in these type of situations selfishness of babita comes to the fore..the fact that she went upstairs found her daughter sleeping nd didnt come down proves it..she wanted to feel better abt herself ki my daughter is my priority nd ll remain so, i m a good mother..also she didnt want to be there with him that was clear.. its not only abt HS i m talking its abt minnie also infact more abt her relationship with minnie.. correct me if m wrong but there has never been a single instance where she has ACTUALLY put minnie above herself... like minnie has done soo many times saying babes k liye kuch bhi even if it hurts her like anything.. i think babita is the most weak personality i have ever seen on TV.. her saying teri vajah se shaadi me rahi to making her returning the jewellry or slapping her nd so much more.. she doesnt have it in her what HS nd minnie has.. to be able to love selflessly.. her constantly telling minnie that she ll break the marriage if minnie doesnt want makes me think is it ur unconditional love for ur daughter speaking ya phir u r scared to carry that guilt if sumthing bad happens, that it ll make u feel worse abt urself nd ll paint a bad image of u as a mother for the society..
i may be wrong in my assumptions but babita is one hell of a character.. i can never justify ashok ever but the fact that she didnt even put up a fight to be with him in london..speaking of which it is convenient to put the blame on others for not doing justice by u.. it ticks me off when women doesnt stand up for themselves..