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Originally posted by: deefy89

knowing how babitas character is i would say the only reason she wouldnt want to go would be because she never likes doing anything out of her comfort zone. it would explain why ashok initially blamed her for not joining him and wanting to be ideal daughter in law instead. maybe cos of servitude, she was liked by the in laws which fed her ego because its some sort of accomplishment for inlaws to like you?(just guessing here) but who really knows cos shes gone from blaming ashok to the in laws to even mini as to why her life turned out how it did. shes an enigma 🤓😕

it would have definitely been humiliating for nb. she was effectively just used. used for support/money/friendship pre wedding then used at the shop post wedding. babita could have even given her first refusal when deciding to sell the shop but she didnt.

i noticed something about fridays episode, even after babita said all the harsh things to mini and hs made her see what mini was going through, everything that came out of her mouth was all me me me. guess shes not that different to the khuranas in the end.even her reasons for wanting mini to stay are relating to HER

@bold, this is the saddest bit. She clearly doesn't value Minnie as much as she's been made out to. Minnie lost everything.

It's not HS who came between mother-daughter but Babita who came between father-daughter. I can't forget or forgive her for that. There's no redemption for Babita, the writers made sure of that.

Originally posted by: inlieu

It's interesting that she does all this while he's not around. She's turning out to be those kinds of women we don't want to see on ITV.

Why did they have to stretch it like this?!

And then when he comes back, she doesn't even bother to tell him the full truths. They're all halves' manipulated to generate the most sympathy for her. Even today, kaise aaram se khaana paros diya without even letting him know the awful thing she said to both Mickey and NB.

Originally posted by: naq5

I kept telling I was very disappointed with the way babita behaved with NB regarding the shop . It was as if she had no respect for NB. Even HS dint see NB alone handling the shop. Ek din chachi aayi to he wanted babita to do her seva but NB toiled everyday alone. couldn't he see that and instruct babita to go and help her. Every one takes NB for granted even HS. Woh to free me milti hai na. She Is selfless . She has been a mother to HS all along yet woh usko puri tarh se maa ka darja nahi de paya. If it was HS mother in place of NB would he have kept silent. It think his insecurity regarding mini originates because of this. He couldn't do it and he thinks mini also cant.

@bold, can you elaborate?

I also think for all NB's words, she failed him when he needed her after Imarti's death. She stopped going to see him. Maybe that's why it was easy for her to come up with that boat analogy.

It's all messed up!

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

They never really elaborated on it and I doubt they ever will now. But if there was to be anything, then I'm pretty sure it's that. Then again, if Ashok had asked for them, then why didn't she leave? 🤔 Or did she think serving Beeji and Dadu was more important than being with her own husband and giving her child a father? 😕

Ha! What would people say if she left her in-laws for her husband? I guess it would have been an issue like that but then again I don't get why Ashok wouldn't have brought this up during the divorce.

I guess HS will be on the brink of walking out but then they realise Babita is preggers and he turns into full protective mode. Also puts every human emotion into that relationship with his child I guess. Babita will also probably feel some guilt and will help him spoil Arya to no ends 🙁. Seriously I'm so drained by this drama.

Originally posted by: deefy89

the question is does he even know she banned nb? i cant see him saying nothing

Oh, after he lost Minnie, I don't think he will filter what he says. He will either become aloof or give her a serious piece of his mind, i.e. remind her that it's his haveli too and he gets to decide what goes on in there.

I know we won't see this on the show, but I'm quite sure he won't let this go so easily. Also, if NB is there post-leap then I'm sure she'd have seen Arya growing up and will advise Minnie or something. We might find out what happened then.

Originally posted by: inlieu

It's suicide.

But he believes in the sanctity of them marriage vow and will not leave her just for that reason alone. I don't know if he can continue to love and cherish her after this. She literally destroyed his life in a matter of weeks. I know he isn't blameless but none of what he has done would make him deserving of such punishment. Babita would have eventually gotten around to breaking everything. As NB said, she was punishing others for her 17 years.

I can respect that but where is his own self-respect? Instead of catering to her every need, he should have put the foot down and laid some ground rules. Sar par chara ke apne hi gale mein fansi ka fanda pehn liya.

Originally posted by: naq5

I wish mini had done a babita with HS and caught his hand and walked out of the house asking him to trust her this one time. That would have been a good twist with a lot of drama the makers wanted to give. 😈

Oh I had wished for this at one point too, but in a way she figuratively will. When she walks out tomorrow, she will take a part of his soul with him, leaving only his body behind.

Originally posted by: shazam1

Wasn't this NB the one who called Babita- "Allah miyan ki gaayi"🤣, and said about her "Muh mein zubaan nahi hai"😆. I guess NB is not that good at judging people afterall. 🤔

NB is also 'flawed' as per the CVs. ,

Originally posted by: deefy89

without starting anything, will anyone be watching season 2? i have seen the promo and it doesnt look bad. im actually looking forward to it. the person im going to miss most is hs. i sure do wish they would recast him as HS younger brother or something (im clutching at straws i know 😆)

If they hadn't ended season 1 in such a messy way, I would have watched season 2 because of the writing. I am just afraid that if I start watching it, they will put me through this emotional attyachaar again. Iss baar na seh paongi mein.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold, this is the saddest bit. She clearly doesn't value Minnie as much as she's been made out to. Minnie lost everything.

It's not HS who came between mother-daughter but Babita who came between father-daughter. I can't forget or forgive her for that. There's no redemption for Babita, the writers made sure of that.

Living in the uk you see this a lot because of single mums. When the relationship ends sour, the children are the ones to suffer. The mum and dad both move on with other partners but all the while because the mums affections have changed they automatically expect the kid to regard the latest man as “dad”, stop the kids seeing the father and spend every moment possible turning them against their father. They had the potential here to show the difference in spousal relationship and parental. Ashok wasn’t a perfect parent but babita is not a perfect mother also. Just because he was a bad husband doesn’t mean he should be automatically denied the chance to be a father. But with mothers like babita it’s got to be one or the other. Similarly she expected mini to not speak to her own grandparents because of the in-laws they were to her. Not even that, primarily it was so they don’t question HER as a mother and say she’s too focused on her new marriage (which she ended up being anyways) lmao