Yaariyan #6 Main ro ro ke ganga nahaaonga - Page 11

Originally posted by: sanabmw

it's good k dono khud faisla le.. ye jayada sahi hai.

i want umair to give sadia a choice and he should not pressurize her in any way.

Forst time consummation for a couple is supposed to be something special and cherished for your whole life... even if you look at it from Islamic point of view, muslim women are always scared and nervous before consummating for the first time so its human nature to be hesitant and husbands are advised to be patient and understanding with them, give them time instead of becoming animals.

Physical relation between husband and wife is for the enjoyment of both of them. Its not just one sided. If that was the case, women would not have been given the right to take Khula from impotent men

Congrats on the new thread. I think this will be the last. But can't be so sure!😃

Originally posted by: heavenlybliss

Forst time consummation for a couple is supposed to be something special and cherished for your whole life... even if you look at it from Islamic point of view, muslim women are always scared and nervous before consummating for the first time so its human nature to be hesitant and husbands are advised to be patient and understanding with them, give them time instead of becoming animals.

Physical relation between husband and wife is for the enjoyment of both of them. Its not just one sided. If that was the case, women would not have been given the right to take Khula from impotent men

absolutely.

not only Muslim but mostly every girl scared hina.

islaam ho ya koi aur religion sab me divorce ka rule hai.. husband and wife dono me se koi bhi agar saath nahi rehna chahta hai to wo easily relation se bahar aa sakte hai.forced se kisi bhi relationship ko aap jee nahi sakte.. infact dono ki life kharaab ho jati hai.. zabardsti kyu rahna.agar marrige work nahi kar rahi to better hai alag ho jao. but agar dono saath rehna chahte hai and apne beach k problems par work kar rahe hai than ek chance de sakte ho.. BUT dono chahe to.warna nahi.

Originally posted by: Ruby7

i want umair to give sadia a choice and he should not pressurize her in any way.

I dont think sadia ko koi pressurized karega.. atlist last episode me to usko apni marzi karne do

Originally posted by: sami011

yes Sana we are talking multidimentionally ,generally.

Sadia in real life probably would have reacted more to zoobie marrying her ex,she was happy for her.The character has so many flaws.She and Umair both had no trust in each other.

Something happened and she got pregnant,she was only angry for few days but considered it jayez.

See I cant comment on rights in islam as am not muslim and I feel it is not my place to say so.am going by what is shown in the drama.Character of Sadia atleast until yesterday's episode does not consider it rape,she was more anguished by baditmadi(lol my urdu is becoming very good😆 jo maine punjabi urdu kayede se seekhi).She even feels she is in love with umair so if she thinks it was ok for umair to do so,who am I to object.I can just get mad at writer/director/character.

And I agree sana on logic by people on YT insta and all that if she can even console zoobie why so much anger for Umair. But uska gussa tha jayez,he deserved every single thing she said to him.

But I do want to say some thing about cultural rights--many traditions in our societies are cultural,they are not religious ,jaise pati sab kuch hai and all ,the reforms take time and martial rape is a topic that needs to be explored with sensitivity

pati ko parmeshwar to har religion me banaya gaya hai Sami is wajah se to sab HUBBY ka dimaag kharaab ho jata hai, u know what wife k bhi bahot se rights hai jo koi show hi nahi karta.. and is wajah se bahot si ladkiyi suffer karti hai apni marriage life me.. they are like ab humari arthi hi jayegi pati k ghar se..

social awareness abhi bhi nahi hai.. even maa baap bhi ladki ka saath nahi dete and is wajah se ladkiya har zulm seh rahi hoti hai.

abhi bhi bahot si aisi families hai jaha log modern hai but sirf kapdo se.. unki thinking still wahi purani hai.. there are like jo jaisa he chalne do.. brother sister me faraq karte hai.

this is harsh reality in our society.. jisko change ki bahot zarurat hai.

and sadia k baare me kya bolu itna sab to discuss kar liya.. ab to log bhi bol rahe hai lol

Originally posted by: sanabmw

I dont think sadia ko koi pressurized karega.. atlist last episode me to usko apni marzi karne do

I feel her mom influence her a bit though I am hoping sadia decides what's best for her.

We all are thinking sadia umair will be endgame but last episode anything can happen so I will watch the finale with an open minded

Loved reading everyone's views. This thread is a bliss

I want Sadia to decide what She wants what's best for her and her unborn.

I don't want a final meeting between Aliya and Sadia and Aliya asking her to be with or forgive Umair.

Kisi bhi character ki samajh nahi aati.

Sadia knows shuru se what Zzobie has done and how it has affected her life phir bhi she is so caring and loving towards her. They can't show Sadia is so good that she is not capable of hating Zoobie koi bhi normal insaan Zoobie ko thoda toh hate karta.

Ahmer 2 years.ko pasand wali arsh wali wife ko rk dum divorce se diya. Farsh wali ko usji saari haqeeqat jaan ne ke baad bhi itna time laga raha hai.

Zoobie ko lab Ahmer se itni mohabbat hi gayi. It looked so forced.

Umair maafi maangi maafi chahiye words nahi actions se maafi mango. Umair should give her some time to forgive him and accept it if she does not want to.