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Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, she can't complain about anything because of Babita. Kuch bhi ho jaye, she'll stress herself out and then put all the blame on HS and how he failed to be Minnie's father. Agar saga baap hota toh woh khudh party throw karta aur gifts lata. Par kyunki yeh sautela hai, isse har ek baat batani parti.

To be honest, Hanuman did fail big time today and i cannot fault Babita for being angry at him.. how could he forget after all the tamasha in morning?

And thats not an excuse.. if Babita stresses herself out, they can handle her.. but making her live in a bubble is not fair to her.. they did it before and they are doing it again

I'm just about finished writing up the update, so will get back to you all in a bit.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

This is what I was saying. Why can't she be honest about her feelings for once? It's not that HS will not understood her. It will be easier for HS to be her father if she clarifies about her expectations . What's the need to pretend?

As I keep saying, while HS has to learn to be a father, she has to learn to be a daughter. She never has been with her biological parents, so she's gotta start somewhere. For that to happen, HS has to shower her with love and unconditional support, as well as undying faith in her. When she starts to feel secure and can begin to trust him again, she will be able to relax and be a kid around him like she used to before.

It will take time and until then she will do what NB correctly pointed out: struggle in silence. I hope HS pays closer attention to her and helps her open up by proactively going to her and asking her to talk about her concerns, as he used to in the past. Once he stops feeling the pressure from outsiders, I think he'll likely do a better job.

I haven't watched the episode yet so I'm speculating.

A little back of old PB.

I really think that they are overdoing the Romeo Mickey advice and today it sucked. How he spoke about Babita and her remarriage to HS. There is no connection with Babes missing her midnight happy Birthday and telling her to fake it is like what. Please stop Romeo Mickey giving advice.

Lol. Mini wake up and smell the Coffee and yes she loves her Mother but why listen to useless advice when it is not going to help. Fake it really and continue being the Bacheri Gopi Mini.

Loved when Mini came home and saw the Cake etc so the Birthday was not forgotten and yes She should have been open with Babita and should have spoken properly about there pain and expectations etc but never mind, we have more hiding here not good.

Loved it when HS and Babita fight it out and yes it was not good of HS to forget the Birthday and I hope that he does get her something.

Loved the chat between HS and Mini and yes they need to go back to like before and once happy who knows they may call each other Father and Daughter and yes it will take time but do it slowly and the end result will be fruitful.

Loved the precap with HS and Mini like the old days.

But need less advice from Mickey now seriously he is doing more harm than good. All the family need to be strong to survive.

Please tell Babita properly what you two mean to one another, otherwise she will be blamed again.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

To be honest, Hanuman did fail big time today and i cannot fault Babita for being angry at him.. how could he forget after all the tamasha in morning?

And thats not an excuse.. if Babita stresses herself out, they can handle her.. but making her live in a bubble is not fair to her.. they did it before and they are doing it again

When she didn't want any gift from him..He gifted camera to Minnie so thus time Babes naturally expected when it was the right occassion but then he will keep saying "aap jo chahenge Makan Malkin ji bhi hoga " but vo krega nahi 😆

Can I expect some rebuilding of Hannie bond in true sense, now that they've accepted that there are issues and they need time?

Or this was just a teaser to be let down again?😆

HS didn't exactly forget her birthday I feel. He was just irritated by what Babita did in the morning. Plus, he's not one of those who will put up fake acts if his heart in not in the right place. He was already guilty about stopping Mini last night and he knew there already were issues about Mini's birthday back home. So he just chose to ignore the whole thing.

It happens with me though, if I forget a birthday or come to know late about it, I'm no more excited about it and I just ignore the whole occasion.

Originally posted by: inlieu

As I keep saying, while HS has to learn to be a father, she has to learn to be a daughter. She never has been with her biological parents, so she's gotta start somewhere. For that to happen, HS has to shower her with love and unconditional support, as well as undying faith in her. When she starts to feel secure and can begin to trust him again, she will be able to relax and be a kid around him like she used to before.

It will take time and until then she will do what NB correctly pointed out: struggle in silence. I hope HS pays closer attention to her and helps her open up by proactively going to her and asking her to talk about her concerns, as he used to in the past. Once he stops feeling the pressure from outsiders, I think he'll likely do a better job.

I haven't watched the episode yet so I'm speculating.

Now that Minnie has told him to stop caring so much about outside expectations, I can see this happening again. Minnie is obviously still putting up a front in front of Babes, but at least she was honest with HS today.

I wanna know what Mini thinks about HS accepting that he has failed as a father and he forgot to get gifts for her. I think she's not convinced by that and nevertheless spoke what she had in mind beforehand. I hated that her offering him tissues was also overshadowed by Mickey's words. Now she wouldn't have even offered him that if she didn't have it in mind to patch up with him?

Dunno but Mickey's words fell flat today. Mini did somewhere selflessly enjoy her moment with Babes. She did, honestly and truthfully confront HS. Now is that she purposefully didn't act on Mickey's words or all of this is termed as pretence? I personally think she was honest about it.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

To be honest, Hanuman did fail big time today and i cannot fault Babita for being angry at him.. how could he forget after all the tamasha in morning?

And thats not an excuse.. if Babita stresses herself out, they can handle her.. but making her live in a bubble is not fair to her.. they did it before and they are doing it again

That’s what I felt too. How did he fail to bring gifts after all that happened in the morning? And Babita is right, it’s not about gifts it’s about pyar jatana. It wasn’t about him buying gifts for Mini. He should have just gone up to her on his own and wished her happy birthday, veer balika and hugged. That would have been enough. Why does he need to be probed by Babita to reach out to Mini?

It’s not fair that they are once again lying to Babita that they are father-daughter now. It’s not fair to put her in a bubble. Come clean and it’s Babita’s problem to deal with it.

And how is Babita wrong in expecting HS-Mini to become father-daughter? They used to call each other baap-Beti without Babita’s insistence before... so naturally Babita will expect them to be in the same page na. Either come clean to her that we don’t want any tags or pressure to be father-daughter, then even Babita will not be expecting anything on that front.

I however do agree that Babita shouldn’t pressure HS to be Mini’s perfect father or to replace Ashok, but her expecting HS to become Mini’s father figure, or expecting him to jataoing that pyaar is absolutely natural.