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Originally posted by: inlieu

He also said to go with the flow (pun not intended).

So I will trust him and do so.

Same. If Anirudh still has faith in the story, then surely there must be something good coming our way.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I will share a personal story.

My cousin Bhai and Bhabhi got married and bhai had to leave for abroad soon after. Actually wedding was arranged in haste coz his visa was approved so he could call her sooner. Turns out their file got into trouble and they had to wait for 6 years. In between Bhai visited India but still a long distance relationship for 6 years.

I see them once a year. They have a baby now and are happy. But during one of the visit, we got talking and Bhabhi shared about those 6 lonely years. She told me, you know we wasted prime youth years. The attraction, the craving to be with each other, those years of initial carefree and bonding times. She told she spent every other night crying.

I wouldn’t have felt extremely bad for Babita had I not known this side of the living alone. 17 years of loneliness. For Hanuman 8 years.

I say they should make up for all lost times. Pamper each other. Spend time whenever you find. Romance shomance and do whatever you want man.

There’s no need to worry about a thing in the world at this moment. Both so deserve it.

Writers are sadistic that in middle of them finding partner and finally living those desires, they bring in Mini feeling left out.

I mean why in such a contrived manner? It could have happened but why right now?

It was Mini who once told Hanuman - use bhi koi chahiye jise woh apna keh sake. Jo sirf uska ho.

I think Mini still somewhere understands. It’s the external factor like Biji that’s pushing her in the feeling isolated zone.

Thanks for sharing this. I totally understand this and I wish more people would.

Plus, a person can't be perfect all the time. They can swing one way or the other from time to time. As long as it's not skewed in one direction forever, let them enjoy their lives.

And you know what, if HS and Babita do prioritize each other over Minnie, then fine. So be it. This is apparently their true characters, let them love and cherish each other till death, and not focus on being the best parents ever. After all, why should they? It's their life, their wish. If this is what the writers want to show in terms of story arcs, let's see how much they push the envelope.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I guess he wants some simple moments too among all the siyappe. Not every moment has to be full of philosophy and deep meaning.

Yup! And there's no simpler moment than him just being with his wife.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I guess he wants some simple moments too among all the siyappe. Not every moment has to be full of philosophy and deep meaning.

Exactly. There’s no literal meaning to everything. Couples have tons of meaningless conversations. Even those are fun. Ainvayi faltu mein

Originally posted by: inlieu

She called her Naeem Bi the other day. I was so surprised.

I think she's been calling her Naeem Bi for a while now. Can't remember exactly.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Yup! And there's no simpler moment than him just being with his wife.

You know, I was just about to say that. Sometimes we just need to be and not overthink things.

Originally posted by: inlieu

And this worries me. These were the people who really taught her what dil ke rishte were about. Didn't we discuss how she'd bloomed in their company?

Were those bonds really so shallow or superficial after all that she will feel nothing for them? NB and Lala are supporting characters on the show but in terms of Minnie's life they have always been there for her and have guided her superbly.

They all belong to HS's sphere though, so if she took a step back from him, so she will from them as well. It is getting all too complicated but let's see what comes... I'm sort of tired of trying to understand what exactly is going on cause the next day if will be all messed up anyways. Writers are now just too often incoherent.

Originally posted by: inlieu

And this worries me. These were the people who really taught her what dil ke rishte were about. Didn't we discuss how she'd bloomed in their company?

Were those bonds really so shallow or superficial after all that she will feel nothing for them? NB and Lala are supporting characters on the show but in terms of Minnie's life they have always been there for her and have guided her superbly.

That's what I thought too but ab pata ni. This somehow breaks my heart even more. What the heck is her thinking process when it comes to relationships anymore?? Khoon ke rishte above all?

Heck, she went as far out as calling SS Nanaji. What the hell was that for?? Woh kiske liye tha?? I'm getting such an ugly feeling right now. 😖

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Same. If Anirudh still has faith in the story, then surely there must be something good coming our way.

He said a lot through his tweets today. It looks like he's quite convinced about the current tracks as he also said that life isn't always easy and hardships are also part of life, couples aren't always lovey dovey, etc.

I have a feeling they will throw us a curveball.

Originally posted by: _Reka_

They all belong to HS's sphere though, so if she took a step back from him, so she will from them as well. It is getting all too complicated but let's see what comes... I'm sort of tired of trying to understand what exactly is going on cause the next day if will be all messed up anyways. Writers are now just too often incoherent.

Yes, I think it makes sense that she distances herself from them because she is distant from HS. They are his family after all.