Big Boss Tamil Season 3 - Week 12 Discussion Thread - Page 44

Originally posted by: harini_sowmi

Hi am Harini! Am new to this forum and have been a silent member because my views are quite different from almost everyone's view here. But just couldn't give up answering to your post here. You talk about how people in SM are always following kavin and gang blindly nu. But you should actually see the ppl who actually hate them. They are more vocal and almost every comment is so indecent and vulgar. I dunno why nobody here ever discusses about it. Even now I saw a comment here where kavin is called a womanizer and a pimp. I am not sure what he done to warranty such name calling. Yet nobody here even bats an eyelid. Are we all then hypocrites in some way or another? So y call out the behavior of the HM's when everyone has some double standards and hatred within ourselves. I am sorry if my post has offended anyone. I just wanted to voice out my opinion!! Thanks😃

Hi Harini, welcome to the forum !

This show is about the behavioral patterns of the HM’s and we all criticize,,comment about those. When they signed up for the show, they have allowed us to criticize, comment on the behavior inside the house till the time they are inside the house.

As far as Kavin issue, most of the forum members doesnot like his way of “4 girls” strategy and we are calling out on that. Personally I am against his male chauvinist thinking of girls as “ objects”. He never bothered to check whether the girls are ok with the strategy of flirting.

Why should we not callout his behavior when he has signed up for the show. It is not about how we are personally . I don’t think that it is right for anyone to start comparing each contestant to them personally . Then we will end up in a mess.

Originally posted by: goldiesif

Surprised. Didn't see this post before, but you narrated better.

Thanks goldiesif (Sorry I don't know your real name!) Oru vaasagam nalum thiru vasagama sonnenga 😀

Morning endhichu forum vandha 20 pages thaandiachu. Avlo interesting ah BB la overnight ennada nadandhuchu nu paartha Arr, ilayaraja,movies, songs discussion.😆😆.

Liked Mugen's promo. 👍🏼 So far in all seasons, liked family visit of Vayapuri, Janani & Viji.❤️

Originally posted by: silverfox

Hi Harini, welcome to the forum !

This show is about the behavioral patterns of the HM’s and we all criticize,,comment about those. When they signed up for the show, they have allowed us to criticize, comment on the behavior inside the house till the time they are inside the house.

As far as Kavin issue, most of the forum members doesnot like his way of “4 girls” strategy and we are calling out on that. Personally I am against his male chauvinist thinking of girls as “ objects”. He never bothered to check whether the girls are ok with the strategy of flirting.

Why should we not callout his behavior when he has signed up for the show. It is not about how we are personally . I don’t think that it is right for anyone to start comparing each contestant to them personally . Then we will end up in a mess.

HI silverfox (sorry don't know your real name). I agree with all you have mentioned about the pattern of the show and the right to criticize. I was just talking about how many posts from kavin & co haters in SM are vulgar and some are even puke worthy. Since nobody is perfect here such disgusting name calling is uncalled for. I am always here for healthy discussions

As far as Kavin is concerned. Well I like him (I know I know). I like him because he seem the most human of all the contestants there. He is not perfect., in fact he is a highly flawed individual who has done his fair share of mistakes. But I think he genuinely regrets his flirting and I don't think his intention was to be a chauvinist . I feel he was just carried away because his image has always been that of a fun loving playboy. I think he has so much emotional depth, a calm gentle nature with which he cares for Losliya which is clearly reflected (to me) by the little things he notices in her and a fierce loyalty to his loved ones. He has sincerely tried to turn his way around but the HMs inside never let him forget his past mistakes. It could all very well be an act and I could be mightily disappointed if it turns out to be one! But hey that's life 😀

Originally posted by: ramyvijay

Cheran farewell pic !!

losliya indeed very very sad pa pavam but look @ sherin

ps- i dont ask sherin to cry but she was cried when sakshi left but she always saying cheran close her but nothing visible on her face ,atleast vanitha hold losliya hand (whatever vanitha but she dont have prolong grudge on some one -except tarshan)😆

Originally posted by: harini_sowmi

Hi am Harini! Am new to this forum and have been a silent member because my views are quite different from almost everyone's view here. But just couldn't give up answering to your post here. You talk about how people in SM are always following kavin and gang blindly nu. But you should actually see the ppl who actually hate them. They are more vocal and almost every comment is so indecent and vulgar. I dunno why nobody here ever discusses about it. Even now I saw a comment here where kavin is called a womanizer and a pimp. I am not sure what he done to warranty such name calling. Yet nobody here even bats an eyelid. Are we all then hypocrites in some way or another? So y call out the behavior of the HM's when everyone has some double standards and hatred within ourselves. I am sorry if my post has offended anyone. I just wanted to voice out my opinion!! Thanks😃

Welcome to the forum Harini, no offence taken,Really eager to know your point of view. I assume you support Kavin,

Originally posted by: harini_sowmi

HI silverfox (sorry don't know your real name). I agree with all you have mentioned about the pattern of the show and the right to criticize. I was just talking about how many posts from kavin & co haters in SM are vulgar and some are even puke worthy. Since nobody is perfect here such disgusting name calling is uncalled for. I am always here for healthy discussions

As far as Kavin is concerned. Well I like him (I know I know). I like him because he seem the most human of all the contestants there. He is not perfect., in fact he is a highly flawed individual who has done his fair share of mistakes. But I think he genuinely regrets his flirting and I don't think his intention was to be a chauvinist . I feel he was just carried away because his image has always been that of a fun loving playboy. I think he has so much emotional depth, a calm gentle nature with which he cares for Losliya which is clearly reflected (to me) by the little things he notices in her and a fierce loyalty to his loved ones. He has sincerely tried to turn his way around but the HMs inside never let him forget his past mistakes. It could all very well be an act and I could be mightily disappointed if it turns out to be one! But hey that's life 😀

There you are! You like Kavin because you thing he is more human, regrets flirting and has genuine care for Los. (I don't share the same opinion, but can understand yours)

But my point is about the youth generation who thinks his flirting to be heroic, romantic and justified. I can see lots of posts in that manner.

And reg your previous post. In general, name calling supporting or against someone is bad. But I pointed out the Kandys coz of late am seeing posts supporting their behavior majorly.

Imo, we have all the rights to criticize the contestants as long as they are in their show and within certain yardstick ( again it's a arbitraty limit according to the person)

Before all that: welcome to the forum Harini. Thanks for your post picking up a different perspective

Hello everyone :) Nice wake up song :P

Originally posted by: k_ria2015

Morning endhichu forum vandha 20 pages thaandiachu. Avlo interesting ah BB la overnight ennada nadandhuchu nu paartha Arr, ilayaraja,movies, songs discussion.😆😆.

Liked Mugen's promo. 👍🏼 So far in all seasons, liked family visit of Vayapuri, Janani & Viji.❤️