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Also, just when was he expected to buy a gift for her? He found out about her birthday that morning and then he had to go to the station. Dunno when he gets off work but yeh lekar aata bhi toh kab? Aur kya lekar aata? Another camera? He can't just tell someone to bring something like that. There's so much to consider when it comes to buying a gift of that nature.

Babita's insistence on them being father daughter is just her own insecurity speaking aloud. She needs validation that she took the right step. Her wanting people to say Mini ko baap milgaya was just 🤪

Ab logon se bhi expectation hai, huh?🤣

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Also, just when was he expected to buy a gift for her? He found out about her birthday that morning and then he had to go to the station. Dunno when he gets off work but yeh lekar aata bhi toh kab? Aur kya lekar aata? Another camera? He can't just tell someone to bring something like that. There's so much to consider when it comes to buying a gift of that nature.

Yes! But Babita didn’t have to tell him to go up to Mini and wish her happy birthday. That should come to Hs naturally na.

Babita did say that it’s not about gifts. It’s about pyaar jatana. All he had to do was go up to her and wish her happy birthday on his own without Babita’s insistence. And have the rest of the convo they had today.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Also, just when was he expected to buy a gift for her? He found out about her birthday that morning and then he had to go to the station. Dunno when he gets off work but yeh lekar aata bhi toh kab? Aur kya lekar aata? Another camera? He can't just tell someone to bring something like that. There's so much to consider when it comes to buying a gift of that nature.

Quite right. Specially since these two have been feeling disconnected, it's even more difficult. And then HS has been with her for only a year perhaps, he can't be expected to know all about her inner wishes and stuff.

Nevertheless, the way he just brushed off the fact that he had forgotten, or was pretending to forget, wasn't right. As they say, it's not the gift but the thought behind the gift that's most important.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Yes! But Babita didn’t have to tell him to go up to Mini and wish her happy birthday. That should come to Hs naturally na.

Babita did say that it’s not about gifts. It’s about pyaar jatana. All he had to do was go up to her and wish her happy birthday on his own without Babita’s insistence. And have the rest of the convo they had today.

I think after all the awkwardness about last night, HS didn't even want to acknowledge that it's her birthday 😆

Ignorance is bliss types.

I don’t know, what to say Meri Bak bak to sunavungi,

I am only one feeling like there is something missing between Hannie scene or what?. At least Hs said I couldn’t become father but he has to mention why is not able become father.

Minne lying too much. Desperately she want father and she cried in front of her friends also. She could tell her expectations too. Aajkal na mujhe na “ Minnie ka Diabetic “ ho Gaya hai. I am not able to digest fake smile alwayssss.

Aaj ka swan ye hai ki, agar maa baap dono me se ek gift dega to vo gift dono ki taraf se nahi hai kya? Baap bhi separately needs to buy gift. Why babita didn’t say ye gift dono ki taraf se 🤔🤔 generally parents discuss right 🤭

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Babita's insistence on them being father daughter is just her own insecurity speaking aloud. She needs validation that she took the right step. Her wanting people to say Mini ko baap milgaya was just 🤪

Ab logon se bhi expectation hai, huh?🤣

But you see how there is also immense pressure on Babita that kya maine theek decision liya to marry again, is my child happy and all. It’s natural for her to think that way. I however would have liked if she stopped bringing up log kya kahenge and instead just stressed on her own fears and insecurities.

Also, Babita wants to erase all those bad memories Mini has about her father with HS’s good ones. I don’t think thats wrong for her to expect. Instead of lashing at him, if she were to talk to him calmly and explain, I think that would have made more impact. Also, HS and Mini both need to tell Babita straight up that they don’t wanna have that label of father-daughter. They are not there yet and Idk I think she will understand and give them time.

HS might just be tired of proving himself as her father, so he's given up on it altogether 😆

Like jao bhadd mein, main father hoon hi nahi bass. Ab jeene do mujhe 😆

When emotions don't hit the right note, everything else feels wrong. Mini didn't even ask of Babita's health and headache now that Babita herself told her about it. Yeh kya hai? Kisika bhi natural reaction would've been how are you feeling now.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I wanna know what Mini thinks about HS accepting that he has failed as a father and he forgot to get gifts for her. I think she's not convinced by that and nevertheless spoke what she had in mind beforehand. I hated that her offering him tissues was also overshadowed by Mickey's words. Now she wouldn't have even offered him that if she didn't have it in mind to patch up with him?

Dunno but Mickey's words fell flat today. Mini did somewhere selflessly enjoy her moment with Babes. She did, honestly and truthfully confront HS. Now is that she purposefully didn't act on Mickey's words or all of this is termed as pretence? I personally think she was honest about it.

The chasm opened between Hannie was so evident today. A handshake for a birthday wish. Tissues for wiping tears. Then she saw her Hanuman uncle truly hurting and her wall broke down and she expressed what her emotions were. I don't think Mickey had anything to do with that.

The only portions where I felt his influence was when she said she will be okay if he can never be her father and she can survive. I wanted to cry and scream, "chal jhuti", at the same time. 🤣

Though, I feel this too was necessary. She doesn't see him as her hero anymore. Yes, he loves her Babes, married her, keeps her happy, but he isn't HER hero anymore. She isn't putting him on a pedestal. Her accepting that her Hanuman uncle is imperfect was a big deal for me.

Now, they can truly focus on rebuilding their relationship without wiping the hurt of the past few weeks away. They don't have to pretend to each other. The expectations are out of the way. Now they just need to be themselves and let their relationship grow organically. It'll take time, but it'll be even more beautiful.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

But you see how there is also immense pressure on Babita that kya maine theek decision liya to marry again, is my child happy and all. It’s natural for her to think that way. I however would have liked if she stopped bringing up log kya kahenge and instead just stressed on her own fears and insecurities.

Also, Babita wants to erase all those bad memories Mini has about her father with HS’s good ones. I don’t think thats wrong for her to expect. Instead of lashing at him, if she were to talk to him calmly and explain, I think that would have made more impact. Also, HS and Mini both need to tell Babita straight up that they don’t wanna have that label of father-daughter. They are not there yet and Idk I think she will understand and give them time.

Yes, I get her. I understand that she is under lot of pressure to make everything work.

I was just casually mocking about how log kya kahenge is now promoted to logon ko yeh kehna chahiye 😆

And yeah, I think they need to be honest about it. But I think they will have a mutual understanding of this issue and keep Babita in a bubble. Unfair but dunno why, on practical basis, I've a feeling I would have done that too.