It's all about trust: ajao saray - Page 40

Hs please go back to work for your own safety and sanity and leave these crazy ladies on there own. As you will never win with them but will drive you to drink which you will not be able to do.

Better still do more Overtime and get money in the Bank instead for Mini studies etc.

Now I'm just laughing at all the messages on social media inviting us to Hanita's wedding!

Kis liye tha woh sab? Yeh dekhne ke liye?

Originally posted by: inlieu

Now I'm just laughing at all the messages on social media inviting us to Hanita's wedding!

Kis liye tha woh sab? Yeh dekhne ke liye?

Loll, I was thinking the same. Especially the "mere babes ki shaadi hai" wala promo. Itni saari khushian kiske liye thi? Hanita ke liye toh nayi thi.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Thoughts:

1. So we immediately jump into the wedding where Minnie is doing the ghat bandhan.
   
   Hanita did not look happy at all. It honestly looked like someone is forcing them to get through with this. I don't think I have ever seen such a grumpy dulha dulhan before.
   
   Minnie taking retreating steps while Hanita do their phere was heart breaking. It was interesting that during the phere her mind was consumed by her Hanuman Uncle. From her first meeting with him to all the times when he has given her sage advice and supported her. Less on his equation with Babita because she doesn't know their bond well, but she was definitely thinking about her relationship with him. What he has come to mean for both of them since their initial meeting. And for all of that to culminate with that atoot vishwaas being broken - heart wrenching.
   
   
2. Her stumbling without looking back is yet again another sign that if she doesn't have her friends backing her up, then she will harm herself really badly.
   
   Minnie emphasized a lot on trust because she knows that's what's gone from her rishta with HS. He no longer trusts her and that is devastating. In a way, Minnie too, doesn't trust her life anymore because she doesn't know where she stands with Hanita. But I greatly appreciated when they all came in for the group hug. It goes to show that friends can also be your family, and in a way they're even more important and special because it's your chosen family. They're going to help Minnie a LOT in the coming future.
   
   
3. A huge contrast in the mother-daughter as Minnie is preparing herself to live a life independently from her mother but Babes is constantly on the look out for her. Ek second ke liye bhi door kya chali jaati hai, Babita ki toh jaan nikal jati hai. This is going to be a huge problem for them in the future.
   
   Can we talk about how happy HS was seeing Babita with his sindoor in her maang? She was finally his WIFE. But Babita on the other hand, had no sign of happiness. It didn't even seem like she got married. 🤔
   
   
4. The Khuranas. Frankly, I think this scene went on a little long. I'm glad that they at least came to their senses and didn't start blaming Babita for all their misdeeds. Minnie wanting to keep her relationship with them alive is understandable as well. But for her to leave in the middle of Babes' wedding just to go check up on them was a bit much...
   
   
5. Again, Babita with her Minnie kahan hai. 😵 Saath mein khara dulhe ki toh kissi ko pari nahi. I really didn't like how we barely got to see HS today. Bhai shaadi hai uski, kuch toh dekhao!
   
   You know what for that matter, even the WEDDING wasn't focused on Hanita. It was all about MINNIE. 😡 They could have shown us glimpses into Hanita's minds as to how they're feeling about the shaadi, what kind of memories are they flashing back to, but noooooo, har cheez mein toh Minnie ko ghusana tha. 😡
   
   
6. The bidaai scene and the flashbacks were brutal. Minnie truly feels like her Babes is gone now. This points out to how she really doesn't consider HS to be her own. If she had accepted him whole heartedly, then I don't think this fear would have been there. If she had considered HS to be her father, then she could have seen it as her mother marrying her father. But she sees it as her mother marrying Hanuman Uncle, which are two completely different things.
   
   
7. I'm actually really disappointed with the grah pravesh. How did HS not remember Minnie? Heck, the guy didn't even look back at her even once. I guess, when he had put out his wish, he had wanted his beti to bring her mummy into the house and they come in together. But if he doesn't even have a beti, then would that wish still stand?
   
   
8. HS had eyes only for Babita. Even though he was in the background and blurry, you could the softy, loving eyes he has for her. Beti se toh rishta complicated hogaya, at least biwi tho hogi iski saath.
   
   
9. Precap: And here comes my anger for Babita!
   
   THE HELL ARE YOU HARPING ON ABOUT WOMAN!!! First priority is Minnie, - WE ALL FCKING KNOW!!! And the AUDACITY she has to say that if Minnie isn't happy then I'm not happy and this rishta holds no value for me - THE FCCKKKKKK!!!!!
   
   She seriously makes me want to cut a btch!!
   
   Bechara HS. Kitna khush lag ra tha, aur saara pani phel diya. Beti bhi gayi aur Maa bhi. BABITA GET THE HELL OUTTA HIS ROOM.
   
   The OBSESSION these two have on each other, my gosh. Hamesha, MINNIE MINNIE MINNIE. FINE, I GET IT, she's your beti but ab pati bhi hai tumhara! USKA KYAAA?????
   
   Inn dono se acha toh HS Imarti ki yaadon ke saath tha.
   
   Get the fck outta here with all this nonsense. I have no patience for Minnie or Babita anymore.

I nodded throughout. Agree with mostly everything.

By the way:

#3 I think he wanted to be happy but his smile did not reach his eyes. He looked unconvinced and unconvincing as a new husband

#7 He was in zombie mode, I don't think he was even aware of his surroundings anymore. His previous dreams were completely out of the picture. I do want some introspection from him on how he felt in those moments.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, I was thinking the same. Especially the "mere babes ki shaadi hai" wala promo. Itni saari khushian kiske liye thi? Hanita ke liye toh nayi thi.

But that was true though. It really was mainly about her Babes ki shaadi. We just didn't get the message. 🤣

Originally posted by: guddi01

Hs please go back to work for your own safety and sanity and leave these crazy ladies on there own. As you will never win with them but will drive you to drink which you will not be able to do.

Better still do more Overtime and get money in the Bank instead for Mini studies etc.

Leave HS, mini should leave to do her photography course which she so wanted to do.

1) it will not give chance to khuranas to make her more bechari & make her feel outsider in HB marriage

2) She will be doing something she likes so it will give her a direction in life after her babes project got over.

3) she wont have to bear hanuman ignoring her and not trusting her. By the time she comes back for a vacation or something hanuman would get proof that mini dint put the CD purposefully or he would come to his senses & realise that mini dint do it.

Even after mini cleared that she wanted HB to marry HS still dint look towards her or even acknowledge her. so it is going to be a long time before he realizes it. And its better mini dosent live around a toxic situation like this.

Mini needs to go away for some time & in a real life situation this would have been a very viable option. but this is ITV so a lot of drama has to be created on it if mini goes how will drama & story come

Originally posted by: naq5

Leave HS, mini should leave to do her photography course which she so wanted to do.

1) it will not give chance to khuranas to make her more bechari & make her feel outsider in HB marriage

2) She will be doing something she likes so it will give her a direction in life after her babes project got over.

3) she wont have to bear hanuman ignoring her and not trusting her. By the time she comes back for a vacation or something hanuman would get proof that mini dint put the CD purposefully or he would come to his senses & realise that mini dint do it.

Even after mini cleared that she wanted HB to marry HS still dint look towards her or even acknowledge her. so it is going to be a long time before he realizes it. And its better mini dosent live around a toxic situation like this.

Mini needs to go away for some time & in a real life situation this would have been a very viable option. but this is ITV so a lot of drama has to be created on it if mini goes how will drama & story come

Don't tell me HS will carry on mistrusting her?! That is so out of character for him. Come on, CVs!!!

Originally posted by: inlieu

But that was true though. It really was mainly about her Babes ki shaadi. We just didn't get the message. 🤣

LMAO, and we say Babita is slow. 🤣

Originally posted by: inlieu

Don't tell me HS will carry on mistrusting her?! That is so out of character for him. Come on, CVs!!!

He needs to talk this out with someone. Right now, he's just stuck in his head and is festering all this negativity. But once he talks it out, hopefully with Naeem Bi, he'll see how stupid he was being in blaming Minnie for the CD. Her not considering him her father is a valid reason to be upset about and it's okay if he's still hung up on that. But for him to think that she'll deliberately do this to hurt him, is not.

This is so depressing. I don’t wanna watch Hanita suffer. They were finally getting a second chance in life 😭.

Babita ko agar yesa lagta hai ki without Minnie, she can’t nibhao this relationship then they should opt for anullment. I mean it’s been less than 24 hours.