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Originally posted by: naq5

Remember babes sent mini with cake to khurana house for beeji birthday. And mini had lunch there and came back. Babes was so upset and insecure. U think if mini had tried to keep good equations with ashok or tried to speak to him babita would not have thrown a tantrum or got insecure. Also mini made it all about babes and babita allowed her to do it. Even Ashok was like, babita has more rights on mini and mini anyway dint give him any rights so he dint try.

And babita still hasn't realised that mini needs closure on it. She still keeps saying your papaji or ashok (whatever she addresses him as )cheated me. She never says he was not a father to you he hurt you too. She actually still wants mini to hate ashok for what he did to her. During a divorce generally both parents try and maintain their spouses relation with their child and do not bad mouth them. But here in this case neither ashok did nor babita. And this is what happens if a mother makes children fight her battles initially. It never paves the way for a healthy relationship with their father. Dosent help that ashok was a very bad father who hit mini and never supported her and literally left her with nothing to fend. But most of ashoks hate for mini was also because she completely supported babita.

But, who stopped Ashok from reaching out to Mini? If he as much as a .01% cared for Mini, go to her College and try to speak to her.

Who stopped him from telling his side of the story to Mini?

Who stopped him from trying to perform one fatherly duty towards her? What did he do?

Babita in holi episode told HS, that her in-laws got left behind, her own brother broke ties with her, she only had Mini who she call her own. Of course she would have insecurities about losing Mini too.

I don’t fault Babita for not wanting Mini to keep any contact with Ashok coz Ashok didn’t do single thing to assure Babita that he would care for Mini. If I am a mother to Mini, I would want her to stay away too. Ashok needed to show a 0.01% for Babita to trust him. The biggest was — he was fine with Mini’s character assassination for Business alliance. Which mother would trust this kind of Father? I wouldn’t!

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I didn't see that during my watch on YT. But it proves my point of him developing a separate and yet deeply powerful relationship with both of them. The tadap that he had for Babita was completely different and it cannot, should not, be denied or belittled.

You want to watch ?

I will upload it on drive if you want ..

& Yeah that scene was enough for me to understand Babita was not some bonus for him & all he wanted to be with Minnie...

Mujhe to yeh samaj nai aata why does Mini even need to see Ashok and seek closure?

A father who cares jackshit about me, My existence, my character, my well-being, doesn’t matter. End!

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

People over expect from characters..Babita has done a lot for Minnie too..its not like she never cared for her and she is always mentally abusing her ..not every person have same kind of understanding..everyone has different approach ...Not every parents can see though their child all the time...Even my own mother can't that doesn't she is mentally abusing me and all it just means our understating doesn't coincide & i am sure not every parent is perfect they are learning too ..

Exactly.

There are so many things that I don't tell my mom or that she doesn't know about me but that doesn't mean she's a vile person or a child or whatever. It's just that I've never wanted to bother her with my issues for xyz reasons. Also, as with all people, we can read each other's body language to guess if something is wrong. But if a person is constantly putting on a mask and is hiding their true emotions, then how can anyone tell if something is amiss?

Moreover, people aren't born as parents. These are things that they learn over time. They may make mistakes but they also learn how to do better. Besides, I'm pretty sure they freak out just as equally if not more when they do something wrong.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, but yeh mirchi kayi ni jayegi. 🤣

People expect way too much from these characters. The way I see it, both Babita and HS were always attracted to each other, that attraction developed over time and turned into love. They wanted to be with each other, get married and live the rest of their lives together is a Fact. Of course Mini and HS forming their own bond was important as well, which they did. Ab writers want to victimize Mini post wedding and undo everything they did regarding HS-Mini, then kya karsakte hain 🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

You want to watch ?

I will upload it on drive if you want ..

& Yeah that scene was enough for me to understand Babita was not some bonus for him & all he wanted to be with Minnie...

No, I have all the episodes save three. I'll watch it later tonight. :)

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Thank You. When Babita sent Ashok away, that night Hanuman and Lala was sitting outside drinking, looking at Babita’s poster, HS told Lala — aaj agar Ashok le jata na Daughter ki Mother ko, tera yeh sir saab naa seh paata. Sach keh raha hoon.. teri kasam.

He was only worried about Ashok taking Babita away. Ahh well to each their own. But from whatever was shown, Hanuman loves Babita for who she is, and wanted to marry her for herself. Hanuman loves Mini too. But she wasn’t the reason for his wanting to marry Babita.

Yep he said..Jab Imarti gyi tab to me seh gaya Laale par is baar na seh pata agar teri Babita pehenji us ashok k sath chaji jali..

When he came back home after drinking & Babita served him dinner there was such a good scene b/w Hainta..HS was soo extra adorable in that scene..☺️

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Mujhe to yeh samaj nai aata why does Mini even need to see Ashok and seek closure?

A father who cares jackshit about me, My existence, my character, my well-being, doesn’t matter. End!

Loll, S2 ke liye bhi toh koi story chahiye. :P

If S1 was all about the Mom, then S2 will be all about the Dad.

Originally posted by: naq5

Now dosent that prove that it was all about babita for HS. Mini kabhi itni important nahi thi😕

No he loved Minnie a lot too. ..All I am saying he doesn't love Babita any less

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Make your way for Ashok 2.0 in Patiala Mini 😆

I can’t believe Ashok’s character is gonna be retained, but Hanita’s couldn’t 🤔

Some 3 days you are saying this dialogue for different characters..😆