Originally posted by: slippery_chilka
Ego only came later. I think most of the fault lies with lack of trust from Ansh's side.
That's true. If we consider the husband-wife relationship, I actually don't find Piya at fault. Because would we really want a strong, independent woman to stay in a relationship where her husband openly badmouths her and her deceased mother? I know I won't. Ansh's initial outburst was natural because Adi could get hurt and he himself got hurt pretty badly. But after knowing Piya for so long when he said Piya killed the Makshika Pari - for me that was the point when Ansh lost his credibility totally.
Where I actually find Piya wrong is that she let Adi down big time. She was angry with Ansh, proceeded with the divorce without clarification - fine. But what was her kid's fault in all this? How could she even think that Adi wouldn't miss her? Specially when she herself grew up yearning for her parents' love?
And technically, if Ansh had ever found out about her pregnancy, he could have dragged her to the court if he wanted to. There Piya wouldn't be able to say that she was doing that to protect her kid from the KSs. Ansh may be a horrible husband and they may have problems between them. But he wasn't abusive or a criminal and in the court that could have gone in Ansh's favor.
As a mother, her one decision put the kids at stake. Which is why, it won't be wrong if Adi questions her tomorrow.
But the thing is, your one action doesn't define you. Piya did abandon Adi but she safeguarded Pari from all sides. And when she got to know Adi, she gave him the one thing that every child deserve and desire - a feeling of safety and assurance. Even today Adi confided in her despite having a huge family. So with time, Adi may forgive her too.
But in one way, Ansh crippled Adi mentally too. He was growing up knowing his mother had abandoned him and he was stuck with a forever unhappy dad. He didn't have the assurance that Pari had.
So Ansh has been guilty from all sides. And until now, we haven't seen him taking one single decision in the right direction. Hence, the disgust for his character.
If the makers can redeem him, I will be very much happy because I used to love his character.