Big Boss Tamil Season 3 - Finale Week 15 Discussion Thread - Page 69

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

I am not goldieif but I will try to answer from my point of view. People always like to root for underdogs and they like charismatic villains (ex Rajni, satya Raj, sarah Kumar). they can relate with someone with faults than a clean image person, They are like dolls and we couldn’t connect with them . Whereas people who make mistakes seem like real people whom we can connect with mentally. We accept them with their flaws and root for them genuinely.

In short , thappu panravan manusan , thappae pannadavan kadavul 😊

kadavul 🤣. Let me do one more 🤣 for gandhi jayathi, for father of our nation.

@honeyarjun: this is my belief, dont mistake me.

Originally posted by: Chrisjo

yes i know dear, i would like to share a piece of info..

infact we are discussing a beautiful thing called pratfall effect in social psychology here. Adding to the point that we connect with real people instead of perfectionists, there is a hidden dimension too..

For humanminds, people who are perfect seem threatening and those who do mistakes are little under their enormous ego n they feel safe..

infact immediately a nurturing parent inside immediately comes out to help that imperfect being..and gets boosted up of its own ego..

Ennanga neega , summa kalakarenga 👍🏼. Psychology major-a Neenga?

While we are discussing about this phenomenon, in my layman’s terms , want to add one more point. If the person is a perfectionist or a good one , even a small mistake might appear big . Thappeliyae oori ponavanga enna seinjalum perusa theriyadhu - whatever mistakes they do we tend to ignore them whereas we take even a small mistake by the good ones close to the eye and makes it appear big. May be that’s why Tharshan’s trash can-letter matter and flirting with Sherin appeared like a big mole.

I hope Tharshan doesn’t take the support he gets outside to his mind and try to be humble to succeed in his career. His downfall inside BB started when he was getting overconfident with KH’s support for him and the audience claps. Of course he is getting a hero image now as people think he is wrongly eliminated. This is the time he shouldn’t take this response to mind and get carried away. He has a long way to go.

Completely out of topic - I was thinking about why Los got so much support and why this much hatred now. Now when I think about it , Oviya got so famous because she left in 40 days. If she had stayed for longer , people would have started seeing the negative side - hitting Aarav though he confessed he had someone outside. Public would have turned against her as well , Like how people gave overwhelming support to Losliya in the first few weeks and did a u turn.

Los is true to herself , she never changed her behaviour or thoughts according to the weekend episodes or fake audience claps. She might appear self centric but she wanted to be like that. She didn’t go out of the way and try to help others to get into their good books to avoid nominations . She tried to connect with people whom she was comfortable with and remained loyal to them till the end. That is why I like her , the same way I liked Oviya. I would have supported Oviya even if she had stayed for the entire BB, though I never supported her love for Aarav.

When people from Srilanka in SM say she is a disgrace to their country , I feel so bad for this girl. Is falling in love at a wrong place a big crime ? She always carried her well, never dressed inappropriate in short skirts, shorts or revealing clothes, never had touchy, huggy, kissing scenes with Kavin. All they did was talk to each other, sometimes holding hands and few times touching each other hair in a loving way.

I think some people went against her as Kavin was with Sakshi first. Kavin was flirting with Sakshi as he was trying a playboy role. When Sakshi started using him, he backed off. He explained that to Los and she understood that Kavin wasn’t serious about Sakshi. Slowly her liking for him blossomed and turned to love. She believes Kavin is good and Kavin is moved by her unconditional love and support. I think they might get into a serious relationship outside BB as well. People from her country should feel proud of their girl coming to the finale and start supporting her rather than throwing more hatred towards her and her family.

Originally posted by: ShanC

Avar name senbagaraj... I forgot his name..i got it from someone posted her...

Etho oru super singer season la padnar.. Aparam vijay tv la guest singer ah apappo varuvar...

Enakkum avvalavaa theriyaadhu about this guy's singing, but have seen him in VijayTV shows..

Regarding his tweet/post about Mugen that someone shared here.. I wanted to ask him 'Idhellaam oru seyalaa' ?😆 ofcourse he has every right to express his view about anything or anybody... But why deleting it now just because you have enter this show and be part of supporting the one you criticised ?

Here is my 2 cents on this topic.. A singer need not be well versed in Carnatic.. there are many genres and each one shine in their very own talent.. To quote an example, I've seen HipHop Thamizha Aadhi saying that he doesn't know what is Charanam, Pallavi, Anu Pallavi when the director Sundar.C spoke about it for his first ever movie 'Aambala'.. adhu theriyala naalum onnum kutham illa.. he creates songs in his own style..

That's how few other super singers also topped irrespective of them not learnt proper music.. Diwakar, Senthil Ganesh , Poovaiyaar to name a few..

Mugen atleast has done his own musical albums and featured in it and famous in his country.. But I don't know who this Shenbagaraj is and how his singing will be...

Yesterday, Mugen's singing and his voice was just magical ❤️

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

I hope Tharshan doesn’t take the support he gets outside to his mind and try to be humble to succeed in his career. His downfall inside BB started when he was getting overconfident with KH’s support for him and the audience claps. Of course he is getting a hero image now as people think he is wrongly eliminated. This is the time he shouldn’t take this response to mind and get carried away. He has a long way to go.

Completely out of topic - I was thinking about why Los got so much support and why this much hatred now. Now when I think about it , Oviya got so famous because she left in 40 days. If she had stayed for longer , people would have started seeing the negative side - hitting Aarav though he confessed he had someone outside. Public would have turned against her as well , Like how people gave overwhelming support to Losliya in the first few weeks and did a u turn.

Los is true to herself , she never changed her behaviour or thoughts according to the weekend episodes or fake audience claps. She might appear self centric but she wanted to be like that. She didn’t go out of the way and try to help others to get into their good books to avoid nominations . She tried to connect with people whom she was comfortable with and remained loyal to them till the end. That is why I like her , the same way I liked Oviya. I would have supported Oviya even if she had stayed for the entire BB, though I never supported her love for Aarav.

When people from Srilanka in SM say she is a disgrace to their country , I feel so bad for this girl. Is falling in love at a wrong place a big crime ? She always carried her well, never dressed inappropriate in short skirts, shorts or revealing clothes, never had touchy, huggy, kissing scenes with Kavin. All they did was talk to each other, sometimes holding hands and few times touching each other hair in a loving way.

I think some people went against her as Kavin was with Sakshi first. Kavin was flirting with Sakshi as he was trying a playboy role. When Sakshi started using him, he backed off. He explained that to Los and she understood that Kavin wasn’t serious about Sakshi. Slowly her liking for him blossomed and turned to love. She believes Kavin is good and Kavin is moved by her unconditional love and support. I think they might get into a serious relationship outside BB as well. People from her country should feel proud of their girl coming to the finale and start supporting her rather than throwing more hatred towards her and her family.

I hope tharshan realizes this. But I doubt he does. People will forget about him soon enough and he must be ready to face that reality too. What I couldn't understand at all is, I heard Tharshan studied in one of the top universities at Srilanka and worked in an IT company for some time before moving here. His life seems settled even though he had some major life of death situations before. Why didn't he open about them to kavin when Kavin started feeling bad for him. Why fuel it. I think kavin seriously was immune to how it was making tharshan uncomfortable at start, then when he realized it he stopped mentioning about it. Made sure he avoided it at all times. I don't think kavin was using this as a tool for his victory. He seems a guy who s very emotional and has taken every relationship he has formed there to his heart.

Agree with everything you mentioned about Los. The one thing I admire the most is whatever others inside or outside might say.. She is very clear that she is equally responsible for her relationship with kavin.. Never blamed him.. Never acted as a victim. Took responsibility for her actions.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Ennanga neega , summa kalakarenga 👍🏼. Psychology major-a Neenga?

While we are discussing about this phenomenon, in my layman’s terms , want to add one more point. If the person is a perfectionist or a good one , even a small mistake might appear big . Thappeliyae oori ponavanga enna seinjalum perusa theriyadhu - whatever mistakes they do we tend to ignore them whereas we take even a small mistake by the good ones close to the eye and makes it appear big. May be that’s why Tharshan’s trash can-letter matter and flirting with Sherin appeared like a big mole.

i had a buthijeevi frnd who will never be very vocal about his ways, if someone appreciates his perfection, he jumps back to say no no no am not that type..he will always act in ways against what he is expected to do..he says i never want any judgement, preconceived notion or prejudices against me....

Btw, naan psychology major illa ma , am a physicist...

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

I hope Tharshan doesn’t take the support he gets outside to his mind and try to be humble to succeed in his career. His downfall inside BB started when he was getting overconfident with KH’s support for him and the audience claps. Of course he is getting a hero image now as people think he is wrongly eliminated. This is the time he shouldn’t take this response to mind and get carried away. He has a long way to go.

Completely out of topic - I was thinking about why Los got so much support and why this much hatred now. Now when I think about it , Oviya got so famous because she left in 40 days. If she had stayed for longer , people would have started seeing the negative side - hitting Aarav though he confessed he had someone outside. Public would have turned against her as well , Like how people gave overwhelming support to Losliya in the first few weeks and did a u turn.

Los is true to herself , she never changed her behaviour or thoughts according to the weekend episodes or fake audience claps. She might appear self centric but she wanted to be like that. She didn’t go out of the way and try to help others to get into their good books to avoid nominations . She tried to connect with people whom she was comfortable with and remained loyal to them till the end. That is why I like her , the same way I liked Oviya. I would have supported Oviya even if she had stayed for the entire BB, though I never supported her love for Aarav.

When people from Srilanka in SM say she is a disgrace to their country , I feel so bad for this girl. Is falling in love at a wrong place a big crime ? She always carried her well, never dressed inappropriate in short skirts, shorts or revealing clothes, never had touchy, huggy, kissing scenes with Kavin. All they did was talk to each other, sometimes holding hands and few times touching each other hair in a loving way.

I think some people went against her as Kavin was with Sakshi first. Kavin was flirting with Sakshi as he was trying a playboy role. When Sakshi started using him, he backed off. He explained that to Los and she understood that Kavin wasn’t serious about Sakshi. Slowly her liking for him blossomed and turned to love. She believes Kavin is good and Kavin is moved by her unconditional love and support. I think they might get into a serious relationship outside BB as well. People from her country should feel proud of their girl coming to the finale and start supporting her rather than throwing more hatred towards her and her family.

Ennanga neega , summa kalakarenga 👍🏼. Psychology major-a Neenga?

While we are discussing about this phenomenon, in my layman’s terms , want to add one more point. If the person is a perfectionist or a good one , even a small mistake might appear big . Thappeliyae oori ponavanga enna seinjalum perusa theriyadhu - whatever mistakes they do we tend to ignore them whereas we take even a small mistake by the good ones close to the eye and makes it appear big. May be that’s why Tharshan’s trash can-letter matter and flirting with Sherin appeared like a big mole.

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Originally posted by: ShanC

Avar name senbagaraj... I forgot his name..i got it from someone posted her...

Etho oru super singer season la padnar.. Aparam vijay tv la guest singer ah apappo varuvar...

Appo evar thaan andha appatucker, mugin a patri tweet pottu delete pannavar..!!

Originally posted by: Sevenstreaks

I never understood this ...Wat if they are ...Its their choice and applies to others as well ...

Of course , I don’t judge people by how they dress. For the normal public who doesn’t have that much exposure to modern world, who judge people for the way they dress, talk, behave - it might be a constraint and cause for negativity. Sometimes we have to agree not everyone think like us. This show is being watched by all age category - moms , grandparents, kids and not only youngsters who are free spirited like you , Ramya and Shan 😊.