New promo in sony Liv app regarding babita changing surname - Page 36

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

But he won't repeat same mistake again 😆 complicated jananiyon se hath jode

To hum kaunse complicated hain? 😆

Mujhe to Babita ki tarah khaana banana nahin aata, par career hai. Log kya kehte hain mujhe kabhi koi parwa nahin hoti. HS ki Haryanvi bohot pasand karti hoon.

Aur mein to HS ke dil ka haal bohot acche se samajhti hoon (uspe essays bhi likhti hoon), uske dil ki baatein ghanton tak sunne ko tayyar hoon, uske aansoon ponchne ke liye mein sabse aage khadi rahungi.

Khuranas ko bhav bhi nahin deti, raat ko shikayet kar kar ke HS ki neend haraam nahin karungi, aur baat baat pe ganga jamuna nahin bahaungi.

NB se bohot pyar karti hoon, Minnie ke future ke baare mein sochti hoon, aur surname bhi change nahin karoongi.

Aur haan, HS jab bhi kaam se lautega, ek badi si smile aur bada 🤗de kar usse milungi. Aur haan, koi bhi aag ho uske andar, mein dat ke saamna karungi.

Aur kuch?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

That's not what I meant.....obviously shaadi should have pyar....but the way small town people approach it is that shaadi ke baad wala affection means pyar......they conflate attraction and desire with love.

Love itself is far beyond all that...has so much more to it.....that is what they don't get.....Shaadi gives them a sanction to call it "love"....because people are brought up with the mentality that pyar is paap unless you have shaadi ka sanction. So they twist it all up.....that is how Babita also seems to be approaching it.....Ashok gave her some affection after marriage so she thinks he loved her....that's not what love is.

HS also either doesn't realize that love is more than just shaadi wala pyaar or he's too scared to discuss the topic with Babita since she seems to have a mental block about it.....given the dopey looks she was giving him when he told her they had an awareness between them since way back, I doubt she will comprehend if he tells her about love before marriage.....lol....it's easier for her to pretend she was a "responsible" mother who just married him to give her daughter a father.....lol

I think HS does understand love to be more than just marriage. Hence, him panicking over being friendzoned or him opting for a live in relationship, whichever version of it he wanted and understood it to be. 😆 But knowing Babita, she would have freaked out like there was no tomorrow if he had even approached her with anything less than a marriage.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: I completely agree.....no excuses or personality flaws can justify that lack of responsibility towards her own child no matter how old that kid is.

The writers are definitely pushing the limits with Babita....I suppose what frustrates us from time to time is that we don't know if there is really a light at the end of the tunnel with Babita.....her flaws have been more than established....but without evolution, it feels pointless.

I wish the writing did a better job of balancing the plusses and minuses with her.....and no, her plus can't just be that she cooks good food *rolls eyes*

You'd be surprised how many women (and men) think being an expert cook is the sign of a good housewife, even in so-called enlightened families. Jeez.

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

Hs ki "No tears policy " ke karan Haweli me eo din ansuo ki bAad aa jani hai..

Yeh forecast toh Aniruddh ne kudh bohot pehle de di thi. 😆

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

You give him lot of credit. I don’t.

He has some great qualities. But he is not some special kinda who is above others. He is typical in lot of sense.

If he is not getting what he wants. Then being the great that he is, he should come clean and not lead Babita into thinking that he loves her. He can be at least honest with her.

That's why I said after a while it won't be enough and he will speak out. I don't think he will do it right now.

He's not leading her into thinking he loves her. He does love her but if he were to ever test her love for him, God help him.

And never mind trying to explain to her how he's feeling. She just won't get it, at least not at this point in time. His best bet is to wait a bit.

Originally posted by: inlieu

To hum kaunse complicated hain? 😆

Mujhe to Babita ki tarah khaana banana nahin aata, par career hai. Log kya kehte hain mujhe kabhi koi parwa nahin hoti. HS ki Haryanvi bohot pasand karti hoon.

Aur mein to HS ke dil ka haal bohot acche se samajhti hoon (uspe essays bhi likhti hoon), uske dil ki baatein ghanton tak sunne ko tayyar hoon, uske aansoon ponchne ke liye mein sabse aage khadi rahungi.

Khuranas ko bhav bhi nahin deti, raat ko shikayet kar kar ke HS ki neend haraam nahin karungi, aur baat baat pe ganga jamuna nahin bahaungi.

NB se bohot pyar karti hoon, Minnie ke future ke baare mein sochti hoon, aur surname bhi change nahin karoongi.

Aur haan, HS jab bhi kaam se lautega, ek badi si smile aur bada 🤗de kar usse milungi. Aur haan, koi bhi aag ho uske andar, mein dat ke saamna karungi.

Aur kuch?

Arey arey arey...Mne konsa apka rishta pakka krwana hai HS se 😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

You'd be surprised how many women (and men) think being an expert cook is the sign of a good housewife, even if so-called enlightened families. Jeez.

Yeah, I just can't with those women and men.....it raises my hackles when people start listing "qualities" for wife ki "candidacy"....Screw such people, I say.

INSAAN se shaadi hoti hai....khaana banaane ki machine se nahin.

Originally posted by: inlieu

To hum kaunse complicated hain? 😆

Mujhe to Babita ki tarah khaana banana nahin aata, par career hai. Log kya kehte hain mujhe kabhi koi parwa nahin hoti. HS ki Haryanvi bohot pasand karti hoon.

Aur mein to HS ke dil ka haal bohot acche se samajhti hoon (uspe essays bhi likhti hoon), uske dil ki baatein ghanton tak sunne ko tayyar hoon, uske aansoon ponchne ke liye mein sabse aage khadi rahungi.

Khuranas ko bhav bhi nahin deti, raat ko shikayet kar kar ke HS ki neend haraam nahin karungi, aur baat baat pe ganga jamuna nahin bahaungi.

NB se bohot pyar karti hoon, Minnie ke future ke baare mein sochti hoon, aur surname bhi change nahin karoongi.

Aur haan, HS jab bhi kaam se lautega, ek badi si smile aur bada 🤗de kar usse milungi. Aur haan, koi bhi aag ho uske andar, mein dat ke saamna karungi.

Aur kuch?

LMAO, yahan shaadi ki interview chal ri hai kya? 🤣

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

Arey arey arey...Mne konsa apka rishta pakka krwana hai HS se 😆

To karwa dijiye na! Mujhe koi problem nahin hai. Aur suna hai woh mind bhi nahin karta agar ladki jaake usse pehle propose karey.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah, I just can't with those women and men.....it raises my hackles when people start listing "qualities" for wife ki "candidacy"....Screw such people, I say.

INSAAN se shaadi hoti hai....khaana banaane ki machine se nahin.

Whenever I hear people asking about such things when doing a rishta among my relatives, I ask the same questions to the guy's family.