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After watching precap mera ek question hai. Vese ye question mere dil me pahle v aaya pr mene ignor kiya but this time i ask.

Malhaar rane ko vote kijiye as husband of kalyani....

Aap log use 10 me se kitne vote karege. With reason.

My 2or 3/10

Reason-

1- he never trust kalyani.....

Usne sampda k letter pr believe krke kalyani se shaadi ki. ( ok mana us time vo hurt tha.)

Phir uske saath jo behave kiya vo alag

2- kalyani kuch v kr le but he never care of her emotions.

Jb use pata chala ki kalyani ki koi mistake nai thi sampda k bhaagne me.

He slowly behave good with kalyani. Pr jb use pata chala ki uski ma ki death me deshmukh involve hai he again mistreat her.

Even he break his marriage with her on appa death.

3- vo kalyani ko ese treat karta hai jese uski koi feelings hi nahi hai jb dil kiya use hurted kr diya phir sorry bol diya ( pata ni vo v bola ya ni)

He believe or blindly trust on his best friend ( sorry mujhe uska naam yaad ni aa raha) pr use apni wife pr jara v bharosa ni hai..... Had hai.

He always hurt kalyani her emotions or feeling.

Kuch v hua ni ki he said ya to apne pati ko choose karo ya apne mayke ko.

4- he never support kalyani.

Jb v koi problem aayi he never support kalyani.

Bus apna gussa us pr nikal do in precap vo phir se kalyani nko hurt karega.

He never try to understand her point

Or hamari mahaan kalyani hamesa uska point of view samiti hai

Ek 18, 19 saal ki ladki me itni samjdari

She never value herself.....

Some time i think sampda ne malhaar ko chod kr accha kiya. ( i never support sampda)

Hum ye nahi kah sakte ki sampda k chodne k baad malhaar esa ho gya.

Starting me phir v ye baat maan li pr baad me no way.....

He easily forgive his father jinhone apni jhuthi death ka natak kiya.

He easily except her chor sister. He understand her ki koi reason hoga.

But he never support or understand kalyani.

These are my point of view ho sakta hai aap log support or agree kare ya na kare. It's your choice.

But share your opinion.

I want ki kalyani malhaar ko apni importance bataye ki hamesa vo hi kyo understand kare malhaar ko Uski feeling ko. Malhaar ko v karni chahiye she also feel hurt when he never support or trust her......

Guys this is for fun not take it very seriously. Bus mere dil me ek baat aayi so I share.

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Well if u have asked this many things can b said .U can't rate a person by estimate of 10

Fir vi i will give malhar 7 out of 10 and the reasons are as follows

1. Firstly majority males in our Indian society is exactly how Malhar is ! They rarely sees their own family as faulty ppl. They necessarily blames their wife and their family and our father , brother bf or husband's are also like this if u will go through them u will find them exactly . Even Atul who loved kalyani and madhuri and left anu for madhuri said that It was madhuri "sfault that kalyani has become like this when she get married to malhar for second time and Atharv too used to have trust issues though Sampda loved him and left a gem like makhar.

2. Every character in this show has some issue . Kalyani is childish , extremely stubborn and unpredictable which depicts the quality of somewhat Sati and mata Parbati . But at the same time she is immensely loveable and go to any extent for her husband ,child and others . Like wise Malhar is also very protective ,fidelous and selfless , His love for kalyani can't b questioned .He is exactly how Lord Shiva is !Rudra rosh ka matlab hi hota hai Angry like Shiv ! ,He has major anger and trust issues . We can't expect kalyani and malhar to uthe epitome of perfection .What he did in case of sampada was his trauma , what he did in case of Appa was his fault even believing Ketki over Kalyani was his mistake that's why I have deducted 3 marks but at the same time if u would see men who are very honest and selfless can't hide their emotions specially anger and sorrow . The sudden Lavni dance was very abrupt for him and malhar is habitually a reactionary character . He uses his brain while solving cases but totally depends on emotion when it comes to his family .This is how malhar had been made by the makers as cvs . And I would suggest just don't get misled by the 2 seconds precap watch the entire episode first .Appa ki case main malhar galay tha par swara ki case mein usne jab vi gussa kiya kalyani ki kisi harqat ki wajah se kiya. Jo vi hai uske liye sirf malhar galat nhi hai .Both kalma are responsible . I hope nine is hurt. Mard aise hi hote hai.

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

Well if u have asked this many things can b said .U can't rate a person by estimate of 10

Fir vi i will give malhar 7 out of 10 and the reasons are as follows

1. Firstly majority males in our Indian society is exactly how Malhar is ! They rarely sees their own family as faulty ppl. They necessarily blames their wife and their family and our father , brother bf or husband's are also like this if u will go through them u will find them exactly . Even Atul who loved kalyani and madhuri and left anu for madhuri said that It was madhuri "sfault that kalyani has become like this when she get married to malhar for second time and Atharv too used to have trust issues though Sampda loved him and left a gem like makhar.

2. Every character in this show has some issue . Kalyani is childish , extremely stubborn and unpredictable which depicts the quality of somewhat Sati and mata Parbati . But at the same time she is immensely loveable and go to any extent for her husband ,child and others . Like wise Malhar is also very protective ,fidelous and selfless , His love for kalyani can't b questioned .He is exactly how Lord Shiva is !Rudra rosh ka matlab hi hota hai Angry like Shiv ! ,He has major anger and trust issues . We can't expect kalyani and malhar to uthe epitome of perfection .What he did in case of sampada was his trauma , what he did in case of Appa was his fault even believing Ketki over Kalyani was his mistake that's why I have deducted 3 marks but at the same time if u would see men who are very honest and selfless can't hide their emotions specially anger and sorrow . The sudden Lavni dance was very abrupt for him and malhar is habitually a reactionary character . He uses his brain while solving cases but totally depends on emotion when it comes to his family .This is how malhar had been made by the makers as cvs . And I would suggest just don't get misled by the 2 seconds precap watch the entire episode first .Appa ki case main malhar galay tha par swara ki case mein usne jab vi gussa kiya kalyani ki kisi harqat ki wajah se kiya. Jo vi hai uske liye sirf malhar galat nhi hai .Both kalma are responsible . I hope nine is hurt. Mard aise hi hote hai.

What I have figured out with Malhar is that more than trust issues, he is very insecure. He is insecure that Kalyani will leave him.

What he did when Appa died was terrible. But he did it because he was insecure. That's the problem when your wife cheats on you - you become very insecure. He trusted Sampada BLINDLY, treated her like a queen, but she still left him in the worst way possible. Now, he loves Kalyani, but he is insecure that she will leave him, especially cause he knows how BADLY he treated her in the beginning. This trust/insecurity issues will take him likely years to get over completely, thats just the reality of it. Yes, Malhar should make a better effort, but I think after Appa's death, he has made a better effort. The whole Kethki thing was more of him being angry/insecure rather than him not trusting her per se.

As for the precap, let's see what happens cause sometimes they are misleading.

Problem is when he is happy or in good mood or in favourable situation , he enjoys kallu 's antics . But when it comes to serious ones he thinks kalyani is being childish . He scolds him like a father or a gurdian , but he loves her as a husband .Malhar himself is in a very dicey situation where he really can't take the risk of being secured bcoz kalyani sometimes did things in a wrong way .Her intentions were right today , her intention to expose ketki was right too. But her execution waz wrong . When she saw Swara is not comfortable with the anklet and bapji also had an issue she could have wait for malhar , she rarely discusses things with him .Doing the lavni or feigning that she is unconscious after Shark attack waz partly her mistake and partly malhar 's issue of insecurity .This couple has only one prob they don't discuss except pillu or Atharav"s matter. And we should not forget generally kaka is there to show malhar the right path. But in both cases, Ketki and Swara .Kaka himself had been in A very jittery position.He had to hide why ketki was blackmailing him and now he is hiding a dark past . I hope malhar soon get hold of the truth .

I'm not going to rate him as a husband here but I agree with your points and thoughts because whatever you have written is actually true, can't deny or justify😅😅 no need to say but Thing is that's how male leads are..they are incomplete without their arrogance and angry young man looks..if they don't hurt or manhandle female lead how chemistry will develop between these two opposite people😁. Just few romantic lovey dovey moments and everything will be sorted😜

Not sure I can rate him as husband.

He need to do a lot to gain points from me as I feel Kalyani as my daughter so no points yet😡

I will rate him as 9 out of 10

because though he is flawed character

he is best husband

he was even ready to die for her

you are the best Malhar ji

I deducted 1 mark because of his behaviour during initial phase of their first marriage

though I don't support his behaviour during Appa case, it was CVs fault just to create misunderstanding and to show OTT drama

during Ketki issue CVs unnecessarily showed trust issues, so I will never blame him for this

and CVs flip Malhar's character and waste months development for unnecessary characters

sometimes to glorify female lead they butcher male lead and I don't support this though I love Kalyani also

anyway whatever it may be I just want KalMa to be together and deal with all the issues

He loves her but he takes her for granted sometimes. He pours his anger/frustration on her because he considers her as someone very near n dear but that does not mean that kallu is a punching bag. He has shown how much he cares for her but he holds back on expressing his love fully...Maybe he is scared of falling in love after sampadas betrayal. Kallu despite her age is very understanding. But I think the CVs show beautiful kalma moments but take 1step back for every 2 steps forward which makes the overall progress slow.

This what every husbands or male leads do. Aren't we have grown up seeing the same thing in our real life thing too ! Kalyani must stop forgiving him each and every time . Malhar basically is such a husband who will earn in the day and would spent his night with his wife ,child and others . That he would never cheat kalyani for any other woman has given him the most reverred place but at the end of the day like every husband he would vent on all his anger and frustration on his wife what usually every indian husband's does no matter how deeply and truly they are in love . Kalyani must stop forgiving him and left him for once .She only does this when Anu or Moksh is in danger . She literally yelled at Malhar in police station when she was attacked by ketki's goon and demanded security. Kalyani did the same when Anu was kidnapped , She never stood for herself when Malhar vents out his wrath .She only does it when she senses that Anu or pillu is in danger . At one point we don't want we don't want separation and on the other we want Malhar to be a calm and understanding man who never scolds his wife can't b achieved at same time . He is the same man who can donate his eye , sacrifice his life , sacrifice his child to her .But at the same time Kalyani is the only person on whom he can pour out his anger . He had always been like this .

I just want KalMa to be together

separation is headache

and I don't want Kalyani to leave him