Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer
Makers expect ppl to feel sad for Mini that she is lonely and her mother has gone away from her.. before Ashok came back, we did hear about how everyoone in the family pampered her and never stopped her from anything because her father was absent.. yes, she was upset at the absencebof a father and the taunts her mother had to bear, but she was loved as well.. she had the love of her Dadu, Biji and most of all her mother.. now she is feeling lost and alone but she has a whole life ahead of her.. she can build a career.. even in her supposedly worse times, she has friends and Grandparents she can count on
On the other side we have Babita who got married at the same age, whose became a mother a year after, whose husband left her to take care of everyone, who heard the taunts of her nand, who had no one to share her loneliness and plight with, who put on the facade of happiness while taking care of her daughter and raising her well, suppressing her desires untill life as she knew was shattered and her daughter became her guiding light.. she started a new life at a point when people usually become set in their ways.. while she let her daughter guide her on this new path, she had to bear tsunts of society and worry an her daughter's future.. yet she had her daughter and that was enough.. she picked up the pieces with the help of her daughter.. eventually she found a man who was willing to give her everything she wanted in life and finally she is free.. if in this feeling, she fails to hold the finger of her almost adult daughter for a while, do I consider her less of a mother? No.. for the longest time Babita was a sister in law, daughter in law and mother.. finally she has a chance I being a woman and a wife? Do I failt her for focusing on this one relationship over others for now? No..
This is the time for Mini too to just let her mother ho and focus on her own life, dreams and aspirations.. life right now is a canvas for het
On a side note, Babita would have been upset at Micky Mini friendship even if she was not married.. this recent wedge between Babita and Mini would have been there even if Babita was still single
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