Why does Babita always need a jolt to act? Why can’t she for once understand the delicacy of situation? Why does she always need someone to make her understand?
Then what did you learn from life so far? What did you learn from your struggle? Nothing. Nada. Nulla. Zero. Ek bada sa gol anda. Shunya.
I am so so annoyed with her. Her reactions are stupid.
I totally agree. Minnie is very sensitive right now so anything she hears there's a chance of taking it the wrong way.
Exactly...and the words chosen by lala were not so good to hear for any child...
No he wasn't expecting a SR, but he wasn't expecting to be left all alone on the night of their wedding, especially after the what had happened. He had stood by her and given her moral support.
Why didn't Babita place this condition of daughter ke father before the wedding? Also, why is she deciding on behalf of Minnie? What if Minnie doesn't want HS as her father? Babita can't force either of them. First Babita tested his love for her, now she wants to test his love for Minnie. Jeez.
maybe babita did not feel the need to place such a condition because she saw HS behaving like a father, specially in the hospital and then when he himself declared it in the puja.
now she is making it clear because she can see and feel the tension.
@Bold - why shouldnt you test your love? why shouldnt you want assurance that the person whom you love will always love you back? in real life dont we ask our partner what you can do for me? is it so wrong if babita asked the same question, though in a bit twisted way that it hurt HS, but the question was not wrong. specially for someone who has been hurt so badly by her husband, it is very natural to want reassurance at all time, particularly in the begining.
and why should a woman not make sure that the man she is marrying, will love her child as well. babita never questioned HS love for mini. his insecurities which arose because he did not talk to mini, (from the way mini behaved, it was pretty clear from her end that HS is a part of her family, maybe not as dad right now, but still a fatherly figure) made the mother question the man she married. any mother would. heck if a biological father doubted his child in such a manner, even a biological mom would question the man she married - maybe not so abruptly but still she would.
Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk
today's episode was heart breaking on different levels.
1. mini is a child. no matter how mature she is, if someone questions the bond that has been your anchor for life then it will hurt. whether the society questions it, or HS indirectly questions it. she will break down very badly and her outburst is now what is needed for everyone to gain clarity. her outburst will give clarity to babita and HS as well since she is very much a part of both. literally and figuratively. her questions will show babita how much her venom hurt mini, because while she showed in actions how much mini means to her, a teenager going through such a phase is bound to question everything. even her birth.
her questions will also clear HS doubt and insecurities that she did not want him as a father. the issue is HS himself did not/ does not want to talk to mini. and mini does not know why HS behaved the way he did, why he questioned/ doubted her so much because of 1 CD.
her outburst will question all that babes said and all that HS said, and the society. i want her to question lala as well.
2. HS has his expectations set too high. knowing how much babes the mother cares for mini, he still expected her to be waiting as a bride, after everything he said and babes kept on requesting him to be quiet. she is still babes the mother, not babita the wife. and HS did not even bother talking about what happened, what he said, just started talking about his mother - which is not entirely wrong, but not correct either. And i did not like the sindoor dani scene. That box held the sindoor which his mom applied for an abusive husband. to give babita the same knowing what she has faced, specially without discussing anything... And to think that she will become his wife just because of some rituals and stop being babes...Also his questions in the morning about why babita didnt come back were again insensitive. so not HS. he usually understands but either he is too hurt to see anything or he is deliberately asking such questions- should become clear once his POV is shown. But whatever the reason literally attacking the mother is not the way to win your wife's heart. also the room sharing. HS has had a propoer married relation and would obviously be more comfortable sharing a room. but knowing that babita has never shared a room with her husband, he should have approached her and talked to her.
3. babes the mother - she is still very much the mother and she will always remain a mother first, not only because her and mini's relation was her anchor, but because mini was the only one with her in her times of need. HS supported a lot, but he did come a bit later. i cant fault babes the mother for wanting to check on her daughter. she realised how hurt mini would be after everything that happened. what she said to HS was needed. he literally seems to have forgotten that mini is there, that he has hurt someone who loves him a lot, forget love, that there is a young girl who had supported him in the past.
4. babita the wife - she does not exist for now. babita has never known what a husband wife relation is and she will find the balance slowly but surely. the wife will not be able to find the balance until and unless the mother finds the balance between her daughter and the father. and the mother who got married has made it clear.
5. lala - absolutely hate him. did not like the look he gave mini. he could have used better words to convey his message. he tells mini "tumhari zarurat nahi hai". is mini a piece of garbage to be thrown out? is she a piece of furniture that we sell once it is old? this was so not right. and why is he questioning/ advising mini. she is a child. why not try to talk to the adults before breaking the spirit of a girl?
HS needed to hear the words from babes. he very conveniently said, it is a small family, mother, daughter and father. when just a few hours ago he literally said that he could not be the father.
mini is a part of HS and babita's relation, no matter whatever anyone says. once a child comes into a husband wife equation, they become parents first. they always keep their children above and before all, even their partners. here the issue is that babes is already a mother but HS is not a father. now i understnad what the PH was trying to convey with the tweet. they used the wrong word "impress" becuase HS was not trying to impress babita or mini, he just did not realise all the responsibilities of being a father.
The precap - it seems as if babes is tensed about mini's whereabouts and she is hiding in her shell. HS expressions looked as if he ws least bothered. As if he did not care where mini was... though i will wait for tomorrows episode. maybe he just didnt know that mini was not at home.
HS never said he did not want to be a father, unless I missed an entire scene.
I felt really bad for him, especially when he was trying to have a simple conversation with her. What a start to the day.
He is going to see Babita's obsession with Minnie, tell her off about it at one point, and then Babita will have a big fight with him about how he doesn't care about her.
This will definitely happened... HS phatega air bura barsega apni biwi pe...
I totally agree. Minnie is very sensitive right now so anything she hears there's a chance of taking it the wrong way.
i will agree to disagree here.
i think any child of any age will be hurt if they are told by anyone, specially someone whom your parent considers a friend, that you are no longer needed in your parents relationship.
a child suffering from depression will take it worse, but any child would be hurt.
Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26
Babita needs to step up and help mend HS and Minni’s relationship. Ye kya karrahi hai babita 😕
Khud jaane yaar... Uska obsession zyada ho raha hai... I doubt who need more counceling Minni or Babita... 🤔
Are we going to get another countdown scene and her being rude to him? God, no please.
i dont think so. maybe she will say something like i wanted to give you privacy or i want to sleep with dadu biji today.
i dont think she will get angry given her state of mind and the delicate situation.
Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk
i will agree to disagree here.
i think any child of any age will be hurt if they are told by anyone, specially someone whom your parent considers a friend, that you are no longer needed in your parents relationship.
a child suffering from depression will take it worse, but any child would be hurt.
Minnie is already in depression and it's getting worse.
I've been in her exact spot in my own teenage years. Constantly wondering why was I even born, what purpose do I have in life, what do I have to offer my parents that my brother can't already fulfill?
I know how bad it can get. That's why I'm saying she desperately needs help. If these worries aren't chased away, it will just get worse and worse.
Anupamaa
