Logon ka kaam hai kehna: ajao saray - Page 10

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Precap for tomorrow -- Ashnoor looks tired. Lagta hai thak gai ladki itne sare dance performances karte karte.

Throughout this shadi track, she has shot for the max time.

Take rest yar.

She injured herself!!!

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

When? I missed it.

When Preet discloses the photo shoot idea, she says dhaaein sa idea hai 😆

Thoughts:

1. Something pricked in Khatri's mind seeing everyone happy. It's no wonder he resorted to alcohol to give him the spirit to tarnish everyone's mood.
   
   
2. My heart went out to Kammo today. She isn't blind to Khatri's actions. She was the first one to run to him and tell him to stop making a scene and was trying to maintain some level of peace. It's not her fault that Khatri went out of line and started making crude comments about Minnie.
   
   What really ticked her off was when Babita said, "Inn ghatiya logon ko invitation kisne kiya?"
   
   Despite their shaky past, Kammo came to not only like Babita but also respect her. That respect got extended to HS as well as she tied a rakhi onto him and made him her brother. Babita calling her "ghatiye" dismissed all of Kammo's feelings and the relationship she had tried to create with them. She had genuinely believed that regardless of how Khatri behaved with them, at least she can have an independent relationship with them. And changing Khatri's mentality isn't something that's going to happen overnight. It's going to take time and she genuinely tries every chance she gets. Her efforts, however, were once again ignored.
   
   So Kammo transformed her hurt into anger and lashed back onto Babita, Minnie and HS. She repeatedly told them that she isn't blind to Khatri's actions. She can see and understand everything. However, as she said her respect is intermingled with Khatri's. If people gossip or talk shit about him, it's going come back at her. If she walks in society, they're obviously going to point her out and talk about her. There have been many times that Minnie has said mean things about Khatri and while they may be right, she didn't take into consideration how it might hurt Kammo. He is after all her husband. She had once said that if he doesn't mend his ways then she'll leave him, but will she actually go through with it? Does she have that kind of courage? If I remember correctly, she has a child too. Will that child be willing to go with her like Minnie did? I don't think so. If she does leave, then would her maayka accept/support her or will she also have to find a place of her own to live?
   
   In regards to the whole spectacle that took place, Khatri was the least effected by it. He got drunk, spewed his venom, and then just stood to the side watching all the drama unfold. He got what he wanted: he rattled this so called "perfect, happy family" and pinched some really raw nerves. They may have stood as a united front in front of everyone but in their absence, these same questions are going to haunt them in their post married life.
   
   
3. I don't agree with Minnie getting married as she is too young and neither do I think she's going to be a "haddi" for her parents. Rather, she has always been the one to push them towards spending more time with one another. They're getting married after all, thoda romance shomance toh banta hai.
   
   If anything, I think Minnie might get hung up on the point that she'll be a constant reminder of Ashok and what he did to Babes. As a result, she might feel guilty and feel even more responsible for wanting to keep Babes happy.
   
   
4. HS being restrained is understandable. It's a happy occasion and he didn't want to dampen the mood anymore than it already was. Moreover, however Khatri is, he is Kammo's husband. The woman who had come to consider him as her brother. I think it's for the sake of that relationship as well that HS kept his cool.
   
5. Thoroughly enjoyed Ashnoor's acting when she put on a front of being happy. Mickey of course saw right through it. He knows Minnie was hurt by what went down and just wanted her to express it. It was a bit unusual for her to not get angry and release her frustration. Usually she's quick to point out what's bothering her. This time around she kept quiet partially because she knows Mickey knows her too well. If she speaks, then she just won't stop and right now was not the right time for her to break down. She had to be strong for her Babes.
   
   Mickey's concern for her is quite ominous. The continual advises he has been giving her makes it seem as if he has seen someone else go through this exact same thing before and it didn't end well. Thus, for her sake, he's constantly trying to prevent her from going over the deep end.
   
   
6. Both Hanita declared Minnie being first for them. That for her sake, they're willing to sacrifice their own desires and happiness. On one hand it's sweet, on the other I find it bitter as well. It's sweet that they love Minnie so much. Her well being, and her happiness means everything to them. It's also bitter because they're putting everything on hold for her. It almost gives the sense that they need her permission to do every little thing. Marriage is a huge step, that too a second one. Having Minnie's approval was crucial to ensure that they function as a cohesive and happy unit in the future. But what if they want to start a family of their own in the future? Are they going to ask Minnie for her opinion about it or will they just go ahead and do it? What if it ends up being a surprise pregnancy? I know Minnie will be beyond thrilled about having a younger sibling but what if in the off chance she says no? Will they give up their own child? For HS, it'll be his first baby, and for Babita, it'll be a child that was made out of pure love. Will she be willing to give that up?
   
   Those dilemmas are for bigger things. How about for smaller incidents like the sharing of a pizza? Will Minnie start feeling neglected if Hanita decide to do things on their own? Like late night walks, having private conversations, HS confiding in Babita about all his past trauma?
   
   On one hand, no she won't because her parents deserve some alone time and there are some things that only Babes will be able to understand. What about Babes' issues? It's only reasonable for Babes to go to HS with all her problems now. Moreover, Babes has that "don't be sad in front of Minnie" seed sowed into her head too. She will be more reluctant to share her worries with her and will hence gravitate towards HS instead. What will Minnie do now? She had made it her mission in life to keep Babes happy at all cost. Now that she's completed it, what's next? What is in store for Minnie after Babes? I doubt she'll want Babes to continuously undergo problems just so that she can save her. But if she doesn't have this, then what does she have?
   
   This was something that Mickey was continuously trying to tell her but she refuses to listen. Granted it's a wedding and she's too busy with the preparations, but it is something that she'll have to think about at one point or another.
   
   
7. Thoroughly enjoyed the balcony scene. HS glancing around, perhaps to find Babita, or perhaps to make sure no one saw him was cute. Their overall conversation was adorable as well. Babita had taken matters into a more serious territory but I liked how easily HS turned it around into something light. I especially appreciated how openly Babita laughed at his joke. As they're getting closer to be unified, they're becoming more open and relaxed with one another.
   
   Today, Babes openly asked HS what she could do to ease his nervousness but when the subject of his mother would arise, she'll have to figure things out on her own. She'll have to listen to his heart both literally and figuratively. Whatever screams and wails are haunting the child inside of him, she'll have to soothe him. It also prepped the idea that Babita is ready to help HS on his journey of self-reconciliation. She may need a little guidance, but she'll be able to handle it.
   
   
8. Precap: I think this performance of Minnie's is my most favorite. There's something about it that lends a very cute and charming quality to it.
   
   On a more serious side, I have a fear that one day Minnie is going to have a mental breakdown. It hasn't even been a full year and she has had to go through so much psychologically and emotionally. A trip back to the therapist is sorely needed. If not that, then at least a scene where she lets all her thoughts, the good, the bad, and the ugly, out. It'll be great if Mickey is there to witness it as he'll be able to guide her best. (First choice will be HS obviously, but Mickey is the second best.)

Originally posted by: attiya1.3

Sab chiro...yh btao yh babita ka dress haina?

Why minni wearing it?

I said this in the other thread. Ashnoor said in her interview that Babita and Mini will be dressed in the same outfit for wedding. Ab pata nahi kyun? And don’t know why we got bunch of those wedding pictures with Babita in red lehenga. Don’t worry This will all be resolved next week 😆

Originally posted by: tantal

Yes. I think she is quite secure about her position with HS right now. IT's the fear and uncertainty about the forthcoming change in her relationship with Babes that's worrying her.

I would have liked if Babes stayed back after Kammo's tirade to talk and support Minnie instead of dashing upstairs. Kammo's barbs were directed at Minnie and her upcoming loss of importance in the family. SHe needed the reassurance there and then from Babes but somehow Babes thought it was more about her.

I think it'll be better if she doesn't get reassured in words now, but their actions justify it for her gradually. So I'm okay with her not being told that directly.

Babita dashed upstairs - I felt she couldn't face Mini anymore and how cutely she cuddled her the minute Mini came up. And her wanting to cancel the shaadi to make Mini feel important. These are superficial things. Mini needs to understand and process this all by herself only then it'll be solid and life long.

The moment Mini is distancing herself away and they call her and include her in their personal moment, everything else will fade away. Bass utni ki hi deri hai.

I'm so so done with all the dancing and naach gaana now. Bass khatam karo ab and please give me back my daily routines. My eyes are sore of watching these heavy kapde and naach baje everyday. Bass hogaya bhai ab😆

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

And by the grace and brilliance of this exceptional writing, I don't even blame Kammo. What I saw today, according to me was too complex and a brilliant display of human emotions. Maybe Jean and Gur can decode it patiently cause I neither have the heart nor the patience to dive into today's events.

I don't think I will do such a good job. Jean or AY will be able to handle it much better.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I said this in the other thread. Ashnoor said in her interview that Babita and Mini will be dressed in the same outfit for wedding. Ab pata nahi kyun? And don’t know why we got bunch of those wedding pictures with Babita in red lehenga. Don’t worry This will all be resolved next week 😆

Yar red is a brides color.. plzz babita..be in red😅🤣

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I don't think I will do such a good job. Jean or AY will be able to handle it much better.

I am waiting for either since quite sometime now.

Ek baar Jean ka analysis padh loon toh shaanti ho jaaye and it feels complete then. And I'm even more excited cause I've understood today's episode more than I usually understand 😆

Chalo I guess subah hi honge darshan or even later cause she's travelling. Shayad tab tak resolve bhi ho jaayega who knows!

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I liked how Babita asked Hanuman, kya kar sakti hoon mein aapki nervousness kam karne ke liye.

Phew. Finally!!!

He keeps doing everything in his capacity to make her happy. Cheer her mood. Finally babes took that step today. So glad to hear it from her.

Bhens ki poonch.. kaha chali gai thi yeh Babita. Wapis se kho mat dena. Yehi rakhne ise. 😃

actually this is the only scene i liked. rest all left a bad taste. too much drama and venom spewed today