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September 11 Pair Chuna Gestures, Grattitude & Maafi
My heartiest request this thread will Only Discuss Akshat Jindal Pair Chuna Scene pre Kasam Vade. Please keep this thread away from Akshans Kasame Vaade. Thank you
I don’t know what Manzil is for Akshan in their Marital Raasta but I am going to just focus at the present n appreciate the gesture that Akshat Jindal did. If I worry about the Future of Akshan I wont be able to enjoy the Now Moment the Present😊The gesture of Akshat Jindal bowing infront of his wife and touching Guddan feet was just beautiful and touched my heart.❤️
“Ek mard ka sir sirf teen auraton ke saamne jhukta hai. Ek apni maa ke saamne, ek Durga Ma ke Saamne aur Ek apni Patni Ke Saamne”Rahul Khanna Kuch Kuch Hota Hai
Today once again Akshat Jindal proved that his head only gets bowed infront of 3 ladies: His Mother, Godness Durga & His Wife
- His Mother: the person who brought him in the world & gave him Sanskar & taught him how to behave in his world. Even though Dadi wasn’t present there with Akshan or AJ, a mother’s spirit is always with their children whether she is alive or dead, through her teaching, her guidance, her advisor and her upbringing. As we get older, we sometimes forget we always have our Mother Teachings to guide us in our life whether its good or bad phase of our life, if we close our eyes n remember her she and her advise will be there in our mind and heart. Thank you Mom🤗
- Durga Maa: Universal Mother Parvati Devi Durga or in her demon-fighting aspect, Kali, is the goddess of power, beauty, love, and spiritual fulfillment, as well as consort of Shiva, the destroyer of evil or transformer. She also represents the transformational power of divinity, the power that dissolves the multiplicity of the Hindu gods into their unity. Courtesy Wikipedia
- His Patni Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal, his Jeevan Saathi, his better half, his Ardhangini, his Equal his Shakti Power & Strength in good or bad times in trials and tribulations of life.
Durga Mandir Symbolizes
- Hats of to CVs to being creative, showing a symbolic gesture via the characters of Akshat Jindal, Guddan Akshat Jindal as individual and Akshan as couple. CVs cleverly chose Durga Mandir for Akshan marriage and this gesture where Akshat Jindal the husband touches his wife feet
- Akshat Jindal and Guddan Jindal are Shiv & Parvati as a couple and they are equal despite their age gap & many difference.
- Akshan are Ardhnarishwar Meaning In Akshat Jindal you will find Guddan and in Guddan Akshat Jindal you will find Akshat Jindal whether through their words, gestures or antics. They reside in each others heart, mind, body and soul.
- Durga Mandir is symbolic despite Guddan being 18 years younger than AJ,she is Equal, His Shakti & his Power-His Pillar of Strenght. In the previous Epsiode he
- Guddan similar to Devi Parvarti can be innocent, young, inexperience, delicate, stubborn, determine, without direction but in time of need she can awake the Durga MA within her determine, strong, power & shows her inner Strenght
- We know that time of Akshan separation is coming near. Todays Akshan scene indicated that in the future after the leap Guddan will have Strenght, Engergy & Power to stand on her own feet where despite AJ having Strenght, power, engery he will seek Guddan Yaadein, to give him solace, peace, engery to live each day in his life, maybe he will feel guilt or not. Here a woman head is held high because they have Emotional, Mental & Physical Strenght within them despite their Exterior being portrayed as Delicate Flower. Here it was Akshat Jindal who was emotional and emotionally weak while demonstrating his gratitude for his wife, his Ardhangani Guddan Akshat Jindal.
What does it mean?
- In Indian culture, Patni always touch their Pati’s feet to show respect to your husband because Pati Parmeshwar Husband is God. Its indication that your are bowing down to your spouse
- For a man like Akshat Jindal bowing infront of his wife despite her being 18 years younger than him is very huge step. AJ the business tycoon as come a long way in becoming Akshat Jindal to becoming Guddan’s Jindal Saab. 😳
- In a India society if a wife considers her Pati: A Pati Parmeshwar, so as Husband he is considering his wife Guddan Akshat Jindal as Godness, a Devi
- A husband or a man doesnt become Chota if they touch the feet of the woman from their life, who they respect, love, care and appreciate.
Action Speaks Louder than Words
- AKshat Jindal was very emotional, grateful, overwhelmed with his feelings and gratitude for his wife and he didnt have any words to show how grateful he felt so he expressed his feeling by touching her feet. He showed grattitude, appreciate and thankfulness towards his Dharam Patni Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal forgiving him for giving her Haq to another Woman (indicated but mentioned as mistake) and accepting him back into her life. Returning the Pyar, Vishwas & their Rea
- Akshat Jindal’s gesture showed to Guddan & the audience that: as a husband not only does he respect and love Guddan but he is willing surrender himself in her shelter, in her guidance, and her place in his heart, in his mind always hold the same reverence similar to Godness Durga & His Mother, higher than his Head.
- A person head symbolises who they are as individual & what they have achieved: Pride, Status, Ego,Age, Money, Knowledge, Experience
- As far as I recall & my memory goes, I have not seen Guddan as wife bow infront of AJ or touch his feet that opportunity never came. Since Day 1 despite their age gap and many differences, Guddan Akshat jindal wanted to be equal to her husband in every sense.
- As wife Guddan wasn’t happy that her Jindal Saab touched her feet or bowed infront of her, because his Respect, His Pride & Honor matters to her very much no matter how much she is upset or hurt by him. He will always be her Garv, the invisible or visible crown of her head.
- Today another day that Akshat Jindal not only with his gesture but with words showed how much Guddan Akshat Jindal means to him. After Guddan is gone, somehow I feel this will be a key of how Akshat Jindal remembers and reserves Guddan’s Memory with her trinkets
Shoulder Hold
- Guddan made her Jindal Saab stand on his feet, by touching his his shoulders with both of her hands and making him get up. Indication that as his wife she wants to be equal in everything and pridly walk next to him shoulder to shoulder.
- Woman as Wife doesnt wanted to be treated as “Devi” in her husband life & in his family, she wants “Respect, Equality, Love & to be Understood”
Why is this important?
- It’s a big thing for Guddan (forgiver) and Akshat Jindal (pardon)side. As forgiver Guddan Akshat Jindal forgave her husband, her Jindal Saab for his mistake and accepted him in her life with full Respect, Pyar & Vishwas letting go of everything from the past.
- For each individual its sometimes really hard to forgive and forget about a persons mistake if they hurt you and broken your trust.
- Today Akshakt Jindal as husband “obtained pardon for his sins.” He didnt commit crime, but in his and his wife eyes he was her Criminal, for letting go of her Saath & giving her Haq to Doosri Aurat.
Guddans Apology & AJs response
- Guddan Akshat Jindal also apologised, accepted, and admitted for her mistake n causing Dard & Talqeef to her Pati & not accepting him as her Pati.
- AJ understood that it was his mistake that made Guddan react the way she did, so he didnt blame her for her actions, n he didnt let her apologise, he even tried to stop her but Guddan apologised.
Overall Analysis
- Today Akshat Jindal the Larger than Life, Business Tycoon, who has Name, Fame, Money, is Experienced Knowelgable, Established, showed that despite what he has earned in his life, it doesnt matter. In his Realtionship, in his Marriage with his Wife despite their Age Gap & POV difference they are Equal.
- If a husband can be treated has Parmeshwar by their Patni than a Wife should be treated like a Devi by their Husband.
- Before the Kasame Vaade Gestures, Grattitude and Apolgoy was displayed from both Akshat Jindal through Pair Chuna & Guddan Jindal via hands folding.
- In a Marriage, it doesnt become a failure or successful due to one spouse, success and failure results from efforts from the both parties the Husband & Wife as individual & couple.
- In the gesture there was no Ego, Attitude, Inequality both Akshat & Guddan Jindal as individual and couple “Akshan” showed their gratitude, respect n love towards their spouse and admitted their faults/mistakes.
- No matter how big the Trials & Tribualations Cirumstances or Time brings in a Individuals, Couple or Married Life, what matters is if their is Togetherness of Couple & they have Trust, Understanidng, Respect, Gratitude, & Equality for each other their marriage & love can survive all storms created by Destiny or 3rd Party
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