Originally posted by: Madhura..
Totally second Nidha here.
Also to add, his experiences are such that her image is formed that way. Credits, Salma to a major extent. He did call Roshni and even went to warn her but was intercepted by Salma both times, now he cannot imagine that Salma is playing games and information hasn't reached Roshni, cos she is her mom. He did make efforts to deliver. Also talking about Farishte ka dil, true but for him, his experiences coloured a picture. He judged her, but the same way even Roshni judged him in the first meeting, wherein she just made random accusations on his dad, without knowing anything and without letting him speak.
Main issue here is communication, first Roshni never allowed Aman to speak and now it's other way round. So they both have their flaws here, they need to understand the other person truly and listen, let the other speak and do some research.
I somehow can't seem to perceive it in Aman's favor. He sure did inform her but warn her? Does he get to that? I am not sure. His mother was dying. I get the extent of his emotional disturbance and while I may understand him, I do not think it is justified on his side. It maybe. I am not saying it is or it isn't. I am just saying that somehow, I am not able to see it the way you are seeing to this. Perhaps, after a couple of episodes more, I would come back and binge watch and maybe then, I would have a different perspective. Just maybe!
Uh I don't think, what Roshni did in the first meeting can be compared to this scenario. Even though, Roshni was awful and insensitive in what she said regarding his father in their first meeting, I can still give her the benefit of doubt which I can't, in Aman's case because Aman knows that she is Ayanah with farishtey ka dil. Since it is not true vice versa, these two scenarios - I don't think can be compared.
Communication is definitely an issue but since it hasn't been long enough since their first meet - I am ready to give them the time to know and understand each other which I hope they really will and once they build the relationship, I will sincerely look forward to a relationship with a strong trust.
Thank you. :)