Yaariyan #5 Zoobi mujhe le Doobi - Page 102

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

We think of it as rape but the writers did not want to highlight it as rape ... Warna woh easily kar sakte ...they needed an excuse for the baby and DNA drama so they went through with this ...warna Sadia and Umair ka physical hona could not be justified (emotionally)

Also in our culture it is also not seen as rape (i m NOT saying its right..but aisa hota hai) ... If they were not married and Umair did it out if pure hater ...then i am sure they would have highlighted it

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

Thats because when Sadia confronted him for being physical with her ...he said that its her game plan..he didnt accept he raped her ..he never doubted himself there ... He thought of Sadia as a cunning older sister who came between him and Zubi

Its possible he will realise Sadia was telling the truth and appologise for forcing himself on her

He will realize now??? What about the time when he accepted baby as his when Sadia said the khuda wali line? I mean how did he think Sadia got pregnant with his baby then? Fairy?

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I mean forgiving him the first time

First time forgiving was because she wanted to give him a chance. Not saying she was right or wrong but she did give him the chance to improve. He failed her by blowing away the chance and accusing her. She and we have bashed him for that.

But he has been punished with his mom death. He never got away from karma

Thats the way I am looking at it.

Originally posted by: sami011

I agree on that ,see first time a relationship in a arranged marriage a weird kind of situation does happen and women don't consider it as rape,it is part of culture ,it is not right but common,it is more forced consummation.she yelled at him as more that we did not want this to be a jayez type of rishta..After that she even told umair your relationship with my sister is not jayez now.so she considered herself fully married to him at that point.But writers needed to handle the situation better.

Yes the writers got confused with alot of things

There is no such thing as forced consummation.. the minute there is force, its rape.. please do not compare this to the awkwardness a couple goes through after an arranged marriage.. in that scenario, both want to proceed but there is hesistancy.. FORCED consummation is not a thing

Originally posted by: Ruby7

First time forgiving was because she wanted to give him a chance. Not saying she was right or wrong but she did give him the chance to improve. He failed her by blowing away the chance and accusing her. She and we have bashed him for that.

But he has been punished with his mom death. He never got away from karma

Thats the way I am looking at it.

How on Earth is his mom dying his Karma?!!! She had cancer.. she would havr died even if he was the best husband to have walked on this planet.. how does this serve as punishment for any of the horrific things he has done?

Post forgiving him, she needed to talk about the night.. explained that she deserved respect.. that she demands respect

Let's kill Zoobie's and Sadia's mom too.. that can be Zoobie's karma and all her son's can wash away.. phr both the couples can have their hapoy ever after

I know they needed to handle it differently,we all considered it as martial rape because writers wrote it this way.We wish it could have shown as hesitation and all ,am still hoping they could shed more light on it,What we are trying to say is this is how makers are showing it...not that we condone such behavior.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

He will realize now??? What about the time when he accepted baby as his when Sadia said the khuda wali line? I mean how did he think Sadia got pregnant with his baby then? Fairy?

He believed her then ... He did appologise but his appology was very vague ...like this time he clearly said 'i am sorry for accusing you wrongly'

last time he appologised for doing wrong with her ... One can interpret that as an appology for rape... Like i said it was vague

Originally posted by: Sammi266

I'm still pushing for Maira as the third Mrs. Ahmer.

Today in the funeral they kept switching between her and Saadia as background and foreground. And on the men's side they were focusing on Ahmer and Umair.

Why are they focusing on Maira? She's a side character's side character.

hell no i cant stand her

wo to ahmer ko kacha kha jayegi