveal that Kunal is his sautela bhai but she is also going to throw him out of the house... BB may say she loves both the kids equally, but she loves her secret just a tad bit more!

Parul was begging and pleading with Abir... pairo main gir kar!

BB orders Abir to leave Mishti...

Mishti is beyond happy, thanking her stars... at Abir's house, admiring his room... hangs the crane dreamcatcher that she made with so much love and conviction... and is day dreaming about her beautiful life with Abir...

Abir goes to the temple... is praying with tears rolling down his eyes. He remembers his nanko and their bond and becomes extremely emotional... then remembers how Mishti was so hysterical before Ravan dahan when she thought Abir was going to breakup with her... and then immediately remembers their date the previous night when Mishti told him that even if does something wrong, she won't feel he is wrong because he is the man she loves... he feels helpless, falls on his knees...

Nanko comes there and Abir's emotions take over, unable to control his tears while tightly hugging Kunal, still trying to fathom the reality of their relation...

BB told him earlier that she never shared his fathers truth with him because she didn't want to break his heart... but that is exactly what she is doing now... breaking his heart into million pieces! Truly a despicable woman!!

And tomorrow... Abir is going to trample over Mishti's heart and their love and break both into million more pieces...

The episode and precap has filled me with extreme sadness... I feel for both Abir and Mishti! No one, No one has the right to ask someone to kill their dreams and keep living!! It's just inhumane...

Kya Huva Tera Vada

Woh Kasam Woh Irada...

💔

Originally posted by: The_incredible

His redemption will be much more intense..to be frank i didn't lose my trust on my Abir...because whatever he had taught me lies deep in my heart,no amount of overdose of drama by him can't shatter that...it's very strong....and I'm feeling very bad for Mish..uski koi galati bhi nahi di....phir bhi use yeh sab sehna pad raha hai ...but I don't know how I will be able to connect with Abir after leap....

I'm not even disappointed in Abir ...see he was weak..and we all know that he is always emotionally very weak....the truth of Kunal being illegitimate made him weak...plz forgive him guys...even if we forgive Mish won't forgive him..Mish is gonna hate him...💔💔💔💔💔💔

Originally posted by: Koms9

crying with every word of yours. I know the feeling of heartbreak and this feels so much more.

Sorry yaara! I feel the pain...

Meenakshi methodically killed Mishti and Abir's innocent dreams... we are allowed to feel hurt!

Originally posted by: Samyuktha123

They totally spoiled Abir's character. This Kunal's birth truth is such a lame reason for break up. Kunal is not 5 anymore and he has not done any wrong in this matter. If Abir is supportive, I am sure he will handle this well. But for this selfish reason breaking up with Mishti after giving so many promises😭

True this truth would have come out sooner or later. Atleast he could have been honest with mishti and told her everything and told her that temporarily they will breakup till he finds a way. Even that would be bad because BP wouldn't forgive him. But breaking up like this. They ruined Abir for me. Abir was not like this